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വിവാഹ പൂര്‍വ്വ ബോധവത്കരണ പരിശീലന പരിപാടി

Jul 11, 2015

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sakhaa sapta padI bhava sakhyaM tE gamEyaMsakhyaM tE mAyOshaH sakhyaM tE mAyOshTaH

With these seven steps you have become my friend.May I deserve your friendship,May my friendship make me one with you.May your friendship make you one with me.20Anyone who has any question about the role of a woman in Hindu marriage should payspecial attention to the charge and blessing by the presiding priest at the end of saptapadi.He recites:saamraajnI shvashurEbhava, saamraajnI shvashruvaaMbhava, nanaMdaarinaamraajnIbhava, saamraajnI adhidEvraShuBe queenly with your father-in-law, Be queenly with your mother-in-law, Be queenlywith his sisters, Be queenly with his brothers21 .22 .23 .24Famous quotes -

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. . . ... . . ,,,, , .41Marianne J. Legato, MD, FACP, is an internationally known[citation needed] academic physician, author, and lecturer and globally recognized expert in gender-specific medicine, the science of how normal human function and the experience of the same disease vary as a function of gender/biological sex. Legato is an expert on the sex-specific aspects of men's and women's health and is the founder and director of the Partnership for Gender-Specific Medicine at Columbia University. 42.

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At its core, gender-specific medicine is the science of how normal human biology differs between men and women and how the diagnosis and treatment of disease differs as a function of gender. Dr. Legatos discoveries and those of her colleagues have led to a personalization of medicine that assists doctors worldwide in understanding the difference in normal function of men and women and in their sex-specific experiences of the same diseases.45-- . . ,,,,.,, .4647

, 48Why Men don't Listen and Women can't read MapAmong other differences, women have a bigger corpus callosum they are far better at multitasking. This is why men don't usually interrupt each other except aggressively. Emotions are processed all over the female brain, but only in two areas of a man's right hemisphere, this is why men can separate emotion from speech (on the left hemisphere).Women think aloud more than men, use more indirect requests (e.g. 'wouldn't it be nice to stop for coffee?') and their speech contains fewer 'ums' and 'ahs'. Men will go silent when under stress while women will talk. Asking for help is seen as a weakness by men. Women find deep voices attractive because they suggest high testosterone levels; vice versa for men and 'schoolgirl' voices. Men are attracted to the hourglass figure as they are the most fertile while women like men with broad shoulders best-ideal for carrying prey home49

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55Pre MARITAL COUNSELLING1.Identifying their assumptions2.How to deal with conflicts3.Identify the challenges in their relationships4.Develop skills to recognisestrength and weakness of each partner5.what each bring into relationship6.how to grow together without losing individual identities

567.findout what is common to both8.Acceptence and appreciation of differences57SOME FEARS

FEAR OF SOCIAL ADJUSTMENTSNEW LOCATIONNEW HOMENEW NEIGHBOURS FEAR OF CONFLICTSPOINT OF VIEW DIFFER58LOSS OF INDEPENDENCEFEAR OF SHARING PHYSICAL SPACES WITH OTHERFEAR OF TAKING NEW RESPOSIBILITIES59TUNING--COUNSELLINGTUNING LIKE A RADIOTO DEVELOP A POSITIVE BALANCEDOUTLOOKCLASH OF INTERESTS AND PRIORITIESEACH ONES CAN BE RESPECTED AND FOSTERED THROUGH MUTUAL AGREEMENTS--------Not adjustments only agreementsA healthy give and take60Conflicts !!!!!!!!!!!Most of them arises from domestic roles,resposibilities and money matters61Sexual issuesAfter marriage issuesIgnorance of how to please each other and get pleasureMyths and misconceptions of first nightPast tendencies (pre marriage period)If sexual relationships fail it leads to fatal collapse62Self disclosure issuesHow much of your past reveal to the partner?Its silly and simple----Divide your past by different age stages1 to10 --- L.P. SCHOOL11 to 13 U.P.School14 to 16 High school17 to 19 -- Higher secondary20 to 22 -- Degree23 to Marriage --- Family mattersWhat a problem to reveal the memories as u can,63Past memoriesChild illnessFamily disfunctionsFinancial disastersFailed careersAwards and RewardsClose Friends detailsOneway Romances64Why Men don't Listen and Women can't read Maps

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