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2019 Nurture and Retention Summit Discipling, Nurturing, and Reclaiming The Spiritually Vibrant Adventist Home: Center for Discipling, Nurturing, and Reclaiming Willie Oliver, PhD, CFLE and Elaine Oliver, MA, LGPC, CFLE Directors, Department of Family Ministries General Conference of Seventh-day Adventists World Headquarters April 7, 2019
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Page 1: Discipling, Nurturing, and Reclaiming · several times a month. They might participate in some spiritual activities, but not all of them regularly. • Devotional: Talk about God

2019 Nurture and Retention SummitDiscipling, Nurturing,

and Reclaiming

The Spiritually Vibrant Adventist  Home: Center for Discipling, Nurturing, and ReclaimingWillie Oliver, PhD, CFLE and Elaine Oliver, MA, LGPC, CFLEDirectors, Department of Family MinistriesGeneral Conference of Seventh-day Adventists World Headquarters April 7, 2019

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Most Important Mission Field

“Our work for Christ is to begin with the family, in the home…There is no missionary field more important than this…” EGW, The Adventist Home p. 35.

Page 3: Discipling, Nurturing, and Reclaiming · several times a month. They might participate in some spiritual activities, but not all of them regularly. • Devotional: Talk about God

Types of Households

Nuclear Family

Single Parent

Extended Family

Multi-generational

Empty Nest

Single Adult/Living Alone or with Housemates

Cohabiting Couples

Same-Sex Couples

And more

Page 4: Discipling, Nurturing, and Reclaiming · several times a month. They might participate in some spiritual activities, but not all of them regularly. • Devotional: Talk about God

Trends in 21st Century Households

Boomerang Kids

Millennials Delaying Marriage and Family

“Urban” Family

Post-Christian Culture

Declining Church Attendance

DIY Faith Formation

Page 5: Discipling, Nurturing, and Reclaiming · several times a month. They might participate in some spiritual activities, but not all of them regularly. • Devotional: Talk about God

4 Distinct Profiles of Spiritual Vibrancy*

*Barna Group, Household of Faith Study, 2018

• Dormant: These households do not talk about God or faith together, do not pray together, do not read the Bible together regularly and do not welcome non-family visitors regularly.

• Hospitable: These households welcome non-family visitors several times a month. They might participate in some spiritual activities, but not all of them regularly.

• Devotional: Talk about God or faith together, pray together, read the Bible together regularly. They do NOT welcome non-family visitors at least several times a month.

• Vibrant: Talk about God or faith together, pray together, read the Bible together regularly. They welcome non-family visitors several times a month.

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Key Findings of Barna Group—Households of Faith StudyPresence of children/minors served as a catalyst for vibrancy

Faith formation is connected to and increases with hospitality

Spiritually vibrant homes are characterized by fun and quality time

Faith heritage impacts Christian beliefs and practices for the long-term.

*Barna Group, Household of Faith Study, 2018

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The Spiritually Vibrant Home:Has meaningful, fun, and quality time with family members or housemates in addition to people from outside of the household. Differs from devotional and hospitable households in that they combine both devotional and hospitable attributes. Is intentional about sharing faith activities, feelings, and spiritual conversations . Engages in spiritual coaching.

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What Does a Spiritually Vibrant Home Look Like?

“The atmosphere surrounding the souls of the fathers and mothers [guardians] fills the whole house, and is felt in every department of the home.” EGW, The Adventist Home, p. 16.

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How Does a Spiritually Vibrant Home Contribute to Discipling, Nurturing, and Reclaiming?

Faith formation and development

Faith and spiritual legacy

Hospitality

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* Leaving the Church Study, SDA Archives and Statistics, 2014

Church Observers42%

Reconnect to SDA64%

Attend Church 1-2/week82%

Conflict w/Church Members20%

Marriage and Family Issues34%

Family Worship63%

Profile of Members Who Left SDA Church

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Our family is our first mission field.

People inside our congregations are longing for intimate connections.

There is a vast opportunity for us to reach people through our own family life.

We must make our homes spiritually vibrant.

Implications of Research

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What practical tips or insights can you share with your church family or your own family to set your home up for greater Spiritual Vibrancy?

Write down the names of three persons that you know personally who have left the church or are struggling, and commit to praying for them each day and inviting them to your home for a meal and fellowship.

Discussion

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Recommendations:Create meaningful rituals and relationships.

family dinner games and singing

Equip parents and other guardians to be spiritual coaches Engage in spiritual activities regularly Hospitality is Key!

Find ways to include new converts in spiritual practices not learned in their families of origin Adopt a visitor, neighbor, co-worker and regularly invite them into your home just for fellowship (Bible Studies can come later).

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Building a Spiritually Vibrant Home

Proverbs 24:3,4 ESV

“By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches.”

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“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

The Promise of Success

Philippians 4:13 (NKJV)