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Se

lf A

dvo

cacy

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up

ST

AR

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Th

is m

an

ua

l h

as

be

en

use

d b

y s

elf

ad

vo

cacy

gro

up

s a

ll o

ve

r B

C.

Th

e

au

tho

r(s)

is

un

kn

ow

n a

nd

we

are

a�

em

p�

ng

to

id

en

�fy

th

e s

ou

rce

.

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trib

ute

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y t

he

BC

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lf A

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cacy

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un

da

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n,

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• •

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22

7 -

6th

Str

ee

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Ne

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est

min

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BC

V3

L 3

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4-7

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55

No

tes

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

2

Se

lf a

dvo

cacy

Wh

y D

o W

e N

ee

d S

elf

Ad

vo

cacy

?

Peo

ple

o�

en d

on

’t k

no

w v

ery

mu

ch a

bo

ut

peo

ple

wh

o h

ave

dev

elo

pm

enta

l d

isab

ilit

ies.

Th

e th

ing

s th

at p

eop

le r

ead

ab

ou

t u

s in

new

spap

ers

and

b

oo

ks,

or

hea

r o

n t

he

rad

io o

r se

e o

n t

elev

isio

n, a

re o

�en

n

egat

ive,

un

hel

pfu

l o

r si

mp

ly u

ntr

ue.

In t

he

pas

t, p

eop

le w

ith

dis

abil

itie

s h

ave

o�

en b

een

sh

ut

away

. So

peo

ple

hav

e n

ot

met

us

or

go

t to

kn

ow

wh

at w

e ar

e li

ke

or

wh

at w

e th

ink

.

As

a re

sult

, peo

ple

mig

ht

avo

id u

s, t

hin

k o

f u

s as

sec

on

d-

clas

s ci

tize

ns,

or

even

tre

at u

s b

adly

.

Sel

f ad

vo

cacy

is

a w

ay o

f le

�in

g o

ther

peo

ple

kn

ow

th

at:

• P

eop

le w

ith

dis

abil

itie

s ar

e p

eop

le fi

rst.

• W

e ar

e im

po

rtan

t p

eop

le; j

ust

as

imp

ort

ant

as a

ny

on

e el

se i

n t

he

wo

rld

.

• J

ust

bec

ause

we

are

all

diff

eren

t fr

om

eac

h o

ther

do

esn

’t

mea

n t

hat

an

y o

f u

s ar

e le

ss i

mp

ort

ant.

• W

e w

ant

the

chan

ce t

o b

e fu

ll c

itiz

ens

in o

ur

com

mu

nit

y.

• M

any

of

us

hav

e sh

ow

n g

reat

co

ura

ge

in o

ver

com

ing

o

ur

diffi

cult

ies.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

3

Th

ing

s To

Do

Ca

n y

ou

th

ink

of

oth

er

thin

gs

tha

t

yo

u w

ou

ld l

ike

to

te

ll o

the

r p

eo

ple

ab

ou

t p

eo

ple

wit

h d

isa

bil

i�e

s?

Do

yo

u k

no

w o

f a

ny

pe

op

le

wit

h d

isa

bil

i�e

s w

ho

ha

ve

sho

wn

co

ura

ge

in

ove

rco

min

g

diffi

cul�

es?

54No

tes

53

Wh

at

are

so

me

re

aso

ns

wh

y y

ou

mig

ht

wa

nt

an

ad

vis

or

to v

ote

?

On

e re

aso

n y

ou

mig

ht

wan

t an

ad

vis

or

to v

ote

is

bec

ause

th

ey a

re a

mem

ber

of

the

gro

up

wh

o i

s w

ork

ing

fo

r th

e sa

me

thin

gs

as e

ver

yo

ne

else

.

Wh

at

are

so

me

re

aso

ns

yo

u m

igh

t n

ot

wa

nt

an

ad

vis

or

to v

ote

?

On

e re

aso

n y

ou

mig

ht

no

t w

ant

an a

dv

iso

r to

vo

te i

s b

ecau

se

som

etim

es p

eop

le w

ill

cop

y t

he

adv

iso

r an

d v

ote

ho

wev

er

that

per

son

do

es. S

om

etim

es, i

t g

ives

th

e ad

vis

or

too

mu

ch

con

tro

l.

It i

s u

p t

o y

ou

r g

rou

p t

o d

ecid

e if

yo

u w

ant

the

adv

iso

r to

v

ote

or

no

t.

4If w

e sp

eak

up

fo

r o

urs

elv

es t

hro

ug

h s

elf

adv

oca

cy, w

e ca

n

chan

ge

thin

gs

that

peo

ple

bel

iev

e ab

ou

t u

s.

Her

e ar

e so

me

idea

s th

at p

eop

le h

ave

that

are

WR

ON

G a

nd

sh

ou

ld b

e ch

ang

ed.

• S

om

e p

eop

le t

hin

k t

hat

ou

r d

isab

ilit

ies

are

the

mo

st

imp

ort

ant

thin

g a

bo

ut

us.

• S

om

e p

eop

le t

hin

k t

hat

we

are

all

the

sam

e an

d d

on

’t

see

that

we

are

ind

ivid

ual

s.

• S

om

e p

eop

le l

abel

us

wit

h w

ord

s li

ke

‘men

tall

y

han

dic

app

ed’ o

r ‘e

pil

epti

c’.

• S

om

e p

eop

le t

hin

k t

hat

we

do

n’t

des

erv

e re

spec

t o

r d

ign

ity.

• S

om

e p

eop

le t

reat

us

lik

e ch

ild

ren

.

• S

om

e p

eop

le d

on

’t w

ant

peo

ple

wit

h d

isab

ilit

ies

nea

r th

em.

• S

om

e p

eop

le t

hin

k t

hat

peo

ple

wit

h d

isab

ilit

ies

sho

uld

b

e sh

ut

away

in

ho

spit

als

or

inst

itu

tio

ns.

• S

om

e p

eop

le d

on

’t t

hin

k p

eop

le w

ith

dis

abil

itie

s d

eser

ve

ho

use

s, m

on

ey, w

ork

or

edu

cati

on

.

• S

om

e p

eop

le t

hin

k p

eop

le w

ith

dis

abil

itie

s sh

ou

ldn

’t

hav

e ri

gh

ts a

nd

fre

edo

m.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

5

Th

ing

s To

Do

Ca

n y

ou

th

ink

of

an

y o

the

r id

ea

s

tha

t p

eo

ple

ha

ve

th

at

are

wro

ng

an

d t

ha

t sh

ou

ld b

e c

ha

ng

ed

?

Ca

n y

ou

de

scri

be

th

e m

ost

imp

ort

an

t th

ing

s a

bo

ut

yo

urs

elf

an

d o

the

r p

eo

ple

wit

h d

isa

bil

i�e

s

tha

t yo

u k

no

w?

52W

ha

t a

re s

om

e w

ays

to fi

nd

an

ad

vis

or

for

yo

ur

gro

up

?

Man

y g

rou

ps

alre

ady

hav

e an

ad

vis

or

wh

en t

hey

sta

rt.

So

met

imes

th

e ad

vis

or

is f

rom

a s

erv

ice

pro

gra

m o

r a

spec

ial

‘cit

izen

ad

vo

cacy

’ pro

gra

m.

So

met

imes

th

ere

are

gro

up

s in

yo

ur

tow

n l

ike

the

Ass

oci

atio

n f

or

Co

mm

un

ity

Liv

ing

. Th

ey m

igh

t h

elp

fin

d a

n

adv

iso

r fo

r y

ou

. If

ther

e ar

e o

ther

clu

bs

or

gro

up

s w

ho

hel

p

peo

ple

, yo

u c

ou

ld a

sk t

hem

fo

r id

eas.

If t

her

e is

a c

oll

ege

in y

ou

r to

wn

, yo

u c

ou

ld c

all

the

spec

ial

edu

cati

on

or

the

edu

cati

on

pro

gra

m a

nd

ask

if

they

hav

e a

teac

her

or

a st

ud

ent

wh

o c

ou

ld b

e y

ou

r ad

vis

or.

Als

o a

sk i

f th

ey k

no

w o

f an

yo

ne

else

wh

o c

ou

ld h

elp

.

So

met

imes

, ch

urc

hes

are

a g

oo

d p

lace

to

lo

ok

fo

r a

per

son

w

ho

co

uld

hel

p y

ou

. Kee

p t

ryin

g a

nd

tal

k t

o o

ther

s fo

r id

eas

of

wh

ere

to l

oo

k i

n y

ou

r to

wn

.

Wh

at

can

yo

u d

o i

f yo

ur

ad

vis

or

do

es

too

mu

ch o

r to

o l

i�le

of

the

wo

rk f

or

yo

ur

gro

up

?

If y

ou

r ad

vis

or

do

es t

oo

mu

ch o

r to

o l

i�le

fo

r y

ou

r g

rou

p,

the

firs

t th

ing

to

do

is

to t

alk

to

th

e ad

vis

or.

Hav

e a

mee

tin

g

so t

he

gro

up

can

tel

l th

e ad

vis

or

no

t to

tak

e o

ver

or

no

t to

si

t b

ack

so

mu

ch. M

ake

it c

lear

wh

at i

t is

th

at y

ou

wan

t fr

om

th

e ad

vis

or.

If

thin

gs

do

no

ch

ang

e an

d y

ou

hav

e g

iven

th

e ad

vis

or

a ch

ance

, ask

th

at a

dv

iso

r to

qu

it a

nd

fin

d a

new

ad

vis

or.

51

• A

per

son

wh

o k

no

ws

som

eth

ing

ab

ou

t d

isab

ilit

ies

and

ab

ou

t se

rvic

es f

or

peo

ple

wit

h d

evel

op

men

tal

dis

abil

itie

s in

yo

ur

com

mu

nit

y.

• A

per

son

wh

o i

s w

illi

ng

to

sp

end

tim

e w

ith

yo

ur

gro

up

w

ith

ou

t b

ein

g p

aid

if

that

is

wh

at i

s n

eed

ed.

• A

per

son

wh

o i

s w

illi

ng

to

su

pp

ort

th

e g

rou

p t

o m

ake

thei

r o

wn

dec

isio

ns.

• A

per

son

wh

o d

oes

n’t

ru

n a

pro

gra

m o

r se

rvic

es.

• A

per

son

wh

o i

s w

illi

ng

to

hel

p t

he

gro

up

wit

ho

ut

tak

ing

ov

er. T

hat

per

son

sh

ou

ld k

no

w t

he

go

al i

s to

m

ake

the

gro

up

wo

rk w

ith

ou

t an

ad

vis

or

som

eday

.

Wh

at

are

so

me

th

ing

s a

dvis

ors

do

?

Ad

vis

ors

do

man

y t

hin

gs.

Her

e ar

e f

ew:

• G

ive

adv

ice

wh

en a

sked

.

• H

elp

gu

ide

the

gro

up

.

• H

elp

get

mo

re t

rain

ing

fo

r w

hat

th

e g

rou

p n

eed

s.

• A

�en

d e

ver

y m

eeti

ng

.

• W

ork

wit

h t

he

gro

up

to

ch

ang

e th

ing

s th

at s

tan

d i

n t

he

way

.

• D

o w

hat

ever

is

nee

ded

to

mak

e th

e g

rou

p w

ork

be�

er

for

all

the

mem

ber

s.

6We

nee

d s

elf

adv

oca

cy t

o t

ell

peo

ple

wh

o w

e ar

e an

d w

hat

w

e th

ink

.

Th

is w

ill

hel

p t

o c

han

ge

peo

ple

’s w

ron

g i

dea

s. I

t w

ill

hel

p

peo

ple

to

tre

at u

s b

e�er

an

d g

ive

us

mo

re o

pp

ort

un

itie

s.

Wit

ho

ut

self

ad

vo

cacy

, we

wil

l co

nti

nu

e to

be

seen

as

seco

nd

-cl

ass

citi

zen

s.

Wit

h s

elf

adv

oca

cy, w

e w

ill

be

seen

as

peo

ple

firs

t.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

7

Su

mm

ary

Wh

y D

o W

e N

ee

d S

elf

ad

vo

cacy

?

• S

elf

adv

oca

cy i

s a

way

of

le�

ing

peo

ple

kn

ow

th

at w

e ar

e p

eop

le fi

rst.

• A

nd

th

at w

e ar

e as

val

uab

le a

s ev

ery

on

e el

se.

• M

any

peo

ple

hav

e a

lot

of

wro

ng

id

eas

abo

ut

peo

ple

w

ith

dis

abil

itie

s.

• T

hes

e id

eas

nee

d t

o b

e ch

ang

ed.

• W

e n

eed

sel

f ad

vo

cacy

to

tel

l p

eop

le w

ho

we

are

and

w

hat

we

thin

k.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

50W

ork

ing

Wit

h a

n A

dv

iso

r

Ad

vis

ors

Wh

at

is a

n a

dv

iso

r?

An

AD

VIS

OR

is

a p

erso

n w

ho

hel

ps

yo

ur

gro

up

wo

rk

be�

er w

ith

ou

t ta

kin

g o

ver

. Th

e ad

vis

or

or

hel

per

can

giv

e id

eas

abo

ut

ho

w t

o r

un

th

e g

rou

p, c

an s

up

po

rt t

he

wo

rk o

f th

e g

rou

p, a

nd

can

tea

ch t

he

gro

up

ho

w t

o w

ork

aro

un

d

pro

ble

ms.

Bu

t th

e ad

vis

or

sho

uld

nev

er b

eco

me

the

gro

up

le

ader

or

tell

th

e g

rou

p w

hat

th

ey h

ave

to d

o.

Wh

at

are

so

me

th

ing

s to

lo

ok

fo

r w

he

n y

ou

are

try

ing

to

fin

d a

n a

dv

iso

r?

So

me

thin

gs

to l

oo

k f

or

wh

en y

ou

are

try

ing

to

fin

d a

n

adv

iso

r is

:

• A

per

son

wh

o b

elie

ves

in

sel

f ad

vo

cacy

an

d w

hat

yo

ur

gro

up

wan

ts t

o d

o.

• A

per

son

wh

o b

elie

ves

th

at a

ll p

eop

le h

ave

abil

itie

s an

d

hav

e so

met

hin

g t

o o

ffer

an

d t

hat

all

peo

ple

gro

w a

nd

ch

ang

e th

rou

gh

th

eir

exp

erie

nce

s.

• A

per

son

wh

o b

elie

ves

th

at a

ll p

eop

le s

ho

uld

hav

e th

e ch

ance

to

par

tici

pat

e in

co

mm

un

ity

lif

e an

d t

hat

peo

ple

h

ave

the

rig

ht

to w

hat

ever

su

pp

ort

th

ey n

eed

to

mak

e th

at w

ork

.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 49

List

en

ing

Su

mm

ary

Lis

ten

ing

mea

ns

pay

ing

a�

enti

on

to

wh

at a

no

ther

per

son

is

say

ing

to

yo

u.

It i

s im

po

rtan

t to

be

a g

oo

d l

iste

ner

bec

ause

:

• i

t sh

ow

s th

e p

erso

n w

ho

is

talk

ing

th

at y

ou

are

in

tere

sted

in

th

em a

nd

th

at y

ou

are

in

tere

sted

in

wh

at

they

are

say

ing

.

• i

t en

cou

rag

es p

eop

le t

o t

alk

to

yo

u.

• i

t sh

ow

s th

e o

ther

per

son

th

at y

ou

th

ink

th

ey a

re

imp

ort

ant.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

8

Se

lf A

dvo

cate

s

Wh

o A

re S

elf

Ad

vo

cate

s a

nd

Wh

at

Do

Se

lf A

dvo

cate

s D

o?

Se

lf A

dvo

cacy

in

Gro

up

sS

elf

adv

oca

tes

are

peo

ple

lik

e y

ou

wh

o w

ant

to s

tan

d u

p a

nd

sp

eak

fo

r th

emse

lves

.

Rec

entl

y, p

eop

le w

ho

hav

e d

evel

op

men

tal

dis

abil

itie

s h

ave

bee

n f

orm

ing

th

emse

lves

in

to s

elf

adv

oca

cy g

rou

ps.

Th

ere

are

gro

up

s o

f p

eop

le w

ho

are

in

vo

lved

in

sel

f ad

vo

cacy

gro

up

s.

Th

ere

are

gro

up

s o

f p

eop

le w

ho

hav

e g

o�

en t

og

eth

er i

n

adu

lt t

rain

ing

cen

tres

or

soci

al e

du

cati

on

cen

tres

, in

ho

stel

s an

d h

osp

ital

s o

r as

gro

up

s o

f fr

ien

ds.

Oth

er g

rou

ps

hav

e m

emb

ers

fro

m d

iffer

ent

pla

ces

wh

o m

eet

tog

eth

er i

n a

pla

ce l

ike

a tr

ain

ing

cen

tre.

It m

ay b

e ea

sier

to

ho

ld m

eeti

ng

s so

mew

her

e o

ther

th

an i

n a

p

lace

wh

ich

bel

on

gs

to p

eop

le w

ho

ru

n s

erv

ices

lik

e ce

ntr

es

or

ho

stel

s.

Yo

u m

igh

t fe

el m

ore

in

dep

end

ent

if y

ou

hav

e y

ou

r o

wn

m

eeti

ng

pla

ce.

9

Yo

u m

ay d

ecid

e to

hav

e so

meo

ne

wh

o d

oes

no

t h

ave

a d

evel

op

men

tal

dis

abil

ity

at

yo

ur

mee

tin

gs

as a

n a

dv

iso

r o

r su

pp

ort

er.

So

meo

ne

wh

o i

s o

n y

ou

r si

de

can

be

a g

reat

hel

p.

O�

en, a

lo

t m

ore

can

be

do

ne

if y

ou

get

hel

p f

rom

oth

er

peo

ple

, th

an i

f y

ou

str

ug

gle

on

yo

ur

ow

n.

Se

lf A

dvo

cacy

on

Yo

ur

Ow

nT

her

e ar

e m

any

peo

ple

wit

h d

evel

op

men

tal

dis

abil

itie

s w

ho

sp

eak

up

fo

r th

emse

lves

on

th

eir

ow

n a

nd

th

ere

are

man

y

oth

ers

wh

o w

ou

ld l

ike

to d

o s

o.

Ind

ivid

ual

s ca

n b

e su

cces

sfu

l se

lf a

dv

oca

tes.

Th

ere

are

man

y t

imes

wh

en t

his

is

imp

ort

ant.

Fo

r ex

am

ple

:

Wh

en p

lan

s fo

r y

ou

r fu

ture

are

bei

ng

dis

cuss

ed a

t th

e tr

ain

ing

cen

tre

or

at t

he

pla

ce w

her

e y

ou

liv

e.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

48

Th

ing

s To

Do

a) S

pli

t u

p i

nto

pai

rs.

b)

On

e p

erso

n s

tart

s b

y t

elli

ng

th

e o

ther

per

son

a s

ho

rt

sto

ry l

asti

ng

th

ree

or

fou

r m

inu

tes

lon

g. I

t co

uld

be

abo

ut

som

eth

ing

yo

u d

id l

ast

wee

k, o

r ab

ou

t w

her

e y

ou

liv

e.

c) A

t th

e en

d o

f th

e st

ory

, th

e o

ther

per

son

has

to

rep

eat

bac

k

wh

at h

e/sh

e h

eard

.

• D

id t

he

per

son

get

it

rig

ht?

• D

id h

e/sh

e lo

ok

as

tho

ug

h h

e/sh

e w

as l

iste

nin

g?

• W

hat

so

rt o

f th

ing

s d

id t

he

per

son

fo

rget

?

d)

Sw

itch

tu

rns

wh

en y

ou

hav

e d

on

e th

is a

nd

giv

e th

e o

ther

p

erso

n a

ch

ance

to

tel

l a

sto

ry a

nd

fo

r th

e o

ther

per

son

to

li

sten

to

th

e st

ory

.

47

So

met

imes

it

is d

ifficu

lt t

o p

ay a

�en

tio

n t

o p

eop

le a

nd

to

li

sten

to

th

em w

ell.

Th

is c

an h

app

en:

• i

f a

per

son

sp

eak

s v

ery

qu

ick

ly o

r v

ery

slo

wly

• i

f th

ey c

ann

ot

spea

k v

ery

cle

arly

• i

f th

ey u

se d

ifficu

lt w

ord

s

• i

f th

e p

erso

n u

ses

sig

n l

ang

uag

e an

d y

ou

do

no

t u

nd

erst

and

it

• i

f th

e p

erso

n c

ann

ot

use

sp

eech

or

sig

n l

ang

uag

e

At

thes

e ti

mes

, yo

u n

eed

to

lis

ten

ver

y c

aref

ull

y a

nd

ask

th

e p

erso

n t

o h

elp

yo

u u

nd

erst

and

— f

or

exam

ple

, by

say

ing

:

“Co

uld

yo

u s

pea

k m

ore

slo

wly

ple

ase?

” o

r

“Co

uld

yo

u s

ay t

hat

ag

ain

ple

ase?

Or

exp

lain

th

at y

ou

are

hav

ing

diffi

cult

y i

n u

nd

erst

and

ing

fo

r ex

amp

le, b

y s

ayin

g:

“I a

m s

orr

y, b

ut

I d

on

’t u

nd

erst

and

.” o

r

“I a

m s

orr

y, b

ut

I d

on

’t u

nd

erst

and

wh

at y

ou

are

say

ing

.”

or

“Co

uld

yo

u e

xp

lain

th

at a

bit

mo

re f

or

me

ple

ase?

If p

eop

le d

o n

ot

list

en w

hen

we

spea

k, i

t m

akes

us

feel

th

at

they

are

no

t in

tere

sted

in

us

or

that

we

are

no

t im

po

rtan

t.

If y

ou

are

go

od

at

list

enin

g t

o o

ther

peo

ple

, th

ey w

ill

feel

co

mfo

rtab

le t

alk

ing

to

yo

u.

It i

s im

po

rtan

t to

be

go

od

at

list

enin

g a

s it

en

cou

rag

es o

ther

p

eop

le t

o t

alk

to

yo

u.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

10Th

ing

s To

Do

Ca

n y

ou

th

ink

of

oth

er

exa

mp

les

of

thin

gs

yo

u w

ou

ld l

ike

to

sp

ea

k

up

ab

ou

t a

lon

e (

or

in a

gro

up

)?

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 11

Sel

f ad

vo

cacy

can

in

vo

lve:

• t

alk

ing

• t

akin

g a

ctio

n•

lea

rnin

g•

hav

ing

so

cial

act

ivit

ies

At

the

beg

inn

ing

, mo

st g

rou

ps

spen

d a

lo

t o

f ti

me

talk

ing

.

Th

at m

ay s

eem

lik

e a

was

te o

f ti

me

to s

om

e p

eop

le.

Esp

ecia

lly

if

they

hav

e jo

ined

a g

rou

p b

ecau

se t

hey

wan

t to

ch

ang

e th

ing

s.

Bu

t ta

lkin

g t

og

eth

er i

s im

po

rtan

t. Y

ou

wil

l n

eed

tim

e to

get

her

to

so

rt o

ut

yo

ur

idea

s ab

ou

t se

lf a

dv

oca

cy.

Als

o, m

any

peo

ple

are

n’t

use

d t

o t

alk

ing

ab

ou

t th

emse

lves

in

g

rou

ps

of

oth

er p

eop

le a

nd

ab

ou

t im

po

rtan

t m

a�er

s.

SO

DO

N’T

RU

SH

TH

ING

S

Do

n’t

wo

rry,

if

the

gro

up

do

esn

’t s

tart

do

ing

th

ing

s ri

gh

t aw

ay.

It’s

im

po

rtan

t to

rea

lly

get

to

kn

ow

eac

h o

ther

wel

l an

d t

o g

et

yo

ur

idea

s ri

gh

t fr

om

th

e st

art.

If y

ou

hav

e d

ecid

ed t

o h

ave

an a

dv

iso

r fo

r th

e g

rou

p, y

ou

w

ill

also

wan

t to

sp

end

tim

e g

e�in

g t

o k

no

w h

im o

r h

er.

Wh

at

Do

We

Do

?

Wh

at

Do

Se

lf A

dvo

cate

s D

o?

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

46Ho

w t

o L

iste

n

List

en

ing

Wh

en s

om

eon

e is

tal

kin

g, t

her

e is

an

oth

er v

ery

im

po

rtan

t ta

sk t

o b

e d

on

e b

y t

ho

se w

ho

are

no

t ta

lkin

g.

Th

e ta

sk i

s to

lis

ten

.

Lis

ten

ing

mea

ns

pay

ing

a�

enti

on

to

th

e o

ther

per

son

wh

en

they

are

sp

eak

ing

an

d t

ryin

g t

o u

nd

erst

and

wh

at t

hey

are

sa

yin

g.

It a

lso

mea

ns

try

ing

to

un

der

stan

d w

hat

so

meo

ne

is ‘

say

ing

’ to

yo

u i

f th

ey a

re u

sin

g d

raw

ing

s o

r si

gn

lan

gu

age

— o

r an

y

of

the

oth

er w

ays

of

com

mu

nic

atin

g.

HO

W T

O L

IST

EN

Way

s o

f sh

ow

ing

peo

ple

th

at y

ou

are

lis

ten

ing

are

:

• b

y l

oo

kin

g a

t th

e p

erso

n w

ho

is

spea

kin

g

• b

y n

ot

turn

ing

yo

ur

hea

d a

way

, or

mo

vin

g a

way

, wh

ile

they

are

sp

eak

ing

• b

y n

ot

fid

get

ing

or

star

tin

g t

o d

o s

om

eth

ing

els

e

• b

y g

ivin

g t

hem

sig

ns

that

yo

u a

gre

e o

r d

on

’t a

gre

e w

ith

th

em -

fo

r ex

amp

le, n

od

din

g y

ou

r h

ead

, or

say

ing

‘y

es’

• o

r b

y a

skin

g q

ues

tio

ns

abo

ut

wh

at t

he

per

son

is

say

ing

fo

r ex

amp

le, “

Can

yo

u t

ell

me

mo

re a

bo

ut

that

p

leas

e?”

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 45

Th

e A

ge

nd

a

Su

mm

ary

An

ag

end

a is

a l

ist

of

item

s th

at t

he

gro

up

wan

ts t

o d

iscu

ss

at t

hei

r m

eeti

ng

.

Th

e g

rou

p’s

offi

cers

sh

ou

ld w

ork

ou

t an

ag

end

a b

efo

re t

he

mee

tin

g.

Oth

er m

emb

ers

of

the

gro

up

sh

ou

ld b

e ab

le t

o a

dd

ite

ms

to

the

agen

da

at t

he

beg

inn

ing

of

the

mai

n m

eeti

ng

.

Pu

t th

e ag

end

a u

p o

n t

he

wal

l b

efo

re t

he

mee

tin

g s

tart

s.

Ad

d p

ictu

res

so t

hat

peo

ple

wh

o a

ren

’t a

ble

to

rea

d w

ill

be

able

to

fo

llo

w t

he

agen

da.

Ask

fo

r so

meo

ne

to r

ead

ou

t th

e ag

end

a o

utl

ou

d a

t th

e st

art

of

the

mee

tin

g.

RE

ME

MB

ER

— d

on

’t m

ake

the

agen

da

too

lo

ng

or

yo

u

wo

n’t

be

able

to

tal

k a

bo

ut

all

the

item

s.

12So

me

Exa

mp

les

of

Th

ing

s S

elf

Ad

vo

cate

s D

o

TALK

ING

Man

y p

eop

le w

ill

com

e to

th

e g

rou

p w

anti

ng

to

tal

k a

bo

ut

all

sort

s o

f th

ing

s.

So

me

of

thes

e m

ay i

nv

olv

e ta

kin

g a

ctio

n a

t so

me

stag

e.

Oth

er i

ssu

es m

ay b

e th

ing

s th

at a

re u

sefu

l ju

st t

o t

alk

ab

ou

t to

get

her

.

Fo

r ex

am

ple

:

On

e g

rou

p s

pen

t ti

me

talk

ing

to

get

her

ab

ou

t h

ow

th

ey

felt

ab

ou

t b

ein

g l

abel

led

wit

h w

ord

s li

ke

‘han

dic

app

ed’.

Th

ey d

iscu

ssed

new

spap

er i

tem

s ab

ou

t p

eop

le w

ith

d

isab

ilit

ies

and

th

ing

s p

eop

le h

ad s

een

on

th

e te

lev

isio

n.

13

TALK

ING

, LE

AD

ING

TO

AC

TIO

N

So

met

ime

peo

ple

wil

l co

me

to t

he

gro

up

wit

h s

om

eth

ing

th

at n

eed

s ac

tio

n. T

he

gro

up

wil

l n

eed

to

tal

k a

bo

ut

wh

at

they

can

act

ual

ly d

o t

o c

han

ge

som

eth

ing

.

So

me

thin

gs

nee

din

g a

ctio

n m

ay i

nv

olv

e ju

st o

ne

per

son

. O

r th

ey m

ay i

nv

olv

e th

e w

ho

le g

rou

p. S

om

etim

es t

he

gro

up

may

hav

e a

pro

ble

m w

hic

h a

ffec

ts a

ll p

eop

le w

ho

are

la

bel

led

‘h

and

icap

ped

’ or

‘dis

able

d’.

Exa

mp

le 1

:

On

e p

erso

n m

ay h

ave

a p

rob

lem

. A r

evie

w m

eeti

ng

is

bei

ng

hel

d t

o d

iscu

ss w

her

e sh

e w

ill

liv

e. T

hat

per

son

h

as b

een

to

ld s

he

can

’t g

o t

o t

he

mee

tin

g e

ven

th

ou

gh

it

’s a

bo

ut

her

lif

e. S

he

wan

ts t

o g

o a

nd

tel

l th

em w

hat

sh

e th

ink

s. T

he

gro

up

may

dec

ide

they

are

go

ing

to

sp

eak

to

th

e p

eop

le h

avin

g t

he

mee

tin

g a

nd

see

th

at s

he

is a

llo

wed

to

tel

l th

e p

eop

le t

her

e w

hat

sh

e fe

els.

Exa

mp

le 2

:

Sev

eral

peo

ple

in

on

e g

rou

p t

ried

to

bo

ok

a h

oli

day

to

get

her

. Th

e b

oo

kin

g h

ad b

een

ref

use

d b

ecau

se t

hey

to

ld t

he

ho

lid

ay fi

rm t

hat

th

ey h

ave

dev

elo

pm

enta

l d

isab

ilit

ies.

Th

e g

rou

p d

ecid

ed t

o d

o t

wo

th

ing

s:

• w

rite

to

th

e h

oli

day

firm

an

d c

om

pla

in

• c

on

tact

a n

atio

nal

org

aniz

atio

n w

ho

wo

uld

hel

p

them

get

pu

bli

city

fo

r th

eir

com

pla

int

Exa

mp

le 3

:

In o

ne

city

, peo

ple

wit

h d

isab

ilit

ies

wer

e n

ot

bei

ng

al

low

ed t

o u

se t

hei

r sp

ecia

l b

us

pas

ses.

Th

ey f

elt

this

was

an

im

po

rtan

t is

sue.

It

affec

ted

mo

re t

han

just

th

e g

rou

p’s

m

emb

ers.

Th

ey d

ecid

ed t

o w

rite

to

th

e b

us

com

pan

y a

nd

as

ked

th

em t

o s

top

th

is f

rom

hap

pen

ing

.

44W

ha

t g

oe

s o

n t

he

ag

en

da

?

Yo

ur

gro

up

wil

l h

ave

its

ow

n i

dea

s ab

ou

t w

hat

yo

u w

ant

to

talk

ab

ou

t.

BU

T h

ere

are

som

e id

eas

for

the

sort

of

item

s th

at m

ay g

o

on

an

ag

end

a. T

hes

e ar

e it

ems

that

oth

er g

rou

ps

hav

e fo

un

d

use

ful.

1. I

ntr

od

uct

ion

s an

d w

elco

me

to n

ew m

emb

ers.

(It’

s a

good

ide

a to

wel

com

e n

ew m

embe

rs. I

t w

ill

help

the

m

feel

goo

d ab

out

com

e to

the

mee

tin

g.)

2. A

po

log

ies

for

abse

nce

. (F

rom

peo

ple

who

can

’t c

ome.

)

3. N

ote

s o

f th

e la

st m

eeti

ng

. (T

his

wil

l re

min

d yo

u o

f w

hat

you

dis

cuss

ed a

t th

e la

st m

eeti

ng)

4. L

e�er

s to

be

dea

lt w

ith

an

d p

ho

ne

call

s to

be

mad

e.

5. D

iscu

ssio

n a

bo

ut

mo

ney

. (T

he T

reas

ure

r’s

Rep

ort)

6.O

ld b

usi

nes

s.

7.N

ew b

usi

nes

s.

8.R

equ

ests

fo

r sp

eak

ers.

(Y

ou g

rou

p m

ay h

ave

been

ask

ed t

o se

nd

som

eon

e to

spe

ak t

o an

othe

r gr

oup

abou

t se

lf a

dvoc

acy.

Y

ou n

eed

to d

ecid

e w

ho w

ill

do t

his.

)

9.A

ny

oth

er b

usi

nes

s. (

An

y bu

sin

ess

whi

ch h

asn

’t b

een

dea

lt

wit

h ea

rlie

r in

the

mee

tin

g.)

10. D

ate

and

tim

e o

f th

e n

ext

mee

tin

g.

11. S

oci

al t

ime

at t

he

end

of

the

mee

tin

g.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 43

Wh

at

is a

n A

ge

nd

a?

Th

e A

ge

nd

a

An

AG

EN

DA

is

a li

st o

f th

ing

s y

ou

r g

rou

p h

as d

ecid

ed t

o

talk

ab

ou

t at

a m

eeti

ng

.

Eac

h t

hin

g o

n t

he

list

is

call

ed a

n I

TE

M.

Th

e A

GE

ND

A i

s a

list

of

thes

e it

ems.

Wh

y h

ave

an

ag

en

da

fo

r m

ee

�n

gs?

An

ag

end

a m

ay s

ou

nd

rat

her

un

nec

essa

ry f

or

a m

eeti

ng

of

a g

rou

p o

f fr

ien

ds

wh

o w

ant

to ju

st g

et t

og

eth

er a

nd

tal

k

abo

ut

thin

gs.

BU

T t

her

e ar

e se

ver

al r

easo

ns

wh

y h

avin

g a

n a

gen

da

is a

g

oo

d i

dea

.

An

ag

end

a ca

n:

• h

elp

peo

ple

to

get

th

rou

gh

th

e b

usi

nes

s o

f th

e m

eeti

ng

• h

elp

peo

ple

rem

emb

er w

hat

th

e b

usi

nes

s o

f th

at i

s m

eeti

ng

is

• h

elp

in

div

idu

als

rem

emb

er i

f th

ere

are

par

ticu

lar

item

s th

ey e

spec

iall

y w

ant

to s

pea

k a

bo

ut

Yo

u c

an m

ake

sure

yo

u g

et t

hro

ug

h a

ll t

he

bu

sin

ess

by

al

low

ing

a c

erta

in n

um

ber

of

min

ute

s (r

ou

gh

ly)

for

reac

h

item

on

th

e ag

end

a.

Yo

u p

rob

ably

wo

nt

stic

k t

o t

he

agen

da

exac

tly,

bu

t it

wil

l g

ive

yo

u a

ro

ug

h i

dea

of

ho

w m

any

min

ute

s y

ou

wil

l n

eed

to

ta

lk a

bo

ut

each

ite

m o

n t

he

agen

da.

14LE

AR

NIN

G

Bei

ng

an

eff

ecti

ve

self

ad

vo

cacy

gro

up

in

vo

lves

lea

rnin

g n

ew

skil

ls.

A�

er a

ll, n

ot

ever

yo

ne

is g

oo

d a

t m

akin

g d

ecis

ion

s, o

r d

eali

ng

wit

h m

on

ey.

So

met

imes

, th

e w

ho

le g

rou

p m

ay w

ant

to l

earn

a n

ew s

kil

l.

So

met

imes

on

ly o

ne

or

two

peo

ple

, su

ch a

s o

ffice

rs o

f th

e g

rou

p, w

ill

nee

d t

o l

earn

a p

arti

cula

r sk

ill.

Fo

r ex

am

ple

:

Th

e tr

easu

rer

of

on

e g

rou

p n

eed

ed t

o l

earn

ho

w t

o p

ut

mo

ney

in

to t

he

ban

k a

nd

tak

e it

ou

t. S

o h

e sp

ent

sev

eral

se

ssio

ns

wit

h t

he

adv

iso

r, v

isit

ing

th

e b

ank

an

d l

earn

ing

th

ing

s li

ke

ho

w t

o u

se a

ch

equ

ebo

ok

.

15

HA

VIN

G S

OC

IAL

AC

TIV

ITIE

S

Bei

ng

a m

emb

er o

f a

self

ad

vo

cacy

gro

up

can

be

ver

y h

ard

w

ork

. Bu

t g

rou

ps

can

mak

e ti

me

for

soci

al a

ctiv

itie

s to

o,

wh

en e

ver

yo

ne

can

rel

ax a

nd

en

joy

th

emse

lves

.

Fo

r ex

am

ple

:

A g

rou

p m

ay h

ave

a b

reak

in

th

e m

idd

le o

f th

e m

eeti

ng

. O

r th

ey m

ay d

ecid

e to

hav

e so

me

soci

al t

ime

at t

he

end

o

f ea

ch m

eeti

ng

.

Th

is i

nfo

rmal

tim

e to

get

her

can

giv

e p

eop

le t

he

chan

ce t

o

talk

an

d s

wap

new

s an

d i

dea

s fo

r th

e g

rou

p. P

eop

le w

ho

are

n

erv

ou

s o

f ta

lkin

g i

n t

he

mee

tin

g m

ay h

ave

a ch

ance

to

say

w

hat

th

ey t

hin

k.

It i

s u

sual

ly a

go

od

id

ea t

o s

erv

e so

me

refr

esh

men

ts —

tea

or

coff

ee a

nd

sn

ack

s, f

or

exam

ple

.

Man

y g

rou

ps

also

lik

e to

org

aniz

e so

me

reg

ula

r so

cial

ev

ents

ap

art

fro

m t

he

mee

tin

gs

to w

hic

h t

hey

can

in

vit

e th

eir

frie

nd

s.

Fo

r ex

am

ple

:

On

e g

rou

p d

ecid

ed t

o o

rgan

ize

a C

hri

stm

as p

arty

. Th

ey

ren

ted

a r

oo

m i

n a

lo

cal

com

mu

nit

y c

entr

e an

d i

nv

ited

th

eir

frie

nd

s an

d s

up

po

rter

s fo

r th

e ev

enin

g.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

42Ke

ep

ing

th

e G

rou

p G

oin

g

Su

mm

ary

Th

ere

may

be

sev

eral

rea

son

s w

hy

yo

u a

re h

avin

g d

ifficu

ltie

s k

eep

ing

yo

ur

gro

up

go

ing

:

• y

ou

do

n’t

hav

e en

ou

gh

mem

ber

s

• y

ou

hav

e m

any

mem

ber

s b

ut

they

do

n’t

co

me

to

the

mee

tin

gs

• y

ou

do

n’t

fee

l th

at y

ou

are

ach

iev

ing

ver

y m

uch

.

BU

T R

EM

EM

BE

R —

• a

ll g

rou

ps

hav

e u

ps

and

do

wn

s

• b

ein

g s

elf

adv

oca

tes

is h

ard

wo

rk

• a

sel

f ad

vo

cacy

gro

up

is

ther

e to

so

lve

pro

ble

ms

- so

fa

ce u

p t

o t

hem

!

By

fac

ing

up

to

pro

ble

ms,

yo

ur

gro

up

wil

l g

row

str

on

ger

.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 41

Ke

ep

ing

th

e G

rou

p G

oin

g

Th

e G

rou

p

An

y k

ind

of

gro

up

has

its

up

s an

d d

ow

ns.

So

me

mee

tin

gs

are

be�

er t

han

oth

ers.

So

met

imes

,

a lo

t o

f p

eop

le t

urn

up

.

An

d o

ther

tim

es,

on

ly t

wo

or

thre

e p

eop

le c

om

e.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

16Th

ing

s To

Do

Ca

n y

ou

th

ink

of

a l

ist

of

ac�

vi�

es

wh

ich

yo

ur

gro

up

mig

ht

like

to

do

in t

he

fu

ture

?

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 17

Su

mm

ary

Wh

at

Do

Se

lf A

dvo

cate

s D

o?

Sel

f ad

vo

cate

s ar

e p

eop

le w

ho

wan

t to

sp

eak

up

fo

r th

emse

lves

.

Sel

f ad

vo

cacy

can

be

som

eth

ing

yo

u d

o i

n g

rou

ps

or

on

yo

ur

ow

n.

Sel

f ad

vo

cate

s ar

e in

vo

lved

in

all

so

rts

of

acti

vit

ies

such

as:

• t

alk

ing

• t

alk

ing

, lea

din

g t

o a

ctio

n

• l

earn

ing

new

sk

ills

• h

avin

g s

oci

al a

ctiv

itie

s

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

40M

on

ey

Ma

�e

rs:

Wh

y D

o Y

ou

Ne

ed

Mo

ne

y?

Su

mm

ary

Yo

u n

eed

mo

ney

to

hel

p r

un

th

e g

rou

p w

ell.

Bu

t y

ou

do

n’t

nee

d m

on

ey f

or

ever

yth

ing

yo

u w

ant

to d

o.

Yo

u c

an g

et m

on

ey:

• f

rom

yo

ur

mem

ber

s

• b

y o

rgan

izin

g f

un

dra

isin

g e

ven

ts

• b

y a

skin

g f

or

a g

ran

t fr

om

an

org

aniz

atio

n

Ev

ery

gro

up

nee

ds

a T

reas

ure

r to

lo

ok

at

the

mo

ney

. It

sho

uld

be

som

eon

e w

ho

lik

es d

oin

g a

rith

met

ic a

nd

wh

o c

an

add

an

d s

ub

trac

t m

on

ey.

Th

ere

are

two

mai

n w

ays

of

loo

kin

g a

!er

mo

ney

:

• i

n a

pe�

y c

ash

tin

(fo

r sm

all

amo

un

ts o

f m

on

ey)

• i

n a

ban

k o

r b

uil

din

g s

oci

ety

(fo

r la

rge

amo

un

ts o

f m

on

ey)

It i

s a

go

od

id

ea t

o h

ave

a ru

le t

hat

tw

o p

eop

le m

ust

sig

n

each

ch

equ

e w

hen

mo

ney

is

wit

hd

raw

n f

rom

th

e b

ank

or

bu

ild

ing

so

ciet

y.

RE

ME

MB

ER

— d

on

’t s

pen

d a

ll y

ou

r ti

me

wo

rry

ing

ab

ou

t m

on

ey!

Hav

e so

me

fun

to

o!

39

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

18

Ma

kin

g A

Gro

up

Se

#n

g U

p a

Se

lf A

dvo

cacy

Gro

up

• F

ind

ou

t ab

ou

t se

lf a

dv

oca

cy.

• M

eet

wit

h f

rien

ds

to s

tart

pla

nn

ing

a g

rou

p.

• A

sk f

or

hel

p t

o s

tart

th

e g

rou

p.

• K

eep

th

e g

rou

p s

mal

l at

firs

t.

• H

avin

g r

egu

lar

mee

tin

gs

of

the

gro

up

.

• P

lan

yo

ur

mee

tin

gs.

• W

hen

yo

u a

re r

ead

y, s

tart

to

rec

ruit

mo

re m

emb

ers.

• A

s n

um

ber

s g

row

, hav

e an

ele

cted

co

mm

i�ee

.

• C

on

tin

ue

to i

nv

olv

e al

l th

e m

emb

ers

in t

he

gro

up

’s

wo

rk.

• U

se y

ou

r A

dv

iso

r fo

r an

y h

elp

yo

u n

eed

.

• K

eep

in

to

uch

wit

h o

ther

gro

up

s.

• K

eep

go

ing

, ev

en i

f y

ou

hav

e so

me

diffi

cult

ies.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 19

Th

ing

s To

Do

Th

ing

s To

Do

in

a S

elf

Ad

vo

cacy

Gro

up

Me

e�

ng

Th

e su

gg

esti

on

yo

u s

ee b

elo

w m

ay b

e h

elp

ful

in d

ecid

ing

w

hat

th

e g

rou

p w

ill

do

an

d d

iscu

ss.

a) D

raw

a l

ine

do

wn

th

e m

idd

le o

f a

larg

e sh

eet

of

pap

er.

b)

Ask

eac

h g

rou

p m

emb

er w

hat

to

pic

s th

ey

wo

uld

lik

e th

e g

rou

p t

o d

iscu

ss.

c) G

et s

om

eon

e to

wri

te t

he

list

of

top

ics

do

wn

o

ne

sid

e o

f th

e p

aper

.

d)

Ask

eac

h m

emb

er w

hat

th

ey w

ou

ld l

ike

the

gro

up

to

do

.

e) G

et s

om

eon

e to

lis

t th

ese

acti

vit

ies

in t

he

oth

er c

olu

mn

of

the

pap

er.

f) A

t ea

ch m

eeti

ng

, dis

cuss

th

e li

st a

nd

alt

er i

t o

r ad

d t

o i

t if

yo

u w

ant.

g)

Use

th

e li

st t

o c

ho

ose

ite

ms

for

the

agen

da

at e

ach

mee

tin

g.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

381.

Mak

e a

list

of

the

thin

gs

yo

ur

gro

up

mig

ht

nee

d

m

on

ey f

or.

a)

Wh

ich

are

th

e m

ost

im

po

rtan

t?

b)

Wh

ich

can

be

le�

un

til

late

r?

2. C

ho

ose

an

y t

wo

way

s o

f ra

isin

g m

on

ey. T

alk

ab

ou

t

wh

at y

ou

wo

uld

nee

d t

o d

o t

o r

aise

mo

ney

in

th

ese

w

ays.

a) W

ill

yo

u g

et m

ore

mo

ney

fro

m o

ne

than

th

e o

ther

?

b)

Wil

l o

ne

be

mo

re f

un

th

an t

he

oth

er?

3. I

nv

ite

som

eon

e to

yo

ur

mee

tin

g w

ho

can

tal

k a

bo

ut

d

iffer

ent

way

s o

f ra

isin

g m

on

ey.

a) T

his

mig

ht

be

a T

reas

ure

r fr

om

an

oth

er

org

aniz

atio

n, o

r th

e T

reas

ure

r o

f a

nea

r-b

y s

elf

adv

oca

cy g

rou

p.

4. M

ake

a li

st o

f th

e th

ing

s y

ou

r g

rou

p w

ants

to

do

.

a) W

hic

h t

hin

gs

can

yo

u d

o w

ith

ou

t m

on

ey?

b)

Wh

ich

on

e w

ou

ld y

ou

nee

d a

sm

all

amo

un

t o

f m

on

ey f

or?

c) W

hic

h o

nes

wo

uld

yo

u n

eed

a l

arg

e am

ou

nt

of

mo

ney

fo

r?

Th

ing

s To

Do

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 37

Ca

n y

ou

th

ink

of

oth

er

thin

gs

tha

t

yo

ur

gro

up

mig

ht

ne

ed

mo

ne

y

for?

Ma

ke a

lis

t o

f th

ese

th

ing

s.

Th

ing

s To

Ta

lk A

bo

ut

20He

re a

re s

om

e t

op

ics

for

dis

cuss

ion

.

Th

ey c

an h

elp

yo

u:

• w

ork

be�

er a

s a

gro

up

• u

nd

erst

and

mo

re a

bo

ut

self

ad

vo

cacy

1. W

hat

nam

es d

o p

eop

le u

se w

hen

th

ey t

alk

to

yo

u, o

r ab

ou

t y

ou

?

2.A

re t

her

e an

y n

ames

th

at y

ou

th

ink

are

un

ple

asan

t o

r w

ron

g?

3. W

hat

nam

es w

ou

ld y

ou

lik

e p

eop

le t

o u

se t

o r

efer

to

y

ou

?

4. W

hat

wo

rd s

ho

uld

be

use

d t

o r

efer

to

peo

ple

wit

h

dis

abil

itie

s?

5.W

hat

do

yo

u d

o i

n y

ou

r sp

are

tim

e?

6. W

hat

wo

uld

yo

u l

ike

to d

o?

7. D

o y

ou

hav

e an

y i

nte

rest

ing

ho

bb

ies

or

acti

vit

ies?

8.B

rin

g a

lon

g s

om

eth

ing

of

spec

ial

imp

ort

ance

fo

r y

ou

to

ta

lk a

bo

ut

in t

he

mee

tin

g.

Yo

u c

an g

et m

ore

id

eas

for

dis

cuss

ion

to

pic

s fr

om

Peo

ple

F

irst

or

oth

er s

elf

adv

oca

cy g

rou

ps.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 21

Re

cru

i�n

g M

em

be

rs

Re

cru

i�n

g M

em

be

rs t

o Y

ou

r

Gro

up

Th

ere

are

a n

um

ber

of

diff

eren

t w

ays

yo

u c

an b

rin

g n

ew

peo

ple

in

to t

he

gro

up

, in

clu

din

g:

• t

alk

ing

to

oth

er p

eop

le a

bo

ut

the

gro

up

• m

akin

g p

ost

ers

abo

ut

the

gro

up

• m

akin

g a

new

sle�

er t

o s

end

ou

t

• h

avin

g s

pec

ial

even

ts a

bo

ut

yo

ur

gro

up

• h

avin

g s

pec

ial

even

ts o

r m

eeti

ng

ab

ou

t y

ou

r g

rou

p

Th

e n

ext

few

pag

es t

alk

a b

it m

ore

ab

ou

t h

ow

yo

u c

an d

o

this

.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

36W

hy

Do

Yo

u N

ee

d M

on

ey

?

Mo

ne

y M

a!

ers

Yo

u d

o n

ot

nee

d v

ery

mu

ch m

on

ey t

o s

tart

a s

elf

adv

oca

cy

gro

up

.

BU

T o

nce

yo

ur

gro

up

get

s g

oin

g, y

ou

may

nee

d m

on

ey t

o

hel

p r

un

th

e g

rou

p w

ell.

So

me

of

the

thin

gs

yo

u m

igh

t n

eed

mo

ney

to

pay

fo

r w

hen

y

ou

sta

rt a

re:

• L

ined

pap

er f

or

wri

tin

g l

e�er

s, n

oti

ces

and

no

tes

of

mee

tin

gs.

• E

nv

elo

pes

to

sen

d o

ut

le�

ers

and

no

tice

s.

• S

tam

ps

for

le�

ers.

• T

ea, c

off

ee a

nd

sn

ack

s.

Th

en, w

hen

yo

ur

gro

up

get

s b

igg

er a

nd

yo

u w

ant

to d

o

mo

re t

hin

gs,

yo

u m

igh

t n

eed

mo

ney

fo

r:

• p

ho

toco

py

ing

• p

rin

tin

g a

new

sle�

er

• t

elep

ho

ne

call

s

• r

ent

(if

yo

u h

ave

to p

ay f

or

usi

ng

a r

oo

m o

r a

hal

l)

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 35

Ma

kin

g t

he

Mo

st o

f E

ve

ryb

od

y’s

Sk

ills

Su

mm

ary

Sel

f ad

vo

cacy

in

vo

lves

man

y d

iffer

ent

skil

ls.

Alt

ho

ug

h t

hes

e sk

ills

are

hel

pfu

l, y

ou

do

n’t

hav

e to

be

go

od

at

all

of

them

to

be

inv

olv

ed i

n s

elf

adv

oca

cy.

Th

ere

are

way

s o

f m

akin

g t

he

mo

st o

f se

lf a

dv

oca

cy w

ith

ou

t al

l o

f th

ese

skil

ls.

Th

ese

are:

• s

har

ing

ou

t th

e jo

bs

• a

skin

g f

or

hel

p

• u

sin

g e

qu

ipm

ent

• l

earn

ing

new

sk

ills

RE

ME

MB

ER

— e

ver

yo

ne

can

be

inv

olv

ed i

n s

elf

adv

oca

cy.

22TA

LKIN

G T

O O

TH

ER

PE

OP

LE A

BO

UT

TH

E

GR

OU

P

Th

is i

s o

ne

of

the

bes

t w

ays

of

ge�

ing

new

mem

ber

s to

join

y

ou

.

Tal

k t

o f

rien

ds,

peo

ple

at

the

cen

tre

and

oth

ers

yo

u k

no

w.

Tel

l th

em a

bo

ut:

• h

ow

im

po

rtan

t it

is

to s

pea

k u

p f

or

yo

urs

elf

• w

hy

yo

u m

eet

tog

eth

er r

egu

larl

y t

o d

o t

his

• s

om

e o

f th

e th

ing

s y

ou

tal

k a

bo

ut

in y

ou

r g

rou

p

Yo

u c

an a

sk t

hem

to

co

me

alo

ng

to

on

e o

f th

e m

eeti

ng

s.

Peo

ple

are

o!

en h

app

ier

to jo

in a

gro

up

if

they

kn

ow

so

meo

ne

wh

o i

s al

read

y a

mem

ber

of

that

gro

up

.

Per

hap

s y

ou

can

off

er t

o m

eet

a n

ew m

emb

er o

n t

he

day

of

the

mee

tin

g a

nd

tra

vel

th

ere

tog

eth

er.

MA

KIN

G P

OS

TE

RS

AB

OU

T T

HE

GR

OU

P

Po

ster

s sh

ou

ld b

e b

rig

ht

so t

hey

can

be

seen

cle

arly

.

Po

ster

s sh

ou

ld g

ive

the

nam

e o

f th

e g

rou

p, w

her

e it

mee

ts

and

wh

en, a

nd

bri

efly

wh

at i

t d

oes

.

It i

s p

rob

ably

als

o a

go

od

id

ea f

or

the

po

ster

to

giv

e a

nam

e an

d p

ho

ne

nu

mb

er w

her

e p

eop

le c

an fi

nd

ou

t m

ore

ab

ou

t th

e g

rou

p.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 23

Th

ing

s To

Ta

lk A

bo

ut

Th

ink

of

a s

oci

al

eve

nt

yo

u m

igh

t

ho

ld.

Ma

ke a

lis

t o

f a

ll t

he

jo

bs

yo

u

wo

uld

ne

ed

to

do

to

org

an

ize

an

eve

nt.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

34

Th

ing

s To

Do

1. O

ne

at a

tim

e:

• s

ay w

hat

eac

h p

erso

n’s

str

eng

ths

are

• g

et s

om

eon

e to

wri

te t

hes

e d

ow

n•

or

reco

rd t

hem

on

a t

ape

reco

rder

, or

dra

w p

ictu

res

2. T

hin

k a

bo

ut

wh

ere

yo

u c

an g

et h

elp

fro

m i

f y

ou

nee

d

i

t. W

rite

th

is d

ow

n, o

r ta

pe-

reco

rd i

t, o

r d

raw

pic

ture

s.

3. T

alk

ab

ou

t w

hat

sel

f ad

vo

cacy

sk

ills

yo

u w

ou

ld l

ike

t

o l

earn

. Wri

te t

his

do

wn

, or

tap

e-re

cord

it,

or

dra

w

p

ictu

res.

33

4.

LEA

RN

NE

W S

KIL

LS

Alt

ho

ug

h y

ou

may

no

t b

e g

oo

d a

t al

l o

f th

e sk

ills

on

th

e li

st

wh

en y

ou

firs

t st

art

bei

ng

in

vo

lved

in

sel

f ad

vo

cacy

, on

e th

ing

is

cert

ain

— b

ein

g i

nv

olv

ed i

n s

elf

adv

oca

cy w

ill

hel

p

yo

u i

mp

rov

e y

ou

r sk

ills

.

On

e w

ay o

f d

oin

g t

his

is

to s

et a

sid

e a

reg

ula

r ti

me

in y

ou

r

self

ad

vo

cacy

mee

tin

g t

o w

ork

on

on

e sk

ill.

Ask

peo

ple

yo

u k

no

w t

o h

elp

yo

u l

earn

new

sel

f ad

vo

cacy

sk

ills

.

24HO

LDIN

G S

PE

CIA

L M

EE

TIN

GS

So

met

imes

a s

pec

ial

mee

tin

g c

an b

e a

go

od

way

of

ge�

ing

n

ew p

eop

le t

o c

om

e al

on

g.

Yo

u c

ou

ld t

ry a

ny

on

e o

f th

e se

ver

al d

iffer

ent

mee

tin

gs

incl

ud

ing

:

• h

avin

g a

mee

tin

g w

her

e y

ou

tal

k a

bo

ut

self

ad

vo

cacy

, ab

ou

t w

hy

yo

u h

ave

the

gro

up

, an

d w

hy

yo

u w

ant

new

m

emb

ers.

• y

ou

co

uld

sh

ow

a fi

lm a

bo

ut

self

ad

vo

cacy

— a

lis

t is

at

the

end

of

this

bo

ok

let.

• y

ou

co

uld

in

vit

e al

on

g a

th

eatr

e g

rou

p a

nd

hav

e a

dis

cuss

ion

a!

er t

he

per

form

ance

.

At

the

end

of

a sp

ecia

l m

eeti

ng

, mak

e su

re y

ou

hav

e th

e n

ames

, ad

dre

sses

an

d p

ho

ne

nu

mb

ers

of

the

peo

ple

wh

o

cam

e al

on

g. M

ake

sure

th

ey k

no

w w

hen

th

e g

rou

p m

eets

so

th

ey c

an c

om

e al

on

g t

o t

he

nex

t m

eeti

ng

.

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• 25

Ch

eck

list

Be

low

is

a c

he

ckli

st o

f th

ing

s

to r

em

em

be

r w

he

n p

lan

nin

g

a s

pe

cia

l e

ve

nt

to r

ecr

uit

ne

w

me

mb

ers

1. S

tart

pla

nn

ing

wel

l b

efo

re t

he

even

t. S

e�in

g u

p s

pec

ial

e

ven

ts A

LW

AY

S t

akes

lo

ng

er t

han

yo

u t

hin

k i

t w

ill!

2. S

end

ou

t le

�er

s an

d/o

r p

ost

ers

abo

ut

the

even

t to

as

man

y

p

eop

le a

nd

pla

ces

yo

u c

an t

hin

k o

f.

3. T

ell

as m

any

peo

ple

as

yo

u c

an a

bo

ut

the

even

t.

4.M

ake

sure

yo

u h

ave

the

even

t:

• A

t a

pla

ce w

hic

h c

an b

e u

sed

by

peo

ple

in

wh

eelc

hai

rs.

• A

t a

tim

e w

hic

h d

oes

n’t

cla

sh w

ith

oth

er t

hin

gs

lik

e a

clu

b e

ven

ing

.

• A

t a

pla

ce w

her

e p

eop

le c

an g

et e

asil

y b

y p

ub

lic

tran

spo

rtat

ion

.

5. M

ake

sure

yo

u h

ave

chec

ked

wit

h t

he

pla

ce w

her

e y

ou

are

h

old

ing

th

e ev

ent

that

th

ey a

re e

xp

ecti

ng

yo

u a

t th

e ri

gh

t

tim

e an

d o

n t

he

rig

ht

day

.

6.If

yo

u a

re g

oin

g t

o n

eed

an

y e

qu

ipm

ent,

mak

e su

re t

hat

it

is t

her

e an

d t

hat

so

meo

ne

kn

ow

s h

ow

to

use

it.

Fo

r ex

amp

le, i

f y

ou

are

go

ing

to

sh

ow

a v

ideo

, mak

e su

re t

her

e is

vid

eo e

qu

ipm

ent

ther

e an

d m

ake

sure

so

meo

ne

has

ag

reed

to

op

erat

e it

.

7.T

ry t

o s

tart

an

d fi

nis

h a

t th

e ti

mes

pla

nn

ed.

8. I

f y

ou

get

stu

ck —

do

n’t

fo

rget

th

at y

ou

can

ask

yo

ur

adv

iso

r fo

r h

elp

!

323.

MA

KE

US

E O

F E

QU

IPM

EN

T

So

met

imes

, sim

ple

pie

ces

of

equ

ipm

ent

can

be

ver

y u

sefu

l in

se

lf a

dv

oca

cy g

rou

p m

eeti

ng

s.

Fo

r ex

am

ple

:

• T

ape

reco

rder

s ar

e u

sefu

l if

wri

tin

g i

s d

ifficu

lt. Y

ou

can

g

et a

hel

per

to

wri

te o

ut

wh

at y

ou

hav

e re

cord

ed.

Tap

e re

cord

ers

can

als

o b

e u

sefu

l to

pra

ctic

e sp

eak

ing

in

to i

f y

ou

hav

e to

giv

e a

talk

to

a g

rou

p o

r an

au

die

nce

.

• L

arg

e sh

eets

of

pap

er a

nd

co

lou

red

pen

s ar

e v

ery

u

sefu

l fo

r w

riti

ng

th

e li

st o

f to

pic

s to

be

dis

cuss

ed. O

r fo

r m

akin

g a

no

te o

f id

eas

that

co

me

up

.

Sti

ck t

he

pap

er t

o t

he

wal

l, u

sin

g B

luet

ac o

r m

ask

ing

ta

pe

(so

yo

u d

on

’t t

ake

the

pai

nt

off

th

e w

all)

.

• M

ake

use

of

ph

oto

gra

ph

s, p

ictu

res

fro

m m

agaz

ines

or

dra

win

gs

to c

om

mu

nic

ate

if y

ou

hav

e d

ifficu

lty

sp

eak

ing

or

if y

ou

are

tal

kin

g t

o s

om

eon

e w

ho

do

esn

’t

un

der

stan

d s

pee

ch v

ery

wel

l.

• Y

ou

may

be

able

to

bo

rro

w v

ideo

eq

uip

men

t to

mak

e a

vid

eo o

f y

ou

r o

wn

ab

ou

t se

lf a

dv

oca

cy.

Yo

u c

an s

ho

w t

he

vid

eo t

o o

ther

peo

ple

so

th

at t

hey

ca

n l

earn

ab

ou

t se

lf a

dv

oca

cy.

31

Fo

r ex

am

ple

:

• “

If y

ou

nee

d t

o k

no

w a

bo

ut

wh

at b

enefi

ts y

ou

are

en

titl

ed t

o, a

Em

plo

ym

ent

Ass

ista

nce

Wo

rker

(E

AW

) at

yo

ur

loca

l M

inis

try

of

Ho

usi

ng

an

d S

oci

al

Dev

elo

pm

ent

(MH

SD

) o

ffice

sh

ou

ld b

e ab

le t

o h

elp

y

ou

”.

• I

f y

ou

nee

d i

nfo

rmat

ion

ab

ou

t th

e la

w, a

po

lice

man

m

ay b

e u

sefu

l.

• I

f y

ou

nee

d t

o k

no

w m

ore

ab

ou

t m

on

ey, a

ban

k

man

ager

may

be

able

to

an

swer

yo

ur

qu

esti

on

s.

Do

n’t

be

afra

id t

o a

sk f

or

hel

p.

We

all

nee

d h

elp

at

tim

es.

AS

K f

or

it w

hen

yo

u n

eed

it.

26M

AK

ING

NE

W M

EM

BE

RS

FE

EL

WE

LCO

ME

Pro

bab

ly e

ver

yo

ne

can

rem

emb

er w

hat

it

felt

lik

e to

go

in

to

a ro

om

wh

ere

ther

e w

ere

a lo

t o

f p

eop

le y

ou

did

n’t

kn

ow

or

wh

ere

yo

u k

new

on

ly o

ne

oth

er p

erso

n.

So

, it

is i

mp

ort

ant

that

peo

ple

co

min

g t

o y

ou

r g

rou

p f

or

the

firs

t ti

me

are

mad

e to

fee

l w

elco

me.

Oth

erw

ise,

th

ey m

ay n

ot

com

e ag

ain

!

Wh

en a

ny

on

e co

mes

in

to t

he

mee

tin

g, m

ake

sure

th

ey g

et a

fr

ien

dly

wel

com

e.

Yo

u m

igh

t w

ant

to m

ake

on

e m

emb

er o

f th

e g

rou

p

resp

on

sib

le f

or

this

. Th

ey c

ou

ld s

tan

d a

t th

e d

oo

r an

d

wel

com

e p

eop

le.

Intr

od

uce

new

mem

ber

s to

oth

er p

eop

le i

n t

he

gro

up

.

Mak

e su

re n

ew m

emb

ers

hav

e th

e ch

ance

to

sp

eak

— i

f th

ey

wan

t to

.

Mak

e su

re n

ew m

emb

ers

kn

ow

wh

at i

s g

oin

g o

n i

n t

he

gro

up

. It

can

be

har

d t

o u

nd

erst

and

wh

at i

s g

oin

g o

n t

he

firs

t ti

me

yo

u g

o t

o a

mee

tin

g.

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• 27

Su

mm

ary

Re

cru

i�n

g M

em

be

r to

Yo

ur

Gro

up

Rec

ruit

ing

new

mem

ber

s to

yo

ur

gro

up

mea

ns

yo

u g

et m

ore

p

eop

le i

nv

olv

ed i

n s

elf

adv

oca

cy.

Hav

ing

mo

re m

emb

ers

can

mea

n t

he

gro

up

can

get

mo

re

thin

gs

do

ne.

Yo

u w

ill

pro

bab

ly w

ant

to m

eet

as a

sm

all

gro

up

firs

t, b

efo

re

yo

u s

tart

rec

ruit

ing

man

y n

ew m

emb

ers.

Rem

emb

er t

hat

a g

rou

p d

oes

n’t

hav

e to

be

larg

e to

be

succ

essf

ul.

Th

ere

are

sev

eral

way

s y

ou

can

rec

ruit

new

mem

ber

s to

yo

ur

gro

up

:

• t

alk

ing

to

oth

er p

eop

le a

bo

ut

the

gro

up

• p

u�

ing

up

po

ster

s

• s

end

ing

ou

t a

new

sle�

er

• w

riti

ng

a l

eafl

et a

bo

ut

the

gro

up

• w

riti

ng

ab

ou

t th

e g

rou

p i

n o

ther

peo

ple

’s n

ewsl

e�er

s

• h

avin

g s

oci

al e

ven

ts

• h

avin

g s

pec

ial

mee

tin

gs

lik

e fi

lm s

ho

ws

302.

GE

T O

TH

ER

PE

OP

LE T

O H

ELP

YO

U

We

all

nee

d h

elp

at

tim

es.

So

met

imes

we

can

get

stu

ck i

n s

elf

adv

oca

cy b

ecau

se:

• w

e d

on

’t h

ave

a p

arti

cula

r sk

ill;

• w

e d

on

’t h

ave

a p

arti

cula

r p

iece

of

info

rmat

ion

;

• o

r w

e m

ay b

e u

nsu

re a

bo

ut

som

eth

ing

an

d n

eed

ad

vic

e.

To

mak

e th

e m

ost

of

self

ad

vo

cacy

, do

n’t

be

afra

id t

o a

sk f

or

hel

p i

f y

ou

get

stu

ck!

If y

ou

are

par

t o

f a

self

ad

vo

cacy

gro

up

, yo

ur

adv

iso

r m

ay

be

able

to

hel

p y

ou

. If

yo

u a

re n

ot

in a

gro

up

, a f

rien

d, s

taff

m

emb

er, o

r o

ne

of

yo

ur

fam

ily

mem

ber

s m

ay b

e ab

le t

o g

ive

yo

u a

hel

pin

g h

and

.

Yo

u m

ay n

eed

hel

p f

rom

a p

erso

n w

ith

a p

arti

cula

r sk

ill.

Fo

r ex

am

ple

:

Yo

ur

gro

up

mig

ht

nee

d h

elp

fro

m:

• a

sec

reta

ry t

o d

o y

ou

r ty

pin

g;

• o

r fr

om

so

meo

ne

wh

o i

s g

oo

d a

t ar

t to

cre

ate

a p

ost

er;

• o

r fr

om

a p

erso

n w

ho

un

der

stan

ds

mo

ney

, if

yo

u w

ant

to o

pen

a b

ank

acc

ou

nt.

Yo

u m

ay n

eed

hel

p f

rom

a p

erso

n w

ho

can

giv

e y

ou

in

form

atio

n o

r ad

vic

e.

29

1.

SH

AR

E O

UT

TH

E J

OB

S

Ev

ery

on

e is

go

od

at

do

ing

so

me

thin

gs

We

call

th

ese

a p

erso

n’s

str

eng

ths.

In a

ny

gro

up

, diff

eren

t p

eop

le w

ill

hav

e d

iffer

ent

stre

ng

ths.

So

me

peo

ple

wil

l b

e g

oo

d a

t so

me

skil

ls w

hil

e o

ther

peo

ple

w

ill

be

go

od

at

diff

eren

t sk

ills

.

To

mak

e se

lf a

dv

oca

cy w

ork

wel

l, m

ake

sure

th

at e

ver

yo

ne

has

th

e ch

ance

to

use

th

eir

stre

ng

ths.

So

wh

en t

her

e ar

e jo

bs

to b

e d

on

e, g

et p

eop

le t

o d

o t

he

thin

gs

that

th

ey a

re g

oo

d a

t.

Fo

r ex

am

ple

:

• I

f tw

o p

eop

le i

n t

he

gro

up

can

wri

te, g

et t

hem

to

do

an

y w

riti

ng

th

at n

eed

s to

be

do

ne.

• I

f se

ver

al p

eop

le c

an r

ead

, sh

are

ou

t th

e re

adin

g.

• Y

ou

may

th

ink

on

e p

erso

n i

s v

ery

go

od

at

thin

kin

g u

p

idea

s, w

hil

e an

oth

er p

erso

n i

s g

oo

d a

t th

ink

ing

ou

t w

hat

wo

uld

be

inv

olv

ed i

n t

ryin

g o

ut

thes

e id

eas.

• S

om

e p

eop

le w

ill

be

go

od

at

mak

ing

tea

an

d c

off

ee.

• O

ther

peo

ple

wil

l b

e g

oo

d a

t li

sten

ing

.

RE

ME

MB

ER

— e

ver

yb

od

y i

s g

oo

d a

t so

met

hin

g.

Mak

e su

re t

hat

yo

u m

ake

use

of

all

the

skil

ls, w

hat

ever

th

ey

are.

Th

at w

ay, e

ver

yo

ne

can

get

to

tak

e p

art

in s

elf

adv

oca

cy.

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• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

• •

28E

ve

ryb

od

y H

as

Sk

ills

Ma

kin

g t

he

Mo

st o

f E

ve

ryb

od

y’s

Sk

ills

Sel

f ad

vo

cacy

can

in

vo

lve

man

y d

iffer

ent

skil

ls.

So

me

of

the

mo

st i

mp

ort

ant

skil

ls i

n s

elf

adv

oca

cy a

re:

• g

e�in

g y

ou

r m

essa

ge

acro

ss c

lear

ly (

com

mu

nic

atio

n)

• p

ayin

g a

�en

tio

n t

o o

ther

peo

ple

(li

sten

ing

)

• m

akin

g c

ho

ices

(m

akin

g d

ecis

ion

s)

• fi

nd

ing

an

swer

s to

qu

esti

on

s (s

olv

ing

pro

ble

ms)

• f

eeli

ng

co

nfi

den

t ab

ou

t y

ou

rsel

f an

d s

pea

kin

g u

p

(b

ein

g a

sser

tiv

e)

• g

ivin

g e

ver

yo

ne

a ch

ance

to

tak

e p

art

(co

-op

erat

ing

)

Th

is m

ay s

eem

lik

e a

lon

g l

ist

of

skil

ls. W

hen

yo

u r

ead

it,

y

ou

may

fee

l it

is

too

diffi

cult

fo

r y

ou

!

BU

T R

EM

EM

BE

R —

Yo

u d

on

’t h

ave

to b

e g

oo

d a

t al

l o

f th

ese

skil

ls t

o t

ake

par

t in

sel

f ad

vo

cacy

.

To

mak

e th

e m

ost

of

self

ad

vo

cacy

, mak

e su

re t

hat

ev

ery

on

e u

ses

the

skil

ls t

hey

hav

e, a

nd

fin

d h

elp

wh

en y

ou

nee

d i

t!

Her

e ar

e so

me

way

s to

do

th

is:

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