Bullying: Everyone’s Problem

By Dawne GibsonSchool Counselor at

Englewood Elementary School2011

What is bullying?Bullying includes direct

and indirect acts of intimidation and

humiliation towards someone.

This includes physical acts such as hitting or shoving,

verbal threats, name calling, demanding things

or services, etc…

This includes rejection, humiliation,

manipulation, emails, written notes,

blackmailing, etc…

Boys and girls alike can be bullies. Boys tend to use physical acts of bullying,

while girls tend to use exclusion tactics and

rumors.

Schools have Zero-Tolerance policies to combat bullying.

Counselors also provide guidance lessons that teach

conflict-resolution and problem-solving techniques. Teachers

create positive atmospheres to discourage bullying.

Create open lines of communication so your child will

be able to talk with you when situations arise. Model

appropriate behaviors for handling anger and conflicts.

Avoid programs and games that encourage violent behaviors.

Conflicts are inevitable, but bullying should not be a normal occurrence in our

schools. With conflict-resolution skills and zero-tolerance policies, bullying

can be combated.

Bullies will discover beneficial ways of solving their problems. The victims will be empowered and won’t feel hopeless. Open lines of communication will be established between parents

and their children.

For more help visit the following websites:

http://www.crf-usa.org/violence/links.htmlhttp://stopbullyingnow.hrsa/

gov

www.stopbullyingnow.com