Courtship: Hanggang saan ang kaya mo?

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Hanggang saanang kaya mo?

A research work by

Jamae Dulong, Kim Enverga,Carlo Franco Espinosa, Camille Ignacio

and Mary Grace Lacoste


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Abstract

The idea of this project was to come

up with a basis on how we candistinguish if a boy and girl is in arelationship and/or in the processof courtship


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courtshipdefined as the act, process,or period of courtingmerriam-webster dictionary


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teenagers today likes everythingin an instant. instant coffee,instant noodles, instant income,and even instant relationships!everything seems to be wanted ina snap of the finger.

while still in courting stage, they dothings that only couples should do.with this, we are confused who are

the real couples and who are still in

the courting stage.


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RELATED LITERATURE ________________

When we say courtship it is a time in which acouple start to develop a romantic

relationship, whether they are suitable for

each other or not. We are going to review andpresent the article by Rhiane Hill Soriano

Modern Filipino Dating Culture. We chose thisarticle because we want to take courtship in

the perspective of the ordinary Filipino in themodern days.


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According to Soriano, Filipino courtship is a mixof western, eastern and old Filipino ideologies

and beliefs, because of westernization the

courtship in the Philippines became moreliberated and physical forms of courtship hasbecome more liberal, example of this is that

long ago it is taboo for girls to court a boy butnow it is somewhat accepted.


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Still the guy plays an important role in theFilipino dating. According to Soriano, the guy isthe one who treats the woman whenever they

are dating, it is expected that the man shouldact as a gentleman.

In Filipino culture the first date is important

because it is the date where they know moreabout each other. The consecutive dates are a

confirmation that they want to know moreabout each other.


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Courtship in the Philippines has changeddrastically. It has become more liberated and

less sexist. It gave way for people to know

more about each other and thereforeimproved the way people choose their loved

ones.

Soriano, R.H. August 27, 2010. Modern Filipino Dating Culture. Retrieved fromhttp://www.helium.com/items/1935260-modern-filipino-dating-culture


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To come up with exquisite andaccurate results, we have used thesurvey method which included

questionnaires. We conducted it ina limited scope with 60 people, 30

girls and boys all gathered thrurandom sampling, within the

Ateneo de Naga campus.


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Results.


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29 out of 30 girl respondents preferred to be courted personally.25 out of 30 boy respondents preferred to court personally.

In Courting Stage which do you prefer? Personal or Impersonal?

94% 95% 96% 97% 98% 99% 100%

Boys

Girls

Personal

Impersonal


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The results shows that morepeople still find personal or face-

to-face courting moreappropriate with 83.33% for

boys and 96.67% for girls.


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For Boys:At what extent can you show your affection during courting stage?

0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%

Hugging

Holding Hands

Holding hands while walking

Kiss on the cheek

Peck on the lips

Leaning on your partner's shoulder

Inviting your partner to your home

Meet the parents

Bringing and fetching your partner

Putting one's arm over the shoulder of another

Number of Boys that does those things

Boys that doesn't


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SHOWING OF AFFECTION DURING COURTING STAGE (BOYS)Putting ones arm over the shoulder of another 3 out of 3o

2.65% (Rank 9)

Bringing and fetching your partner 16 out of 3014.16% (Rank 2)

Meet the parents 16 out of 3014.16% (Rank 2)

Inviting your partner to your home 8 out of 307.08% (Rank 7)

Leaning on your partners shoulder 11 out of 309.73% (Rank 5)

Peck on the lips 4 out of 303.54% (Rank 8)

Kiss on the cheek 10 out of 308.85% (Rank 6)

Holding hands while walking 12 out of 3010.62% (Rank 4)

Holding hands 18 out of 3015.93% (Rank 1)

Hugging 15 out of 3013.27% (Rank 3)

Table 1.1 Showing affection during courting stage


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We have totaled the answers of therespondents and have calculated and

presented it in their respective

percentages.*The results showed that its normal and okay forboys if they hold hands while walking or just plain

hold hands. It is also still normal for a boy to let thegirl meet his parents while still in the courting stage.The kiss in the cheeks and peck on the lips ranked atthe bottom.


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For Girls:At what extent can you show your affection during courting stage?

0 5 10 15 20 25 30 35

Hugging

Holding Hands

Holding hands while walking

Kiss on the cheek

Peck on the lips

Leaning on your partner's shoulder

Inviting your partner to your home

Meet the parents

Bringing and fetching your partner

Putting one's arm over the shoulder of another

Number of Girls that does those things

Girls that doesn't


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SHOWING OF AFFECTION DURING COURTING STAGE (GIRLS)Putting ones arm over the shoulder of another 9 out of 30

11.69% (Rank 3)

Bringing and fetching your partner 15 out of 3019.48% (Rank 1)

Meet the parents 15 out of 3019.48% (Rank 1)

Inviting your partner to your home 8 out of 3010.39% (Rank 4)

Leaning on your partners shoulder 11 out of 3014.29% (Rank 2)

Peck on the lips 1 out of 301.30% (Rank 7)

Kiss on the cheek 2 out of 302.60% (Rank 6)

Holding hands while walking 1 out of 301.30% (Rank 7)

Holding hands 6 out of 307.79% (Rank 5)

Hugging 9 out of 3011.69% (Rank 3)

Table 1.2 Showing affection during courting stage


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* The results showed that bringing and fetching your partner isthe best way of courting a girl.

*It also showed that its okay for the girls to meet the parents of the guy or vice versa.

Holding hands while walking ranked atthe bottom, so it is not normal for a

couple according to most girls to hold

hands. Kiss on the cheeks and a peck onthe lips is also at the bottom whichmeans that it is very inappropriate

while still on the courting stage.


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Courtship in teenagers today is a mix of old and new culture and is therefore

undefined. Some people prefer usingtechnology in courting, some dont. Also,with regards to showing their affection,

more teenagers still have a preference to

sticking with the old ways to protecttheir values. However, at the end of theday, people do always long for genuine

affection.


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Recommendations

The major purpose of this study is forthe people especially the youth tobenefit from it. We, the researchers,

recommend that this study wouldserve as a reference for students whoare conducting with almost the sameresearch as we have. The study isalso recommended for furtherenhancement and improvement.


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Hanggang Saan Ang Kaya mo? is a researchon courtship and the extent of what and how a

couple can give or do to each other. Thisresearch is for the youth and the society, togive them knowledge and awareness of how

courtship is in the modern times. The results

of the research will be published in selectedsocial networking sites such as Facebook,blogs and the likes.

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http://thesweeteranna.blogspot.com/http://vasilissa-ellimaccamille.blogspot.com/

http://carlolearnstoblog.blogspot.com/

@joannamayonaise@msgsent


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Bibliography

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/courtshiphttp://asianfriends.com.au/courtship-in-the-philippine-society-the-21st-century/

Soriano, R.H. August 27, 2010. Modern Filipino Dating Culture. Retrieved fromhttp://www.helium.com/items/1935260-modern-filipino-dating-culture

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