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BT8 Session 6/9/16 1:30 PM A Simple Tool for Speaking Honestly and Constructively Presented by: Lorraine Aguilar Working Harmony, Inc. Brought to you by: 350 Corporate Way, Suite 400, Orange Park, FL 32073 888---268---8770 ·· 904---278---0524 - [email protected] - http://www.techwell.com/
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BT8Session6/9/161:30PM

ASimpleToolforSpeakingHonestlyandConstructively

Presentedby:

LorraineAguilar

WorkingHarmony,Inc.

Broughttoyouby:

350CorporateWay,Suite400,OrangePark,FL32073888---268---8770··[email protected]://www.techwell.com/

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LorraineAguilarWorkingHarmony,Inc.LorraineAguilarhelpspeoplecollaborate,innovate,andinfluenceothers.AsCEOofWorkingHarmony,LorrainehastrainedandcoachedseniorleadershipteamsatNissan,Merck,theUnitedNations,andotherorganizationswhosesuccessdependsoneffectivecollaboration.ShespeaksregularlytobusinessleadersinChinaandKoreaonhowtoinfluenceandengagepeopleusingNonviolentCommunication(NVC).AcertifiedNVCtrainer,formerengineer,andcorporatemanager,LorraineisinternationallyrecognizedforherdevelopmentofNVC-basedprogramsandtoolsthatcreateamoreempathic,collaborative,andcreativeworkplace.Contactheratlorraine.aguilar@workingharmony.comorsignuptoreceiveperiodicfreemicro-skillstrainingvideosatworkingharmony.com.

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A Simple Tool for Speaking Honestly and Constructively

Agile Dev West June 9, 2016

Lorraine [email protected]!562.412.4933!!

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Your Challenges NVC Tool Feedback

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Today’s Program © 2016 Working Harmony, Inc. All rights reserved.

Your Challenges

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What are the root causes of resistance in your Agile Teams?

What discourages your team from authentically speaking up?

What are the root causes of resistance to change?

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Your Challenges NVC

Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

Four Elements: • Observation – Free of judgment or

interpretation •  Feelings – Arising from needs met/unmet

• Needs – Free of strategy

• Requests – Clear, positive and doable

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Strategies

Needs (underlying drivers)

Conflict

Connection

Innovation

Communication Framework (adapted from Nonviolent Communication)

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Your Challenges NVC Tool

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Tool

1.  What’s one quality that I would like to see more of on my team? (Pick a card.)

2.  What would it look like in action?

3.  What actions can we take?

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Your Challenges NVC Tool Feedback

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How does this tool apply to Agile environments?

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