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X3 Rock Your Family
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X3 Rock Your FamilySession 3: Iʼm the Parent... ...dealing with toddlers
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What is the bullseye?
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What is the bullseye?
• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”
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What is the bullseye?
• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”
• Training
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What is the bullseye?
• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”
• Training
• Discipling
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What does it look like?
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What does it look like?
• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord”
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What does it look like?
• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord”
• What would it look like to bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord?
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Discipline
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Discipline
• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting
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Discipline
• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting
• Youʼve got to set the boundary
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Discipline
• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting
• Youʼve got to set the boundary
• By setting the boundary you tell them who is in charge
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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family
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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt
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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt
• You make the rules
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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt
• You make the rules
• You set the boundaries
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I Am The Parent
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• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it
I Am The Parent
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• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it
• When they challenge the boundary, you must enforce it
I Am The Parent
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• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it
• When they challenge the boundary, you must enforce it
• If children have no boundary, they have no security
I Am The Parent
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I Am The Parent
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• Enforced in a good, loving way
I Am The Parent
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• Enforced in a good, loving way
• If you let them move the boundary, they will
I Am The Parent
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• Enforced in a good, loving way
• If you let them move the boundary, they will
• Teaching children how to obey God
I Am The Parent
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• Enforced in a good, loving way
• If you let them move the boundary, they will
• Teaching children how to obey God
• The fence has to be clearly defined
I Am The Parent
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I Am The Parent
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• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved
I Am The Parent
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• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved
• It is important that children experience the consequences of overstepping the boundary
I Am The Parent
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• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved
• It is important that children experience the consequences of overstepping the boundary
• Good consequences and bad consequences
I Am The Parent
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I Am The Parent
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I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger
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I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger • You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young
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I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger • You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young • If you are married, the decision must be made together
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I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger • You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young • If you are married, the decision must be made together• It has to be done in a loving way that your kids understand
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Homework
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Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries
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Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries
• How will you enforce the rules?
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Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries
• How will you enforce the rules?
• Iʼm the parent, youʼre not
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