10 roadblocks to Living Your Best Life

TOP 10 ROADBLOCKS TO LIVING YOUR

BEST LIFE

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What We Will Cover • Why some people win—and others don’t

• The 3 Cs for getting what you truly want

• 10 Biggest Roadblocks to Living Your Best Life

• Some choices you can make to practically guarantee your success in 2016


Everyone Has Challenges • Your best life requires overcoming those challenges

• We have to know what they are o Not to focus on them, but to solve them

• Real growth occurs when we rise to our challenges o What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger

• One of your challenges is “I know that.”


The 3 Cs to Getting What You Truly Want

1. Clarity

2. Concentration (focus)

3. Consistency


3 Cs are Not Enough • You have to know what you’re up against

• You have to be willing to . . . o know your dragons

o slay your dragons

o pay the price

o make changes

o get back up when you get knocked down


The 10 Roadblocks 1. Confusion (lack of clarity)

2. Lack of focus (concentration)

3. Not enough reasons (your why)

4. Lack of self-esteem (worthiness)

5. Lack of belief (confidence, erroneous beliefs)

6. Deficient knowledge (ignorance)

7. Insufficient skills, unsupportive habits

8. Not enough money

9. Low energy, poor health

10. Inadequate support (going it alone)


Confusion • Most people don’t know what it is they really want to

achieve. Mark Twain thought so.

• They know what they don’t want, but then that’s where their focus and energy goes—to what they don’t want.

• Being unclear on what you want (and/or how to get it) is one of the biggest stumbling blocks to success.

• Paul Meyer says if you’re not achieving the success you desire it’s simply because your objectives are not clearly defined.

• What and why are way more important than how.

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Lack of Focus • You can be clear on your goal, but if you don’t

stay focused, if you take on too much, if you fill your life with busy things or operate inconsistently, you will fail.

• Focus creates power. A river’s might is harnessed by a dam and focused into electrical energy.

• Some people say you can achieve everything you want. I believe you can achieve anything you want.

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Not Enough Reasons • Reasons come first, answers come second.

• If you have powerful enough reasons, you can accomplish anything you desire.

• Significant success demands passion.

• When your why is strong enough, the how will come.

• Desire is the procrastination killer

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Lack of Self-esteem • Many people simply don’t feel worthy of success.

• This is a tough one. I can tell you it’s based on an erroneous belief—you have to get that for yourself.

• Read the books. Listen to the tapes. Hang out with people who can help you see your highest and best.

• You deserve to be successful.

• There is nothing preordained about this life. There is no reason for you not to have what you want unless you ignore the principles of success.

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Lack of Belief • This is related to worthiness, but there’s more to it.

• You need to believe in yourself and in the creative process.

• Winners expect to win. A shortage of belief causes many people to give up or never begin in the first place.

• In many cases, it causes one to take shortcuts that sabotage their success.

• Find and eradicate your erroneous beliefs.

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Deficient Knowledge • A worthy goal usually requires learning new things.

• Buckminster Fuller said, “You can’t learn less.”

• Perhaps you’re not sure what it is you need to learn in order to get where you want to go. Find out.

• But don’t let lack of knowledge keep you from starting.

• If you wait until you know it all, you’ll never begin.

• Start from where you are and build the bridge as you walk on it.

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Insufficient Skills, Habits • Most likely there are certain skill sets you lack

which will hinder your progress.

• Discover what these are and start today in gaining the necessary skills.

• Perhaps you need to learn how to effectively use a computer and the Internet. Maybe you need to up-level your communication or time management proficiency. Even a good attitude is a skill.

• Enhancing your skills and habits is a lifelong investment that will pay you big dividends.

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Not Enough Money • Many people think this is the number one reason

why they haven’t achieved their dreams.

• They think that if they just had more money then they would be successful.

• But it’s rarely a money problem, it’s usually an idea problem.

• With good ideas and a tenacious spirit you can get the funding you need.

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Low Energy “Fatigue makes cowards of us all.”

—Vince Lombardi

• In order to have the energy and stamina to win, we need to take care of our bodies.

• Get adequate rest, eat the right foods and refrain from careless and unsafe behavior. Our achievement is our production. Our bodies, our minds and our intuition make up our production capacity.

• If we don’t properly care for ourselves, we’ll be unable to produce.

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Not Enough Support . . . or not the RIGHT support.

• This is our business. We are here to source and serve.

• Everyone needs help. I’ve seen far too many people fail because they weren’t willing to ask for help or didn’t know where to turn in order to get it.

• Accountability matters.

• There are always people who can help. Create a Master Mind Group. Bring in talent and resources from others and make it a win-win situation. Align yourself with organizations that can help you succeed.

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You Don’t Need to Go it Alone (and you shouldn’t)

• I’ve been helping people like you for over 40 years

• No need to re-invent the wheel

• Motivation DOES work.

• Master Mind with Me and/or let me be your coach

• Your network has a lot top do with your Net WORTH


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Parting Thoughts • Pick your biggest challenge and concentrate on that.

• What will be different?

• What are you truly committed to?

• In order for things to change, you have to change.

• If not now, when?

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