Askkellyforadvice Power Point

Yeah, that’s really me…

Hello Everyone…I’m Kelly!!!

“Get Advice From An Ordinary You”

I’m about to tell you about my website:

askkellyforadvice.comWhere you:

What makes me qualified to give Advice?

Ask yourself, have you ever laid any of your burdens on a bartender?

Do you think that a bartender has heard, seen, and felt all different types of emotions, feelings and even felt themselves what the reality of life is?

Do you think that a bartender is just like anyone else…someone that works, a father, married and have responsibilities to their families?

If you answered

Then I’m Qualified…Yay!!!

My Experience (When giving Advice.)

16 years behind the bar…yes, 16 years.I have given thousands of Advice over the

years.When giving Advice, I am always (100%)

brutally honest, straightforward and don’t sugar coat.

Friends often just tell you what you want to hear instead of what you need to hear.

90 % of the Advice I give, I get a Thank-you. I give Advice based on reality of life…

About my Website:100% Ad-Free Website.This means NO ADS whatsoever, anywhere

on my site.No annoying Pop-Ups either.No Spyware or Spam attached to the website.The Website is 100% real, just as the Advice I

give.I do have to charge $3.99 just to maintain the

website (It does cost for someone to host the site on their server.)

The Website host (or server) is privately owned with state of the art equipment which is better for your privacy.

Proud Father.I have been married and divorced.I volunteer at a local homeless shelter during

my free time.I’m a bartender (I think I already gave away

that secret)I do push the ‘snooze’ button more than once. More importantly, I’m just like you…I work,

am a proud parent , and I have the same troubles as you.

My Motto…”Get Advice From An Ordinary You”

Want to know more about me? Visit me at MySpace.com/askkellyforadvice

About Me…

THE TYPES OF ADVICE I HAVE GIVEN:

Relationships Dating Love Marriage &

Divorce Sex Career Teen Parenting Spiritual &

Ethical

And more…

DATING:

The dating process is hard enough, it’s like a job interview. Getting to know each other…likes and dislikes. A little nervous, not knowing where to go on a first date or if he or she even likes the same thing you like. You really like the other person, but how do you know if the other person likes you? Are you compatible? Your doing your best trying to impress the other person so much that you forget who you really are at times. This is the first stage in getting to know each other, but a lot of questions are floating around inside your head during this stage. What do you do?

Relationships:

If the dating process goes well, then you form a special bond by forming a relationship with each other. The both of you gets to know one another even more closely and form a special type of attachment with another. Your feelings starts to grow, your heart starts to flutter more quickly than the norm… More questions arise inside your head. Is this going to last? What is this feeling I feel toward the other person? Should I become more intimate? All these questions are normal, it’s human nature.

SEX

:When a relationship progresses, intimacy comes. Getting to know each others body by using all your 5 senses. Sex becomes more than just sex…it becomes more of an emotional attachment. The flirtation increase such as more kissing, more physical attraction and more of a connection between the two. But sometimes, you doubt your abilities in pleasing the other partner. Why can’s he last longer? Why isn’t he getting erected, is it me? What can I do to get him to give me an orgasm? What can I do to convince the other to try different positions? Why am I so self-conscious about my body? What is the difference between sex and making love? When concerning sex or making love, this subject can get complicated… So what do you do???

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LOVE: What a wonderful feeling this is… When love grows, it’s the best feeling in the world. Your always on cloud nine and feel euphoric all throughout the day. The main question when it comes to love is… Is it love, lust, deep desire to fill in the lonely gap or just infatuation?

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Marriage:There are two different types of marriages in our

society.Heterosexual and Same Sex Marriage…When it comes to marriage, it is a beautiful bond:

Heterosexual or Same Sex. With both types of marriages, the Heart still feels the

joy, wonders and the excitement of any type of marriage. Two hearts linking is always a beautiful thing.

The question is…What can you do to keep the marriage burning, everlasting and how to overcome many obstacles that comes with a marriage?

How can you keep a marriage in the honeymoon stage always? (Yes, this is possible)

Divorce:

Sometimes Divorce is inevitable…You realize that sometimes that the marriage

was a mistake and no matter what you do, reconciliation is not an option.

The origin for the grounds of Divorce can have many different reasons…

How do you cope with the Divorce?Can the Marriage ever be resolved?What can you do to lighten the pain that is

associated with Divorce?What about the children, if any, is involved?

Divorce:

CareerIn Life, sometimes we put our careers first ahead of everything else, even sometimes…ahead of our own family. We loose track of time and let it slip away. Our time management sometimes gets lost somewhere between 6am to 6am the next morning. Having a career and a job defines who and what we are, it is our identity!!! But sometimes we loose the sight of relaxation and just enjoying our families and us. With the demands of our careers, how can we juggle everything else and learn the proper time management skills? What career path should you take? What if we choose the wrong one? How do I climb up? Just remember, what you choose will define who and what your are.

Parenting

Single Parents… Unity…

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Being a parent can be both challenging and rewarding at the same time for either a single parent or for a family that is still a whole unit. There can be conflicting interests when rearing a child or children when the parents are conflicting. Either way, when a child has the love and support from both the parents, the child will grow up to feel the love, so he or she can pass it on to the next generation. If raising a child does become difficult or anything arises, get help, or if need be, get some advice about what to do in certain situations.

TEENS:

When it comes to teens, they have a mind of their own, either their own mind or through the minds of their peers. They are so easily persuaded by their friends and more than often, sometimes listens to them more than the parents. So what do we do to let the teens know that the parents know what’s best for them and to bring them into reality? What is the best way to bring them up, especially in this society? What do we do when they don’t listen and rebel? What about when they begin to experiment with drugs or start dating?

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Just about everyone is somehow spiritually connected to a certain belief spiritually. Sometimes, we often loose the faith in our belief and it brings us to a crossroad not knowing which path to take. Is it the path to righteousness or a path of unforgiveness? How can we decide on what to believe in anymore, especially when life is not turning the way that we have anticipated? Does it feel like a dead end road? What can we do to bring our faith into a harmonious state? What can we do to bring peace into our lives?

Ethics:

Right vs. Wrong

Ethics 101 vs. Morals: What is the difference? Morals are what we believe in and what stands for our own uniqueness. Ethically, our decisions are based on what society has molded us into and what the rules that they want us to follow. The main question is, how do we combine the two to live by our own standard along with society? What is more important to us? Our own individual attribute or societies standards? Ethically, it might be right, but morally, it is wrong…How do we choose? What is the right thing to do vs. what really should be done?

ETHICS 101:

ADVICE:It seems like no matter where we go or what we do, we are always in need of advice, either through a second party (mostly, which is not neutrally based) or through a third party such as myself. When going through a third party, he or she will not be bias, not judge and be more prone to tell you what you need to hear instead of what you want to hear. This is where I come in…

I want you lay to your burdens upon me and let me help. I do understand that life can get difficult at times and I want to be there to help guide you in the right direction. So here I am, I want you to abuse my ears….If you would like to get to know me first, check out the next slide.

Let me do the thinking for you…

My sites: Just hoover your mouse over any of the 3 links below and it will take you to the site (be careful, it’s very sensitive…)

Askkellyforadvice.com

MySpace.com

The link on the right is to my wordpress blog page, it does have a link to MySpace blogs, Twitter and other of my personal sites.

I have always loved this cartoon, hope it brought a smile to your face just as it did mine when I first saw it. Hope you enjoy the rest of your day, but remember, I’m always here for you…