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ACROSS 1 Ancient Roman soaking spots 6 Where to find an elbow 9 Particles such as H+ and I- 13 Scent 14 57-Across sound 16 One has a sole 17 Location where ships are said to disappear 20 Language suffix 21 Playfully shy 22 Shoulder muscle 23 Gun, as a motor 24 Indianapolis football player 25 ___ Moines 26 Device for cap- turing audio 31 Stretched circle 32 Cutting-edge tool? 33 Opposite of “attract” 37 Meditation experts 39 Unknown, on a sched. 41 Default character in “Minecraft” 42 Gather dust? 43 Chow down 45 Rowing team 46 Procrastinate, say 50 One of two switch positions 53 Slinky shape 54 Metal food container 55 Starts to unscrew 57 Furry creature, often 58 Success for a batter 61 Attracts customers 64 Beige shade 65 Time in office 66 Wafer brand whose name hints at its flavor 67 Part of RIP 68 High arcing shot 69 Typical Twitch. tv variety streamer DOWN 1 Pig in a 1995 movie 2 Apollo’s half brother 3 Ripped 4 “Lemme think ...” 5 It holds a cup 6 Not home 7 Go bad 8 Middle-earth land that “one does not sim- ply walk into” 9 “Winning ___ everything” 10 Words of dread, perhaps 11 “That’s the truth!” 12 Pumpkin parts 15 Meadow 18 Birds that symbolize peace 19 Modifies 23 Kind of pitcher 24 What can be heard when a herd moves 26 Playroom things 27 Confess openly 28 Book unit 29 Mewing pet 30 Fix plot incon- sistencies in (CORNET anagram) 34 Neighbor of Chile 35 Not odd at all 36 Vulgar 38 Saffron and sumac 40 “Lost” actor Daniel ___ Kim 44 Mexican foods com- monly eaten on Tuesday 47 One may be filled with jelly 48 Squash, as a rumor 49 More than just salty 50 ___ and wiser 51 Gravity, e.g. 52 On all ___ (crawling, say) 56 X-rated literature 57 Word before “luck” 58 Captain’s position 59 Part of an archipelago 60 Old Russian autocrat 62 “Cool story, ___” 63 Woman’s name found in “millennial” ANSWER TO PREVIOUS PUZZLE: UNIVERSAL CROSSWORD Musical Group by Olivia Mitra Framke 10/4 Dear Abby: For the last three years, I was in an emo- tionally and physically abusive relationship. I finally found the courage to leave. Throughout the time I was with my ex, I self-medicated with alcohol because I felt ugly and unloved. One day, while I was out and intoxicated, I created an online profile on a dating app. Three days later, I went on a date that went absolutely great. We spent the entire weekend together and have seen each other for the last three months since then. My problem is I still have feelings for my abusive ex. The man I am currently seeing is loving and caring. He already talks about marriage and giv- ing me a life I deserve. At the beginning, I was very into him, but maybe now I’m realizing he was a rebound because, as time passes, I do not share the same feelings he does. I am worried I will lose this man and perhaps a great life over someone who caused me so much pain and grief. Please help. — Stuck in My Past Dear Stuck: Although you may be tempted in that direc- tion, the one thing you do NOT need is to return to your prior toxic relationship. Before you commit to another rela- tionship, you must resolve your alcohol problem. The next item on your agenda should be getting reacquainted with the worthwhile person that YOU are. Although your new boy- friend seems loving and car- ing, neither of you knows the other well enough after only three months to make a well- reasoned lifetime commitment. It shows insight that you are thinking this may be a rebound relationship rather than the real thing. Listen to your intuition. It is telling you something important, so slow down! Dear Abby: Must an engagement ring be “new”? My mother died at the age of 60 and left her engagement ring to me. My father then mar- ried a younger woman. They had one daughter, who sub- sequently has had children of her own. I never married, and have reached an age where it’s not likely I will, and I still have the ring. I could have the stone reset for myself, but I never cared much for jewelry, and I wouldn’t feel right selling it. I’m considering giving it to the daughter (my half-sister) so one of her descendants could use it for its intended purpose. Would a potential fiancee con- sider it an insult to be receiving a “used” engagement ring, or be honored to be welcomed into the family with an heir- loom? (We should consider that the original wearer is tech- nically not a blood relation, so it’s possibly not their “family” heirloom.) — Passing It On in California Dear Passing It: I can’t speak for all young women, but many would recognize the honor of being offered an heirloom such as your mother’s ring. If they didn’t like the style, they, too, could decide whether to have the stone reset into something more to their liking. I think your idea of offering it to your half-sister is generous and beautiful. DEAR ABBY Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby. com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. Abuse, alcohol cloud v ictim’s perception JEANNE PHILLIPS WORD GAME 1 box office charge (9) ___________ 2 “National Treasure” star Nic (4) ___________ 3 blamed person (7) ___________ 4 great effort (8) ___________ 5 like gibberish (10) ___________ 6 significance (7) ___________ 7 leaps forth (7) ___________ Saturday’s Answers: 1. THRUSHES 2. CORNINESS 3. FOSSILS 4. RUSSO 5. ALASKA 6. THICKEN 7. TOOTED Find the 7 words to match the 7 clues. The numbers in parentheses represent the number of letters in each solution. Each letter combination can be used only once, but all letter combinations will be necessary to complete the puzzle. AC INCO HER CU SED NG UGG LE CA ME ION ANI ADM STR SP ENT ISS GE RI NGS © 2021 Blue Ox Family Games, Inc., Dist. by Andrews McMeel CLUES SOLUTIONS 10/4 Each row and each column must contain the numbers 1 through 6 without repeating. The numbers within the heavily outlined boxes, called cages, must combine using the given operation (in any order) to produce the target numbers in the top-left corners. Freebies: Fill in single-box cages with the number in the top-left corner. KenKen ® is a registered trademark of KenKen Puzzle LLC. ©2021 KenKen Puzzle LLC. All rights reserved. Dist. by Andrews McMeel Syndication www.kenken.com 10-4-21 HAPPY BIRTHDAY: Leave nothing to chance. Use your intellect, line things up and finish what you start. Take the initiative, and you will bring about the changes that will make your life easier to navi- gate. Your openness when deal- ing with people you encounter will be refreshing. ARIES (March 21-April 19): Make positive changes to how you live, handle your finances and get along with loved ones. It’s essential to talk matters through and make decisions that are fair and agreed upon by all parties involved. 3 stars TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Don’t limit what you can do by being part of the prob- lem instead of the solution. Do what’s best for everyone, not just yourself. Keep things in perspective, and be open to suggestions. 5 stars GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Live and learn. Ask questions to find out where you stand and what you can do to get ahead. Learn new skills to add to your resume, and market yourself to fit what’s trending. Focus on growth. 2 stars CANCER (June 21-July 22): Stop thinking about how you want things to be, and start making the changes that will get you closer to your objective. Refuse to let someone make decisions for you. 4 stars LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Discuss your plans with some- one who can offer advice. Finding out what’s possible and what isn’t before you dive into something will help you elimi- nate loss or failure. Having a well-thought-out plan in place will ease your mind. 3 stars VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Pay attention to the way you present yourself to others, and you’ll receive a compliment that gives you the boost you need to forge ahead with con- fidence. A romantic encounter will change the way you view a friend or peer. 3 stars LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Stand up and be counted, and make a difference. Follow the path that encourages you to do what brings you joy and makes you want to work harder. A creative outlet will prompt you to try something new. 3 stars SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Inconsistency will drag you down and hold you back. Make up your mind, then fol- low through. Use your imagi- nation, and you’ll discover new ways to overcome pending problems. Be the one to make a difference. 4 stars SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22- Dec. 21): Refuse to let sen- timentality stand between you and what you want. Stay focused on what’s important to you, and make headway in a field that you feel is a good fit. Refuse to let anyone sidetrack you. 2 stars CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Put your money in a safe place, and don’t let anyone persuade you to make a hefty donation. Trust in yourself and what you know, not what someone tries to convince you to believe. Stick to your code of ethics. 5 stars AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Resolve money matters, and opportunities will unfold if you are realistic and moderate in how you approach learn- ing, work and spending habits. Refuse to let the changes others make influence you to make a poor decision. 3 stars PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Emotions will skyrocket, and unexpected changes will take place. Before you let worry and anxiety take over, look for the positive in whatever situ- ation you face, and you’ll find the silver lining that leads to better days ahead. 3 stars HOROSCOPE FOR OCTOBER 4 By Eugenia Last PREVIOUS SOLUTION Directions: Complete the grid so that every row, column and 3x3 box contains every digit from 1 to 9 inclusively. SUDOKU
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Page 1: DEAR ABBY Abuse, alcohol cloud victim’s perception

ACROSS 1 Ancient

Roman soaking spots

6 Where to find an elbow

9 Particles such as H+ and I-

13 Scent14 57-Across

sound16 One has a sole17 Location where

ships are said to disappear

20 Language suffix

21 Playfully shy22 Shoulder

muscle23 Gun,

as a motor24 Indianapolis

football player25 ___ Moines26 Device for cap-

turing audio31 Stretched

circle32 Cutting-edge

tool?33 Opposite of

“attract”37 Meditation

experts39 Unknown,

on a sched.41 Default

character in “Minecraft”

42 Gather dust?43 Chow down45 Rowing team46 Procrastinate,

say50 One of

two switch positions

53 Slinky shape54 Metal food

container55 Starts to

unscrew57 Furry creature,

often58 Success for a

batter61 Attracts

customers64 Beige shade65 Time in office66 Wafer brand

whose name hints at its flavor

67 Part of RIP68 High arcing

shot69 Typical Twitch.

tv variety streamer

DOWN 1 Pig in a 1995

movie 2 Apollo’s half

brother 3 Ripped 4 “Lemme

think ...” 5 It holds a cup 6 Not home 7 Go bad 8 Middle-earth

land that “one does not sim-ply walk into”

9 “Winning ___ everything”

10 Words of dread, perhaps

11 “That’s the truth!”

12 Pumpkin parts

15 Meadow

18 Birds that symbolize peace

19 Modifies23 Kind of

pitcher24 What can be

heard when a herd moves

26 Playroom things

27 Confess openly

28 Book unit29 Mewing pet30 Fix plot incon-

sistencies in (CORNET anagram)

34 Neighbor of Chile

35 Not odd at all36 Vulgar38 Saffron and

sumac40 “Lost” actor

Daniel ___ Kim

44 Mexican foods com-monly eaten on Tuesday

47 One may be filled with jelly

48 Squash, as a rumor

49 More than just salty

50 ___ and wiser

51 Gravity, e.g.52 On all ___

(crawling, say)

56 X-rated literature

57 Word before “luck”

58 Captain’s position

59 Part of an archipelago

60 Old Russian autocrat

62 “Cool story, ___”

63 Woman’s name found in “millennial”

ANSWER TO PREVIOUS PUZZLE:

UNIVERSAL CROSSWORD

Musical Group by Olivia Mitra Framke 10/4

Dear Abby: For the last three years, I was in an emo-tionally and physically abusive relationship. I finally found the courage to leave. Throughout the time I was with my ex, I self-medicated with alcohol because I felt ugly and unloved. One day, while I was out and intoxicated, I created an online profile on a dating app. Three days later, I went on a date that went absolutely great. We spent the entire weekend together and have seen each other for the last three months since then.

My problem is I still have feelings for my abusive ex. The man I am currently seeing is loving and caring. He already talks about marriage and giv-ing me a life I deserve. At the beginning, I was very into him, but maybe now I’m realizing he was a rebound because, as time passes, I do not share the same feelings he does. I am worried I will lose this man and perhaps a great life over someone who caused me so much pain and grief. Please help. — Stuck in My Past

Dear Stuck: Although you may be tempted in that direc-tion, the one thing you do NOT need is to return to your prior toxic relationship. Before you commit to another rela-tionship, you must resolve your alcohol problem. The next item on your agenda should be getting reacquainted with the worthwhile person that YOU are.

Although your new boy-friend seems loving and car-ing, neither of you knows the other well enough after only three months to make a well-reasoned lifetime commitment. It shows insight that you are thinking this may be a rebound relationship rather than the real thing. Listen to your intuition. It is telling you something important, so slow down!

Dear Abby: Must an engagement ring be “new”? My mother died at the age of 60 and left her engagement ring to me. My father then mar-ried a younger woman. They had one daughter, who sub-sequently has had children of her own. I never married, and have reached an age where it’s not likely I will, and I still have the ring. I could have the stone reset for myself, but I never cared much for jewelry, and I wouldn’t feel right selling it.

I’m considering giving it to the daughter (my half-sister) so one of her descendants could use it for its intended purpose. Would a potential fiancee con-sider it an insult to be receiving a “used” engagement ring, or be honored to be welcomed into the family with an heir-loom? (We should consider that the original wearer is tech-nically not a blood relation, so it’s possibly not their “family” heirloom.) — Passing It On in California

Dear Passing It: I can’t speak for all young women, but many would recognize the honor of being offered an heirloom such as your mother’s ring. If they didn’t like the style, they, too, could decide whether to have the stone reset into something more to their liking. I think your idea of offering it to your half-sister is generous and beautiful.

DEAR ABBY

Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

Abuse, alcohol cloud victim’s perception

JEANNE PHILLIPS

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Saturday’s Answers: 1. THRUSHES 2. CORNINESS 3. FOSSILS4. RUSSO 5. ALASKA 6. THICKEN 7. TOOTED

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY: Leave nothing to chance. Use your intellect, line things up and finish what you start. Take the initiative, and you will bring about the changes that will make your life easier to navi-gate. Your openness when deal-ing with people you encounter will be refreshing.

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Make positive changes to how you live, handle your finances and get along with loved ones. It’s essential to talk matters through and make decisions that are fair and agreed upon by all parties involved. 3 stars

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Don’t limit what you can do by being part of the prob-lem instead of the solution. Do what’s best for everyone, not just yourself. Keep things in perspective, and be open to suggestions. 5 stars

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Live and learn. Ask questions to find out where you stand and what you can do to get ahead. Learn new skills to add to your resume, and market yourself to fit what’s trending. Focus on growth. 2 stars

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Stop thinking about how you want things to be, and start making the changes that will

get you closer to your objective. Refuse to let someone make decisions for you. 4 stars

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Discuss your plans with some-one who can offer advice. Finding out what’s possible and what isn’t before you dive into something will help you elimi-nate loss or failure. Having a well-thought-out plan in place will ease your mind. 3 stars

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Pay attention to the way you present yourself to others, and you’ll receive a compliment that gives you the boost you need to forge ahead with con-fidence. A romantic encounter will change the way you view a friend or peer. 3 stars

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Stand up and be counted, and make a difference. Follow the path that encourages you to do what brings you joy and makes you want to work harder. A creative outlet will prompt you to try something new. 3 stars

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Inconsistency will drag you down and hold you back. Make up your mind, then fol-low through. Use your imagi-nation, and you’ll discover new ways to overcome pending problems. Be the one to make a difference. 4 stars

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Refuse to let sen-timentality stand between you and what you want. Stay focused on what’s important to you, and make headway in a field that you feel is a good fit. Refuse to let anyone sidetrack you. 2 stars

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Put your money in a safe place, and don’t let anyone persuade you to make a hefty donation. Trust in yourself and what you know, not what someone tries to convince you to believe. Stick to your code of ethics. 5 stars

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Resolve money matters, and opportunities will unfold if you are realistic and moderate in how you approach learn-ing, work and spending habits. Refuse to let the changes others make influence you to make a poor decision. 3 stars

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Emotions will skyrocket, and unexpected changes will take place. Before you let worry and anxiety take over, look for the positive in whatever situ-ation you face, and you’ll find the silver lining that leads to better days ahead. 3 stars

HOROSCOPE FOR OCTOBER 4

By Eugenia Last

PREVIOUS SOLUTION

Directions: Complete the gridso that every row, column and3x3 box contains every digitfrom 1 to 9 inclusively.

SUDOKU