Find Yourself , Find a The Natural Leader You like a challenge. You see everything as an opportunity, and take on responsibility. With such responsibility comes a leadership position, a job you don’t mind at all. Your level of personal power is obvious to everyone you come in contact with, though it sometimes appears to be self alienation. You may make some hasty decisions, but you tend to have brilliant and out-of-the-box insights. You like being at the head of the pack, and others feel comfortable and confident following your lead. You're meant to be in powerful positions—just don't let them get to your head! The Voice of Reason Interested in living peacefully, you steer clear of drama. Your personality traits reflect your desire to avoid conflict—you’re loyal, dependable and faithful. You tend to make good decisions and are constantly available to support the people who mean most to you—your family and friends. When it comes to everyday tasks, you’re often partial to plans and schedules, and have a bit of trouble with variance from the status quo. Not used to emotions playing a major role in your life day to day, you may have trouble showing affection. However, your dependable nature allows you to often offer the support and comfort that people around you need. 12 13 In the middle of the dance floor making new friends! You feel more energized and alive after: You would rather spend your time at a big party… When you’re trying to make a big decision, you: If someone close to you is getting on your nerves, do you: When you’re caught in an obviously awkward situation, you’re more aware of: Do you feel you have a tendency to… Is it difficult for you to postpone big projects or decisions? If a friend asks you on Monday to hang out on Friday, would you: If you know a hurtful rumor going around involving a friend, do you: You consider yourself: When you have some extra cash and could use something new, do you: When you set a plan for yourself: Attending a fabulous party with friends. Talking with your good friends in the room Think literally and base your decision on concrete facts and realism Take the Big Picture into consideration and go with your gut feeling Buy something rational with the best features and utilities Buy what you like best, or what catches your eye first Make a list of things to do Act spontaneously Yes, I need to know that I’m prepared No, I like to let things take their own shape as time goes on, whatever happens happens Accept right away Wait to decide until Thursday, you need to see your other options! An idealist A realist Focus more on the results of the plan and end up losing track of your plan Opportunities to make a joke and alleviate pressure from everyone else Your own pounding heart and uncomfortable feelings Think over how to confront them methodically Act on your emotions and tell that person how you feel immediately Clue them in, even it will hurt them Keep it to yourself to protect them from pain and embarrassment On Valentine's Day, having any kind of date seems like a best case scenario. But if you're stuck out with someone you're incompatible with, you might find yourself wishing you were at home with your dog watching primetime television instead. To avoid a situation like this, take this personality test which helps you identiy the definimg aspects of your personality —and points out traits in possible dates which would complement you flawlessly. start here Centerspread An ideal match for you is someone who can up your amp a bit. While someone as laid back as you are may seem comforting, you should realize that there's nothing wrong with abandoning your comfort level. A high-energy, extroverted match will help you gain new experiences and loosen up (only when appropriate, of course). A fitting match for you would be someone with little desire to lead, but would not be jealous of you occasionally being at the center of attention. Someone humble who enjoys working behind the scenes would eliminate the threat of couple rivalry. You should be each other's support, not competition. Spending a quiet and relaxing afternoon at home by yourself. Qualities to Look For in a Match Qualities to Look For in a Match Qualities to Look For in a Match For you, a compatible match would be someone who can bring you down a level when you get (too) riled up. Someone a little more reserved and rules-abiding could also be useful in helping you focus and stay on track—they'll keep you working hard, and out of trouble. The Go Getter You’re a straight shooter. You don’t shy from confrontation or honesty, and you always speak out when your strong beliefs are challenged. You’re always a few steps ahead of your peers thanks to your knack for reading facial expressions and body language; you pick up on things that other people around you may not. You tend to like the idea that rules are guidelines as opposed to necessities, but you generally have little trouble getting the big things done. Because you might find rules an inconvenience, following a strict course schedule and curriculum in school may be difficult. Your enthusiasm about things and life in general is often contagious, and you have an unmatched ability to spread your excitement to those surrounding you. Compiled by Centerspread Editor Emily McIntyre Quiz design by Gabriela Epstein Based on the Myers-Briggs Personality Test, adapted by Patricia McIntyre PhD Follow it exactly