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• sakhaa sapta padI bhava sakhyaM tE gamEyaM• sakhyaM tE mAyOshaH sakhyaM tE mAyOshTaH•
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• Anyone who has any question about the role of a woman in Hindu marriage should pay
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• He recites:• saamraajnI shvashurEbhava, saamraajnI
shvashruvaaMbhava, nanaMdaari• naamraajnIbhava, saamraajnI adhidEvraShu• Be queenly with your father-in-law, Be queenly with
your mother-in-law, Be queenly• with his sisters, Be queenly with his brothers
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• Marianne J. Legato, MD, FACP, is an internationally known[citation needed] academic physician, author, and lecturer and globally recognized expert in gender-specific medicine, the science of how normal human function and the experience of the same disease vary as a function of gender/biological sex. Legato is an expert on the sex-specific aspects of men's and women's health and is the founder and director of the Partnership for Gender-Specific Medicine at Columbia University.
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• At its core, gender-specific medicine is the science of how normal human biology differs between men and women and how the diagnosis and treatment of disease differs as a function of gender. Dr. Legato’s discoveries and those of her colleagues have led to a personalization of medicine that assists doctors worldwide in understanding the difference in normal function of men and women and in their sex-specific experiences of the same diseases.
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Why Men don't Listen and Women can't read Map
• Among other differences, women have a bigger corpus callosum they are far better at multitasking. This is why men don't usually interrupt each other except aggressively. Emotions are processed all over the female brain, but only in two areas of a man's right hemisphere, this is why men can separate emotion from speech (on the left hemisphere).Women think aloud more than men, use more indirect requests (e.g. 'wouldn't it be nice to stop for coffee?') and their speech contains fewer 'ums' and 'ahs'. Men will go silent when under stress while women will talk. Asking for help is seen as a weakness by men. Women find deep voices attractive because they suggest high testosterone levels; vice versa for men and 'schoolgirl' voices. Men are attracted to the hourglass figure as they are the most fertile while women like men with broad shoulders best-ideal for carrying prey home
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Pre MARITAL COUNSELLING
• 1.Identifying their assumptions
• 2.How to deal with conflicts
• 3.Identify the challenges in their relationships
• 4.Develop skills to recognisestrength and weakness of each partner
• 5.what each bring into relationship
• 6.how to grow together without losing individual identities
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• 7.findout what is common to both
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SOME FEARS
• FEAR OF SOCIAL ADJUSTMENTS
• NEW LOCATION
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• NEW NEIGHBOURS
• FEAR OF CONFLICTS
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• LOSS OF INDEPENDENCE
• FEAR OF SHARING PHYSICAL SPACES WITH OTHER
• FEAR OF TAKING NEW RESPOSIBILITIES
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TUNING--COUNSELLING
• TUNING LIKE A RADIO
• TO DEVELOP A “POSITIVE BALANCEDOUTLOOK”
• CLASH OF INTERESTS AND PRIORITIES
• EACH ONE’S CAN BE RESPECTED AND FOSTERED THROUGH MUTUAL AGREEMENTS
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• A healthy give and take
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Conflicts !!!!!!!!!!!
• Most of them arises from domestic roles,
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Sexual issues
• After marriage issues
• Ignorance of how to please each other and get pleasure
• Myths and misconceptions of first night
• Past tendencies (pre marriage period)
• If sexual relationships fail it leads to fatal collapse
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Self disclosure issues
• How much of your past reveal to the partner?• Its silly and simple----• Divide your past by different age stages• 1 to10 --- L.P. SCHOOL• 11 to 13 – U.P.School• 14 to 16 – High school• 17 to 19 -- Higher secondary• 20 to 22 -- Degree• 23 to Marriage --- Family matters• What a problem to reveal the memories as u can,
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Past memories
• Child illness
• Family disfunctions
• Financial disasters
• Failed careers
• Awards and Rewards
• Close Friends details
• Oneway Romances
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