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Let Go and Get Ready to Fly:
How to let go of a lifestyle that will never set you
free
Bad things are going to happen; this book will
show you how to get the good out of them.
In this book you will learn:
How to unleash your greatest ideas (start doing what you always
wanted to do successfully, today. Live your dream lifestyle even
when you face hard times.)
How to position yourself in life to win even if you thought you
lost.
How hope, love, and faith can save your life, business, and
relationship, and take you to a whole other level.
How to listen to the inner you How taking action, even when
scared to death,
can set you free.
In this book, you will also learn all that you need to
know to be able to let go of who you were, embrace
the person insidewho keeps talking to you, and find your
destiny. You will learn to listen to the
inner you and plan your best moves.
Most importantly, you will learn to let go and get
ready to fly.
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Published 2015 & 2016 Under Title: Let Go And Get Ready To
Fly
ISBN 978-1511768542
Copyright 2015, 2016, 2019 & 2020 by Ouggo.
All rights reserved.
Dedication
I dedicate this book to my unborn child. When you
read this book not only will you learn more about
your father, but you will also learn about life, how
to make it great, and how to become awesome. I
also dedicate this book to all my readers, fans, and
new and long-term supporters. I thank you, every
little bit you did or are doing means a lot, and is
possibly why I have the time and the know how to
write this book for you.
I thank God for all of his spiritual guidance, and I
also want to thank my dear mother for always being
there for me. Another thank you goes to fellow
associates Windys Faro Monge, Tomas Hercule, and Marlon Smeins,
men I know who are not afraid
to let go and get ready to fly.
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Table of Contents
Introduction5
About Author.5
Jeff Calixte Bio.12
Chapter 1: Hope, Love, and Faith15
Hope.15
Love.20
Faith.25
Chapter 2: Spiritual, Physical, and Financial
..28
Spiritual28
Physical34
Financial..38
Chapter 3: Find your true purpose in life....57
Chapter 4: How to fail better so you can win
.....63
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Chapter 5: How to raise money to unleash your
greatest
ideas.......67
Chapter 6: Let me show you how to sell anything to
anyone85
The process of
selling86
Chapter 7: The voices you will
hear....99
Chapter 8: How I stay away from depression
.103
Chapter 9: You are ready to fly, but you need a push
.........................................................................111
Chapter 10: What does it take to become a winner?
........................................................................114
Chapter 11: How to let go of a poor persons habits
.122
Chapter 12: Can forgiveness really help you
succeed?...........................................................136
Chapter 13: Will your life ever get easier or better?
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.........................................................................138
Chapter 14: How to love, but let
go?....................................................................140
Chapter 15: How to focus on one thing at a time
..146
Chapter 16: Emotions and
Generosity149
Emotions..149
Generosity150
Chapter 17: How to let go of what's not working
.152
Chapter 18: You need to hire people right now
.159
Chapter 19: How to find a
mentor.163
Asking for
help.164
Chapter 20: Road map to
success........167
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You need a destination and
guidance..167
Coming up with a good
plan..168
Chapter 21: Dont waste your money..171
Chapter 22: Dont be discouraged..173
Chapter 23: Take
action...174
Daily Quotes and
Resources.....175
Resources.....175
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Introduction
About Author
Jeff Calixte a.k.a Tblazz Soloz was born February, 9, 1987 at
8:45 a.m, Tuesday morning at a nearby hospital. He lived in a farm
in the south of Haiti, in a town called Aquin from the age of two
weeks to twelve years old. When he was born, he was sick, and
almost died until a friend of his momsLila, his dads older
sistercame and helped the twenty-one-year-old inexperienced mother
save Jeffs life. His dad was not present since the age of three
months.
The dad who married Jeffs mother, when he was thirty-two years
old, had to leave the city: Due to the job he was holding at that
time, he learned that if he didnt leave they were going to come and
kill him and everyone else he loved. Jeffs mom lived in constant
fear, until she had the chance to flee the country, leaving the
young boy to survive by living with his grandma and grandpa. At
that time, his grandpa was not working due to back and eye
injuries, so they both had to live off his grandmaa great sales
woman and the owner of the biggest shop in the neighborhood. Jeff
didnt remember what his dad and mom looked like anymore he was
living with his grandma and grandpa since the age of two, by then,
the only people who he
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called mom and dad were his grandma and grandpa. He felt happy
with themthere was a large farm, a shop, friends, and customers who
would stop by to tell stories like Romeo and Juliet; plus there
were a few other cousins living in the same household. It was
perfect.
He learned of his mom at the age of seven, when she came back
from her hiding placewhere ever that wasthough she had to come in
secret, as they didnt want the local authorities to find out. Of
course after a few days, his mom had to leave, and he can still
remember running away from the lady they said was his motherthough
at the age of seven all she was to him was a stranger who brought a
few gifts that smelled and looked good.
When he was twelve years old, he found out that he had to leave
his grandparents place, and he ended up in another country with his
mom, where the Island people spoke English, Creole, and Spanish.
There he learned of his brother and his little sisters, met his
real dad for the first time, and lived with him for about three
months before he had to leave againthis time using a boat that
almost killed his mom, his little sister, his brother, and him.
Luckily, they made it to St. Thomasa US Virgin Islandalive.
There, Jeffs mom filed for US work permits, and asked to stay
for a while. There his mom also assured him that they were safeno
more running from the authorities. Yes, they were safe, but they
were also hungry. There was no one to blame for the hungerdad was
not around and he had no job where he was at. Mom was on her own
with three kids to feed, clothe, and provide
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shelter for, and even today Jeff still didnt know how she did
it.
Luckily, his mom's older brother was there, so that helped a
littlegiving them a living room for all four of them to stay in,
while he took the small room in the back of the broke-down
one-bedroom apartment. His moms brother did all he could for
themthat one bedroom apartment was all he could afford, but he was
sick and he only had a few months to live. During his last few
days, he was bleeding to death, and they could no longer hide his
condition from Jeff. It was a really unfortunate moment in his
lifethe only person who could help them was now about to die. They
also had to move out that same week without knowing where they were
going to gowhen his uncles condition was getting worse, Jeffs mom
was worried and didnt want any of the kids to get sick or watch
their uncle die. In his last days, Jeffs uncle vomited blood and
died a painful death. At the time, Jeff was the oldest, and though
his mom didnt want him to know what had happened, he later found
out that his uncle was dead, and had to help clean up the apartment
blood was everywhere. Little twelve-years-old Jeff also had to grow
up and help with the kids, while his mom worked two jobs she didnt
like.
Later on, Jeff went to school, but couldnt understand what the
teachers were teaching; however, he got through it with his one
friend Volmar Christon, and things started to get good again. Jeff
and his friend, who was living on the Island at that time, played
soccer for the local school, and he enjoyed it, but he found out
that sports werent really his thing; making money was more of his
thing, especially after a few kids teased him
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for not having the proper clothes to wear when coming to
school.
After that moment, he really wanted to be rich. He believed he
was going to do everything in his power to never feel poor again,
and he was determined that he was going to be rich one day. When he
saw the kids who teased him at school, he looked at them and said
in his head, One day Im going to be richer than you, your whole
family, and your whole generation ever was.After that day, Jeff
decided to start his first small business and make some real cash.
He closed his first business deal with his moms landlord.
The landlord had a big place that was not looked after well, and
Jeff could see opportunity everywhere. The tenants were complaining
about the place being trashy all the time, so Jeff made a deal with
the landlord to get paid $40 dollars a month to look after the
yard. It was his first job, but not without issues. Doing the job
with no equipment of his own, Jeff couldnt get any more moneyeven
if he tried to squeeze it out of the landlords wallet. At twelve
years old, Jeff was no match for a guy who has been doing business
transactions for years, so he basically gave Jeff whatever he
wanted to give, and $40 a month was the reward.
Eventually, Jeff had to leave his yard cleaning business after
doing it for a few months. He realized that without his own
equipment, it made it harder for him to expand the yard cleaning
businessplus at twelve years old, everybody else he approached was
more interested in seeing him go to school than in giving him a
contract to cut their grass, including his mom. They all told him
to quit his business, and to focus on school. All he heard
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was, If you focus on school you will get a good job, the job of
your life even. However, he later found out, after high school,
that a job was never going to make him rich: He needed to go back
to business.
One year and four months later, fourteen-year-old Jeff got
accepted to come to the United States of America, and left St.
Thomas. In the US, he did a few months of his 8th Grade class, made
some friends, and went on to Fort Myers, Florida High School. At
the age of fifteen to sixteen, Jeff taught himself how to read and
write in English, and by the age of sixteen to seventeen his ESL
teacher Mrs. Karen M. Rubin taught him how to get a job. He found
himself a job working at Publix, and by the age of seventeen, he
bought his own cara really nice Blue Ford Taurus Gland was the only
one with his own car, bought with his own money, amongst his peers.
By the age of eighteen, he was working, running track on the FMSH
track and field team, doing bodybuilding, and learning video
production. He also cut his first rap mix tape when he was 18, and
all his friends started calling on him when they needed a good
rapper.
By his senior year of high school, he got nominated and won $500
dollars for being the most improved out of over 2,500 students: he
did the most and learned the fastest. After high school, however;
his job became a dead end. The money was not enough anymore, and
his dreams to become a top rapper were fading. However, Jeff still
saw himself as someone big and great, and knew he had to do
something about the situation of not earning enough money to do
what he wanted to do and to be who he wanted to be. His hope and
focus was on music, but he soon found out that making it in the
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music industry was not that easy. He says, Damm, it was harder
than I thought. I couldnt get rich, even after Id cut two albums.
To search for other ways of succeeding, he began his research on
how he could get a product for sale at Walmart, and he learned he
might have to invent something .
Since then, he says, I have been working on one of my many great
ideas, and perfecting that idea for almost 7 years. I have many
ideas ready to go, and that one is in the negotiation stage for a
worldwide license agreement with a very popular electronic company
located in the US. He adds, It has cost a lot of money to get my
ideas to the level that theyre currently at, but nothing was going
to stop me in my quest to become rich. Hopefully a few years from
now, I will have my first innovated Idea live on the shelves of
Wal-Mart.
Today, Jeff also has his own book, his own major corporation,
and his own company with many investors, and he says, That is only
the beginning. He plans to write more books and unleash all his
product ideas in order to become rich and help other people around
him become rich. He says, Im on a mission and I will never give up.
I ask God for clarity and guidance as I prove to myself and to the
people who think that its impossible that it isnt. I say nothing is
impossible; impossible is nothing.
At the time of this book, which is now his second book, Jeff has
decided to retire from music to become a success coach, and
says,Though I might still do music on the side, a success coach is
where my heart is at. His next goal as a success coach is to help
create over 250 millionaires, while also turning himself into a
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millionaire. He says,I cannot stand on the side while the world
tells me I will not achieve my goals or become who I want to be. I
have to start figuring that out: what exactly my life means by the
time I have to leave this planet earth, what will I leave behind,
and who will remember my name and for what.He continues, I want my
life to mean wealth, happiness, and laughter to many homes and
lives, and I want businesses to strive because they knew and heard
my message.
Jeff also takes the time to compete with himself, to discipline
himself, and to love and help others. He says, I want to be my
biggest competitor, and I want to be my first creditor when
completing a piece of work. He admits to making more mistakes than
he can count and losing money and time, just like everybody else,
but says I lose so much, it makes me a winner, and if someones able
to fool me and take my money, I will congratulate him for being
clever. Now that I know where the winning line is, I want to get
there first. If you get there with me, I will also congratulate you
for being the winner of life.
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Jeff Calixte Bio
Jeff is an entertainer, innovator, author, entrepreneur, and a
success coach. Hes written two albums and has one more planned to
come out after his music retirement. Hes put some major events
together, his first book is called Smart Music Income, and hes
taught himself online marketinghis first money making business was
a web design company called NextWebPRO. He chose to do music as a
hobby because he wanted to make money doing what he loved. It was
not long after, that he realized making money with what he loved
wasnt going to be easy. He did his first album alone, booked
himself some shows, and failed terribly. He says, The business side
of things were not handled properly. He wanted to learn more and
work harder because he didnt want to give up, and he looked for
ways to educate himself about the industry by finding books on what
he wanted to learn online and at music stores. He plugged himself
into learning more and he gave it all he had with passion and
determination, and four years later he was able to gain a lot of
knowledge and use it.
He says, Early on, I didnt know what I was doing and I wasted a
lot of time and money, but Im grateful for the experience because
of the amount of knowledge it offered me. I know what it feels like
to fall and get back up quickly, to be poor then have what Ive
always wanted, to live in one room with a full family then rent and
have my own apartment, and to have friends laughing at my ideas and
saying I cant do them then actually proving them wrong. After his
experiences, he thought he would write this book and many more
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come to help motivate anyone who has dreams and aspirations that
seems impossible to achieve. He wants you to know that to face
impossibleall you have to do is let go of your fears, and then you
can also get ready to fly.
Over the years, he has had many people say to him, You are very
smart my brother, how are you doing all of this with little or no
money? I wish I was more like you, all from people who have watched
him go through the bad and good times. I am not perfect, far from
it, he says, The only thing Im doing that most people are not doing
is materializing my ideas. I dont care if I become broke in the
process, or if people laugh at me or ridicule me. Whatever I have
in mind, I go for it. Who cares if I fail or make it?
He adds, I also learned how to control my emotional state. When
something bad happens to me, I only take the positive lessons out
of it or the lesson it taught me. Because it doesnt matter if the
situation is good or bad, he manages to focus on the prize and
think of the future or the lesson he learned from trying something.
He controls where his money goesgenerally he doesnt spend money on
what he doesnt need or what will not make him a profit. He has also
taken control of his emotional state by never letting his emotions
control his decisions. That means hes able to control the noise of
the outside world and allow the peace within him to flow, control
the anger, control the love, and control himself from doing
something stupid in the heat of the moment. Times along the way, he
does think he has some spiritual help: that something supernatural
is helping him while hes going through it all.
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He says,Everybody was born with their own spiritual help, but
you can only hear it if you are calm and open-minded to their
ideas.
He also had to learn to control the noises. What are the noises,
you ask? Jeff explains, The biggest noises to overcome are fear and
others opinions of you. You sometimes have to not drive the car or
wear the best shoes in order to raise money to do what you really
need to do for your life to be better. So stop trying to be so cool
and be smart and figure that out.
Jeff also had to overcome the emotions that had him bouncing off
the walls: emotions such as love, anger, and jealousy. In this
book, he will tell you exactly how he was able, with little or no
money, to do it. And how you can get up and make your dreams come
true, and achieve happiness by letting go of your past fears. He
says, Do you feel like you are living in the shadow of the real
you? Find your destiny, create your fate, live your passion, and
learn to listen to yourself to get to your dream destination. Learn
to see no competition, while you let go and get ready to fly. Let
this book help guide you right now to your true destination.
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Chapter 1: Hope, Love, and Faith
Hope
Hi, my name is Jeff Calixte. Ok, Im not the most spiritual guy
in the world, but I do know what faith, love, and hope can do in
someones life, and Im pretty sure you do too. If you dont, I will
explain to you what faith, love, and hope can do for you. When Im
done, you can decide if you need these three things in your life or
not.
First of all, if you dont have hope, you are pretty much dead.
Yes, thats right. If you have no hope, you are pretty much dead.
So, lets take a look at what hope is and why you need it in your
life for you to feel alive.
Heres an example: My mom left Haiti with nothing to eat, no one
to help her, and she took us on a boat that nearly killed all four
of us so she could make it to the United States. Why do you think
she did that? The reason is because she had hope that things were
going to get better, only if she could make it to the US. Now, she
took action knowing that she could have died. People can only take
such a risk if their hopes are bigger than their fears. Most people
who travelled that way did die and get eaten by sharks before
making it to US. Some of them got arrested and sent back to their
country where they got beaten, or even tortured, by the same
authorities they were trying to flee from. That alone is enough to
have someone never take action or ever dare to try to flee their
country.
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Its a pretty scary thing to do knowing all the facts. I asked
myself over and over again, why did she do that? My little brother
was only one-year-old at the time, and none of us could swim. Even
if we could swim, nothing could have saved us other than a miracle
from God if anything were to happen to that little water boat.
After analyzing the situation we were in for years, I can
finally see why my mom would do such a thing. The answer again was
hope. Hope that a better life was on the way; a better life was
coming. And she was right. Because if she never took that risk, you
would not be reading this book right now, and lots of the things
her kids have had the opportunity to do would never have happenedso
I thank her.
Later, I figured out that my mother and I share similar
personalities. Im always hopeful no matter how bad things seem to
get. Im never without hope. I always know, through my vision, life
will get better, and as a result, it always does. Even when I face
hard times, the future always seems to shine brighter. And with a
little bit of scary action, I always make it to the other side.
When I think of all the things that we have accomplished because of
hope, faith, fear, and actions, I realize one can train his or her
self to become fearless. We all were built to hope, and we all were
built to dream and set goals, but sometimes we let fear of failure
stop us from trying to make it to the other side.
Without hope, you are pretty much dead, and it can be
depressing. How do you fix that and become more hopeful? You have
to try harder and you need to have faith it will happen for you. If
you work like youre supposed to work on your dreams and
aspirations
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every day of every year, every hour of every day, and every
second of every minute, you will become more hopeful that sometime,
somewhere, or someday, your life will be better and greater than it
is now; your life will become like you always dreamed. That is
hope. You already have it within you, you just need to apply faith
and action without fear, and let go of whats holding you back, so
you can fly to your destiny.
You should be planning your way out; the only way to get there
is through hope, faith, action, and determination without fear. Was
my mom scared that we all might die on that boat? Yes, but she
didnt let her fears stop her. Because it was the idea of death that
scared her the most. She could have gotten killed anyway for
staying in Haiti during that time, while those men went after my
father for whatever reason. Through it all, times were hard, but at
the end of it all, my mom was right about making it to the US (now
Canada). Because she was hopeful, it paid off big time. See, you
can either accept life the way it is, or you can work hard and take
risky actions, while you let hope guide you to a better
lifestyle.
Who said it was going to be easy and not scary to hope there is
a better life somewhere out there? Sometimes it takes the
willingness to die for things to really change. People who are not
afraid to die are those who will work hard and take action without
fear to stop them, so their dreams can come true. Our greatest
fears are death, pain, and suffuring. As long as youre willing to
be comfortableand impress people while you at it you will never
succeed. If you want your life to be easy, it will not be better,
and if you want your life to better, it will not be easy.
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In life, its not about impressing others, its about impressing
yourself. Other people may be impressed, but are you? The truth is
within. In order to impress yourself, its going to be harder than
you think. You have to let go of the outside world and focus on the
inner you; face your reality. You have to make a real change in
your mindset; how you think of life is your reality, if you dont
like it, fix it. You are the only one with the power to change your
situation. In order to do that, you must understand the
possibilities of death, while making a real change for the better
in your life and in the lives of those around you. Hope is not
fearful. Hope is life, as pain and death are a part of life. If
hope is not life itself, then it is pretty damn close. You already
can never skip pain or death, so if life is going to be hard
anyway, why not make it hard for a better reason than to stay
hungry; a better reason than just take it as it is?
Even after you can earn everything on this planet, what else is
left? You have nothing if you dont have the hope of a better life,
somehow, somewhere, or one day. The only thing thats here to make a
difference and give all of us a better future is hope.
Even though billionaires are supposed to have hope so that they
can become better, poor people desperately need hope more than
anything else. Even the person on his or her death bed is supposed
to have hope. If they truly want to enjoy their last day on earth
smiling, they better create a faithful hope: Hoping that the life
after death will be better than the life they lived on earth. A
dying person without hope is already dead, and will spend their
last days on earth depressed if they see no future of a better life
than the life they are currently dying from.
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You see, hope isnt just a part of life, it is life. Hope is what
makes us want to live. If you dont have the hope of a better life,
then you will simply not want to live. Its simple: all you have to
do is work for what you want and have faith that it will happen. Do
everything in your power to see it come true. Start your mission
impossible today. Dont give up, unless giving up means youre
finding something else that can change your life faster and for the
better.
Hope is part of what make you want to be alive. Hope can be made
up of things and places you absolutely have to get to before you
die, or after you die. Hope just never stops. Either way, hope is
for the living. You have those who are scared of death, and its
because they have no hope of a better life after death. And if you
are working for it and believing in it, and have faith it will
happen for you. You will feel alive.
For people who fear they might die before their dreams comes
true, think about this: how many heroes have died before their
dreams came true? More than one, I bet. You see, because they had a
dreambecause of the hope of changing their lives or others
livesthey were not afraid to die. They knew some way, somehow, they
would live a better life, even if they died, because they believed
God would have mercy on their soul. With hope of life even after
life, you are literally unstoppable. If our heroes never had hoped
and took life-changing opportunities, they couldntand wouldnthave
fought so hard.
In hope of a better life, you also need to understand that
better does not mean easier. You will get up, even when you feel
like you cant. Your heart will be filled
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with fear, love, hope, and joy, while you work to make your
dreams come true in the hope that your life will be better one
day.
You see, if you ever want fans or followers, you need a vision.
When you can help other people dream and hope, they will love you
forever because with dreams and hope, you can ease their pain.
Hope is not selfish; one can help a million people hope and
fight for the same goals. And because a vision is powerful enough
to create hope, others will follow you. Because when they follow
you, their dreams will also come true.
Love
Many people say If you love me, then you will never leave
me.
In the passing years, I have been studding love and the people
who love. It seems like the more someone loves, the more quiet they
become. Love is silence. The person who is always so quick to say
what they think is not really doing any sacrificing. You see, when
a woman loves her husband, she will know when its time to be quiet,
especially when he is not in a good mood. Even if she wants to talk
very badly, she will leave him alone when she realizes what shes
about to say will hurt him or piss him off more. She wont say
anything at all. Love is quiet. A man who loves will also be quite
at times if he knows saying what he really wants to say will hurt
his woman.
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Lovers hide, while quietly suffering. Someone who is in love,
and is loving the right way, will always stay quiet about the
situation, even though they should be talking. Thats why love is
dangerous at times. The person who is in love can let someone else
who is not in love hurt them. Because the person who doesnt love
will not be quiet, the person who does love will get hurt. The
person who doesnt love will say what they want to sayand sometimes
they will say it to hurt, and sometimes they will do it to fight
back because the last thing they heard from you was hurtful. If you
want love to last, then learn when its time to be quiet, and when
you are talking, learn to say the right things; the things that
will sweeten your lovers heart and make them happy. Because if you
really say what you want to say, sometimes, it will hurt them, and
sometimes it will start something that didnt need to be
started.
When a man loves a woman with all his heart, he would rather let
another man take her if hes not in a position to help that woman
when she really needs it. A man who loves, but can see her suffer
would say, I had to let her go because I didnt want her to suffer
with me. Quietly, he would leave the relationship alone if he
cannot love her right at that time.
Sometimes a man will work four jobs if he has to; quietly doing
it in pain and never telling his woman or his kids to get a job if
he knows they cant work. Working that hard must hurt, but he will
suffer in silence, being careful to never make his wife or kids
feel hurt because he loves them so much. A woman who loves would
also do the same for her family.
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The person who is so quick to use words as their sharp knife to
hurt others or to protect themselves is not really doing any
sacrificing. When someone lets you love them, you must do it right,
and the best way to love is to know when to be quiet. Because if
you cannot control your mouth around your loved ones, it will
backfire on you. If you dont know when to be quiet, you will mess
it all up.
Do not use words that hurt if you dont want words that hurts to
be used on you. Do not say things that will hurt if you dont want
to hear things that will hurt you. Dont let people abuse you
either. Always let them know you are staying quiet because you dont
want to say things to them that will hurt and mess up your
relationship. And if you dont say anything, its not because you
cant, its because you love them and you dont want to hurt them, and
you ask them to do the same for you because you dont want to have
to fight them with words that will hurt them and you. When you hear
something that hurts you, you will use words to fight back because
you want to protect yourself. But always remember: its always
better to lead by example and explain why you are leading by that
example.
Ask the person who is not being considerate to stop, especially
if you both cannot stand the outcome. If you learn when to be
quiet, teach the person you love to be quiet.
Always explain why you are staying quiet because you dont want
the person who doesnt know when to be quiet to take this as an
advantage, and a chance to hurt you even more.
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The same thing goes for Gods love for us: he asks us to follow
some simple rules. However, most of us act like he doesnt exist and
his rules dont matter, until we hurt ourselves badly. Im sure,
sometimes, God must feel hurt by this, but he remains quiet, still
waiting for the right time to talk. He is silent, but he speaks to
us without the noise. You almost cannot hear God speak if you dont
pay attention.
Lets take a look at Jesus for example. Jesus had the power to
stand and fight anybody who beat him, but instead, he chose to stay
quiet, leading by example. Why, you ask? Well, love is quiet
because fighting back is NOT LOVE. More fights will always start
more fights; more love will always build on more love. In your
relationship life, whatever habits are acceptable in your eyes are
the one you will continue to do for a long time. So, if you accept
an abusive relationship, it is harder for you to not be in one.
Thats why it is good to follow and pick up good habits from the
start. That is the only way you can grow and keep moving in a
positive direction.
If you are truly ready to love, you must learn to be quiet
sometimes, and only talk when the time is right. You need to think
of what you are saying based on the outcome you want. Love does not
defend, because by defending you might hurt the one you love.
When the one you love feels hurt, they will usually fight back.
It takes a wise lover to know when its time to stay quiet, and then
later explain why they stayed quiet. It takes a wiser lover to know
when someone loves them enough to sacrifice for them. Staying quiet
sometimes in a relationship is a sacrifice.
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Love is natural. It is only painful when you are dealing with
someone who does not know how to love, which means someone who
talks too quickly or is too fast to defend.
Love is quiet, love is defenseless, and love is not painful. A
man who loves would rather suffer alone, then put the one he loves
in pain. A woman who loves would rather let a man beat on her,
before calling the police. Lets be careful now! Thats why the best
love is self-love. Unlike hope, love can be a bit selfish, and
should be sometimes.
If you love yourself, you will not need to love anyone else to
the point where they are capable of hurting you to the last limit.
If you are in an abusive relationship, let go and get ready to fly.
Find help!
You will need hope and faith that you will be better off when
you leave an abusive relationship, but you have to love yourself
first. If you are living with someone who does not love you, you
are in trouble. There is no such things as saying something harmful
for it to be helpful. If it hurts, it hurts. One rule in love, that
always remains the same, is silence. If you love yourself enough,
never let the abuser know your plan of escape. Hope is the only
thing that will get you out of an abusive relationship. Knowing
that somewhere, somehow, you will have a better relationship that
enhances your lifestylebetter than the one you are currently
in.
Act today quietly. Leave an abusive relationship fast by quietly
planning your escape, and make sure you have a back up plan. Let go
of the idea you have to step your foot down when you are in a
relationship. If you do
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what you are supposed to do, your foot is down, and if a
relationship is too much for you, leave. Its called love, not
suffering or pain or being stupid for years. Dont get it confused.
Love is love. Love is supposed to love and that is it.
Faith
I dont really have much to say about faith, but I just want you
to know that no dreams come true without faith. You cannot get out
of a country when your life is in dangerlike my mom did with my
siblings and me if you do not have faith that your hope for a
better life is real.
You cannot leave an abusive relationship if you dont have faith
that when you do decide to leave, your plans will work and you wont
have to go back to the abuser. Faith is what you need to let go and
get ready to fly. You cant make anything work without faith.
Fear is the enemy of faith and hope.
Fear will always come after your faith and ask you to doubt
yourself. The moment you doubt yourself is the moment you will
drown under fear. Fear is not your friend. Fear is your enemy.
Anybody who uses fear to make you do something you are not supposed
to do is not your friend. Fear is the only chain there is for a
free-minded individual. If you really want to be free, you must
learn to face your fears. Fears of more pain will keep people from
wanting to experience even a little pain, and fear of death will
keep people from fighting for their rights. Some people dont mind a
lot of pain, as long as its not death. Fear is the enemy of
faith.
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Let me tell you this, everything you ever hoped for is hidden
behind your greatest fear. You have to let go of your fear if you
are ready to fly.
To fight for what you want, you must not be afraid of pain or
death. Every day we are in a battle for change and to have a better
life. In order to believe that its going to happen, you need faith.
In order to not be afraid of pain and death in the process, you
need hope that someday, somehow, somewhere, you will have a better
life because of what you are doing. Some people did have the
courage to fight even when they knew it would result in death. Why
you ask? Its because of the hope of a better life after death, and
faith that their hard work would not go unknown and that change
would come. Even if they died in the process, they believed change
would come because of their bravery to fight for a better life.
Hope and faith have the power to not only help you change your
life, but also the world. The universe will give you ways to get
what you want, when you want it. You will tap into the God-sent
energy to work, get up early in the morning, and get things done on
a daily basis. To do all that and more, you need hope, love, and
faith. A hopeless person is a depressed person. If you ever felt
down or a lack of energy, its because you have no hope of a better
life through your current actions. You simply have to make some
changes, start doing things that will give you hope of a better
life.
Even rich people need hope of a better life, somewhere, somehow,
and faith that it will happen. If they want to feel alive, they
must work on it on a daily basis. Take action without fear. PAD
(passion, action, and
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determination): have passion, take action, and be
determined.
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