Childhood Bullying: What We Know – and Can Do Stuart Green, DMH, LCSW, MA Behavioral Scientist/Medical Education, Overlook Hospital Associate Director, Overlook Family Medicine Residency Director, NJ Coalition for Bullying Awareness www.njbullying.org
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Childhood Bullying: What We Know – and Can Do Stuart Green, DMH, LCSW, MA Behavioral Scientist/Medical Education, Overlook Hospital Associate Director,
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Associate Director, Overlook Family Medicine Residency
Director, NJ Coalition for Bullying Awareness
www.njbullying.org
OLWEUS
A tragedy driven field
Dan Olweus, PhD
TRADITIONAL VIEW Lord of the Flies
normal, inevitable, 'rite of passage', the nature of children
'bad' families/communities, innocent schools
MODERN VIEW
Bullying at school (Willie Sutton)
Environmental (school).
Adults as primary factors.
DEFINITION A pattern of negative acts toward a child by a peer, in which there is an imbalance of power so that the child who is bullied has a difficult time defending himself or herself, and there is an intent to harm on the part of those bullying.
Direct (to the bullied child): e.g., hitting, name-calling, texting/emailing.
PREVALENCEOne of the most common serious problems of the school-age child
Wide worldwide range
Varies by gender
Gender identify and expression, and obesity most targeted.
Middle school years the peak
Prevalence is 100%?
CYBERBULLYING Electronic/digital
A 'better' way (for violence):
o wider potential 'audience'
o anonymity
o easier, safer (for those bullying)
o no escape (for the bullied)
o no adults.
New but growing (bigger than 'offline'?)
CYBERBULLYING continued...
Different than offline:
o more bully/victims
o more girls
o self-harm 'support'
Same as it ever was:
o bullied offline and online
o still mostly school-based
EFFECTS (BULLIED CHILDREN)
Added injury
o obesity
o (inhibited) gender identity and expression
o race/ethnicity, immigrant status, lower SES, being new in a school
o being shorter, less physical strength or agility/athleticism
o developmental disorders/conditions (CP, autistic spectrum disorders)
EFFECTS (BULLIED CHILDREN)continued...
o shyness, less assertive, isolated, lonely, no ‘buffer’ (friends)
o more victimized or maltreated in the community or family
o 'sensitive'/emotionally expressive
o Tourettes, eczema, cleft lip and palate
o chronic abdominal pain, IBS, IBD, special health needs
o learning differences, ADHD
o cancer
EFFECTS (BULLIED CHILDREN)continued...
Source of problems
o school absenceo anxiety (into adulthood), depression,
low self-esteem (into adulthood)o suicidal thoughtso lower school performanceo health symptoms and doctor visitso impaired diabetes self-managemento worrying by parents and siblings
EFFECTS (BULLIED CHILDREN)continued...
Source of problems
o lack of help-seeking/self-identification in hard-of-hearing youth
Include cyberbullying in all anti-bullying programs/materials.
Monitor computer/device use, restrict access/use.
Establish an electronic anonymous reporting mechanism.
Train staff and educate students.
Accept that cyberbullying is a school responsibility.
What can parents do about bullying?
Good relations/communication with children.
Inform yourself.
Expect/ ask/ demand adequate school action.
Expect/ ask/ demand that owners of social networking sites and internet providers address bullying.
Ask your child how children treat other children at school (and how your child is treated); listening is more important than advice.
What can parents do about bullying?
When you hear children speak badly of another child, gently express discomfort, and empathy for the scorned child.
Be present at your child's school; don't wait to be invited, ask to volunteer.
Take action with other concerned parents.
Meet (as a group) with school leaders; ask specifically about school’s approach.
What can parents do about bullying?
Never ignore bullying, don't walk by; if you can't intervene directly, report it.
Support bullied kids in every possible way.
Seek legal advice and government support.
Don't accept leaders who bully, including teachers; speak out, insist on change.
Consider changing schools, if possible, as a last resort.
What Can Pediatricians Do?
Screen for bullying involvement, consider bullying as a factor or even cause of presenting problems.
Call on the school for corrective action, emphasize support for child/family.
Have a bullying-aware office.
As community leaders, expect schools to address bullying, raise parental expectations.
OLWEUS: Our moral obligation to help bullied
children.
KEY REFERENCES
Cyberbullying and Cyberthreats, Nancy E. Willard, Research Press, 2007. http://cyberbully.orgSchools Where Everyone Belongs: Practical Strategies for Reducing Bullying, Stan Davis, Research Press, 2003. www.stopbullyingnow.com, stopbullyingworld.comBullying at School, Dan Olweus, Blackwell, 1993. NJ Coalition for Bullying Awareness and Prevention. www.njbullying.org. Stuart Green.StopBullyingNow.org. HRSA. Susan Limber.Arseneault L, Milne BJ, Taylor A, Adams F, Delgado K, Caspi A, Moffitt TE.Being Bullied as an Environmentally Mediated Contributing Factor to Children's Internalizing Problems: A Study of Twins Discordant for VictimizationArch Pediatr Adolesc Med, Feb 2008; 162: 145-150._____________________________________________________