Restoring the Foundations Orphan Heart Orphan Lifestyle Chester and Betsy Kylstra.
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Restoring the FoundationsOrphan Heart
Orphan Lifestyle
Restoring the FoundationsOrphan Heart
Orphan Lifestyle
Chester and Betsy KylstraChester and Betsy Kylstra
An OrphanAn Orphan
What Is An Orphan?What Is An Orphan?
One who does not have parents. One who believes he is all alone. One who believes he has to take care of
himself;
i.e., his survival depends on his own efforts. He is without help or support.
HE IS ON HIS OWN!
One who does not have parents. One who believes he is all alone. One who believes he has to take care of
himself;
i.e., his survival depends on his own efforts. He is without help or support.
HE IS ON HIS OWN!
Adam and Eve started the process …..
and this Curse of the“Orphan Lifestyle/Heart”continues within the Human Race ….. Even to Today!
Adam and Eve started the process …..
and this Curse of the“Orphan Lifestyle/Heart”continues within the Human Race ….. Even to Today!
Orphan Heart/Lifestyle(Orphan Spirit – Jack Frost)Orphan Heart/Lifestyle(Orphan Spirit – Jack Frost)
Stands on Two PillarsStands on Two Pillars
Neglected Rejected Isolated Victimized Abused
Neglected Rejected Isolated Victimized Abused
Orphan Heart/LSOrphan Heart/LS
RebellionRebellionAbandonmentAbandonment Deception Defiance Reject Parents (fire them)
Independence Self-Sufficiency
Deception Defiance Reject Parents (fire them)
Independence Self-Sufficiency
But Jesus …..But Jesus …..
Galations 4:4-5 4:4 But when the fulness of the time was come, God sent forth his Son, made of a woman, made under the law, 4:5 To redeem them that were under the law, that we might receive the adoption of sons.
Galations 4:4-5 4:4 But when the fulness of the time was come, God sent forth his Son, made of a woman, made under the law, 4:5 To redeem them that were under the law, that we might receive the adoption of sons.
But Jesus:But Jesus:
John 14:18
I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.
John 14:18
I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.
Father’s Love
Contrasting the Orphan with the Son
Father’s Love
Contrasting the Orphan with the Son
* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love
Father’s Love #1*Father’s Love #1*Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Seeing God as Master
IMAGE OF GOD
Seeing God as Loving Father
* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love
Image of GodImage of God
Seeing God as Master Seeing God as Loving Father
Seeing God as Master Seeing God as Loving Father
Father’s Love #1*Father’s Love #1*Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Seeing God as Master
IMAGE OF GOD
Seeing God as Loving Father
Slaves/Servants POSITION Sons & Daughters
* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love
Father’s Love #1*Father’s Love #1*Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Seeing God as Master
IMAGE OF GOD
Seeing God as Loving Father
Slaves/Servants POSITION Sons & Daughters
Independent & Self-Reliant
DEPENDENCY Interdependent & Submissive
* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love
Father’s Love #1*Father’s Love #1*Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Seeing God as Master
IMAGE OF GOD
Seeing God as Loving Father
Slaves/Servants POSITION Sons & Daughters
Independent & Self-Reliant
DEPENDENCY Interdependent & Submissive
Love of Law THEOLOGY Law of Love
* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love
Father’s Love #1*Father’s Love #1*Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Seeing God as Master
IMAGE OF GOD
Seeing God as Loving Father
Slaves/Servants POSITION Sons & Daughters
Independent & Self-Reliant
DEPENDENCY Interdependent & Submissive
Love of Law THEOLOGY Law of Love
Insecure-No peace, Burdens, Anxieties
SECURITY Rest & Peace
* From Jack Frost’s Teaching on the Father’s Love
Father’s Love #2Father’s Love #2Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Seek the Praise of man, which leads to striving and insecurity
NEED FOR APPROVAL
Rest in Father’s acceptance and being justified by grace
Father’s Love #2Father’s Love #2Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Seek the Praise of man, which leads to striving and insecurity
NEED FOR APPROVAL
Rest in Father’s acceptance and being justified by grace
Motivated by a need for personal achievement which leads to a fear of failure in God’s eyes and thus, deserving of rejection
MOTIVE FOR SERVICE
Love precedes service -- Service is motivated by deep gratitude for being loved and accepted unconditionally by the Father
Father’s Love #3Father’s Love #3Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Duty & Burden MOTIVE BEHIND
CHRISTIAN DISCIPLINES
Pleasure & Delight
Father’s Love #3Father’s Love #3Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Duty & Burden MOTIVE BEHIND
CHRISTIAN DISCIPLINES
Pleasure & Delight
“Must” be holy, thus driven by ever-increasing guilt and shame
MOTIVE FOR PURITY
“Want to” be holy; do not want anything to hinder intimate relationship
Father’s Love #3Father’s Love #3Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Duty & Burden MOTIVE BEHIND
CHRISTIAN DISCIPLINES
Pleasure & Delight
“Must” be holy, thus driven by ever-increasing guilt and shame
MOTIVE FOR PURITY
“Want to” be holy; do not want anything to hinder intimate relationship
Compare yourself with others – a form of self-rejection
IMAGE OF YOURSELF
Fully loved and accepted as you are
Father’s Love #4Father’s Love #4Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Seeks counterfeit affections – addictions, compulsions, busyness, escapism, hyper-religious activity
COMFORT Daily seeks rest and comfort in the loving arms of Father
Father’s Love #4Father’s Love #4Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Seeks counterfeit affections – addictions, compulsions, busyness, escapism, hyper-religious activity
COMFORT Daily seeks rest and comfort in the loving arms of Father
Competition, rivalry, and jealous of other’s success and position
RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS
Humility & Unity – Valuing others and able to rejoice with other’s successes and grieving with them over their failures
Father’s Love #5Father’s Love #5Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Accusation & Exposure
HANDLING OTHER’S FAULTS
Love covers; seek to restore in a spirit of love & gentleness
Father’s Love #5Father’s Love #5Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Accusation & Exposure
HANDLING OTHER’S FAULTS
Love covers; seek to restore in a spirit of love & gentleness
Bondage CONDITION Liberty
Father’s Love #5Father’s Love #5Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Accusation & Exposure
HANDLING OTHER’S FAULTS
Love covers; seek to restore in a spirit of love & gentleness
Bondage CONDITION Liberty
Distant SENSE OF GOD’S
PRESENCE
Close & Intimate
Father’s Love #6Father’s Love #6Orphan: Off-Center Father’s Love Sonship: On-Center
Conditional, guarded, based on other’s performance – seeking to get own love need met in others
EXPRESSION OF LOVE TO
OTHERS
Patient, affectionate, & gentle – laying your life and agendas down in order to meet other’s love need
Restoring the FoundationsOrphan Heart
Orphan Lifestyle
Applying the Four Ministry Areas
Restoring the FoundationsOrphan Heart
Orphan Lifestyle
Applying the Four Ministry Areas
Key Facets of Restoring the Foundations MinistryKey Facets of Restoring the Foundations Ministry Forgiveness Sins of the Fathers and Resulting Curses – Removing Affects of Generational Sins Ungodly Beliefs – Renewing the Mind Soul/Spirit Hurts – Healing the Inner Wounds Demonic Oppression – Deliverance Ongoing Cooperation with the Holy Spirit – “Walking it Out”
Forgiveness Sins of the Fathers and Resulting Curses – Removing Affects of Generational Sins Ungodly Beliefs – Renewing the Mind Soul/Spirit Hurts – Healing the Inner Wounds Demonic Oppression – Deliverance Ongoing Cooperation with the Holy Spirit – “Walking it Out”
Orphan Heart: Core Ungodly BeliefsOrphan Heart: Core Ungodly Beliefs
• I am all alone.• No one cares about me.• I have to take care of myself.• The World is a cold, cruel, dangerous place.
• I am all alone.• No one cares about me.• I have to take care of myself.• The World is a cold, cruel, dangerous place.
• People are dangerous.• I will never trust anyone again.
• It is not safe to be submitted to another.• I will not let anyone control me.
• Other people are incompetent.• I will do “it” my way.
• People are dangerous.• I will never trust anyone again.
• It is not safe to be submitted to another.• I will not let anyone control me.
• Other people are incompetent.• I will do “it” my way.
Typical Judgments and VowsTypical Judgments and Vows
Sonship PrayerSonship Prayer
Key Facets of Restoring the Foundations MinistryKey Facets of Restoring the Foundations Ministry
– Forgiveness Sins of the Fathers and Resulting Curses – Removing Affects of Generational Sins Ungodly Beliefs – Renewing the Mind Soul/Spirit Hurts – Healing the Inner Wounds Demonic Oppression – Deliverance
– Ongoing Cooperation with the Holy Spirit “Walking it Out”
– Forgiveness Sins of the Fathers and Resulting Curses – Removing Affects of Generational Sins Ungodly Beliefs – Renewing the Mind Soul/Spirit Hurts – Healing the Inner Wounds Demonic Oppression – Deliverance
– Ongoing Cooperation with the Holy Spirit “Walking it Out”
Restoring the FoundationsOrphan Heart/Lifestyle
Ministry
Restoring the FoundationsOrphan Heart/Lifestyle
Ministry
Chester and Betsy KylstraChester and Betsy Kylstra
Fear Rebellion Abandonment Victim
of Submission Unsubmissiveness Rejection Entrapment
of Authorities Independence Wanderer Slavery
of Man Self-Reliance Fatherless Bondage
of Failure Self-Sufficiency Shame Desolation
of Rejection Stubbornness Slave Mentality
Resistance Poverty Mentality
Control Dishonor Fatherless ness
Manipulation Homelessness Anger
Domination Loss of Inheritance
Resentment
Pride Orphan Unforgiveness
Passivity Illegitimacy Hatred
Orphan Heart: Sins of the Fathers and CursesOrphan Heart: Sins of the Fathers and Curses
UGB: I will always need to be strong, protect, defend and take care of myself because there is no one else to be responsible for me or care for me.
GB: God is my source, my strength, and my defender. I choose to look to Him and trust Him to provide for me in whatever way He chooses. I release the responsibility of my life into the hands of the Lord.
UGB: I will always need to be strong, protect, defend and take care of myself because there is no one else to be responsible for me or care for me.
GB: God is my source, my strength, and my defender. I choose to look to Him and trust Him to provide for me in whatever way He chooses. I release the responsibility of my life into the hands of the Lord.
Orphan Lifestyle: Ungodly Belief #1Orphan Lifestyle: Ungodly Belief #1
UGB: Something is wrong with me. I am not worthy of being protected.
GB: I am accepted in the beloved. I have been made worthy through Jesus and He desires to be my protector and my shield.
UGB: Something is wrong with me. I am not worthy of being protected.
GB: I am accepted in the beloved. I have been made worthy through Jesus and He desires to be my protector and my shield.
Orphan Lifestyle: Ungodly Belief #2Orphan Lifestyle: Ungodly Belief #2
UGB: I'll never be a priority with those in authority over me.
GB: I am a priority with God because of Jesus Christ. I choose to submit to and pray for those in authority that God has placed over me knowing that as I humble myself He will exalt me in due season.
UGB: I'll never be a priority with those in authority over me.
GB: I am a priority with God because of Jesus Christ. I choose to submit to and pray for those in authority that God has placed over me knowing that as I humble myself He will exalt me in due season.
Orphan Heart: Ungodly Belief #3Orphan Heart: Ungodly Belief #3
UGB: No one will ever love me enough to take care of me.
GB: God loves me with an everlasting love and He has drawn me with loving-kindness. He loves me so much that He has a plan and a purpose for my life, a plan to prosper me and to give me hope and a future. He will bring those into my life who will love me and be apart of fulfilling that purpose.
UGB: No one will ever love me enough to take care of me.
GB: God loves me with an everlasting love and He has drawn me with loving-kindness. He loves me so much that He has a plan and a purpose for my life, a plan to prosper me and to give me hope and a future. He will bring those into my life who will love me and be apart of fulfilling that purpose.
Orphan Heart: Ungodly Belief #4Orphan Heart: Ungodly Belief #4
UGB: I'm a victim of my circumstances and there is no hope of change.
GB: Jesus is my hope and He is changing me from glory to glory so that I am free and an overcomer no matter what my circumstances.
UGB: I'm a victim of my circumstances and there is no hope of change.
GB: Jesus is my hope and He is changing me from glory to glory so that I am free and an overcomer no matter what my circumstances.
Orphan Heart: Ungodly Belief #5Orphan Heart: Ungodly Belief #5
UGB: The significant people in my life are not there for me and will not be there when I need them.
GB: The Lord is always there for me and when I need help He will place the right people in my life at the right time to help meet my needs.
UGB: The significant people in my life are not there for me and will not be there when I need them.
GB: The Lord is always there for me and when I need help He will place the right people in my life at the right time to help meet my needs.
Orphan Heart: Ungodly Belief #6Orphan Heart: Ungodly Belief #6
(We want a memory where rebellion and dishonor to your mother or father began. When you judged them, closing off your spirit to them. When you rebelled and made a decision to become independent and said, “I can do it better myself.”
What you are looking for is where did you begin to lack sonship?
Ask this question: “At what moment did I cease being a son or daughter”)
(We want a memory where rebellion and dishonor to your mother or father began. When you judged them, closing off your spirit to them. When you rebelled and made a decision to become independent and said, “I can do it better myself.”
What you are looking for is where did you begin to lack sonship?
Ask this question: “At what moment did I cease being a son or daughter”)
Orphan Heart: Soul/Spirit HurtsOrphan Heart: Soul/Spirit Hurts
Fear Rebellion Abandonment Victim
of Submission Unsubmissiveness
Rejection Entrapment
of Authorities Independence Wanderer Slavery
of Man Self-Reliance Fatherless Bondage
of Failure Self-Sufficiency Shame Desolation
of Rejection Stubbornness Slave Mentality
Resistance Poverty Mentality
Control Dishonor Fatherless ness
Manipulation Homelessness Anger
Domination Loss of Inheritance
Resentment
Pride Orphan Unforgiveness
Passivity Illegitimacy Hatred
Orphan Heart: Demonic OppressionOrphan Heart: Demonic Oppression
Orphan Heart: Demonic Oppression #1Orphan Heart: Demonic Oppression #1REBELLION FEAR ABANDONMENT
Independence of Submission Rejection
Self-Reliance of Authorities Loneliness
Self-Sufficiency of Man Unprotected
Stubbornness of Failure Neglect
Resistance of Rejection Isolation
Mistrust of Losing Control
Withdrawal
Confusion of Punishment Self-Pity
Unsubmissive of Inadequacy Hopelessness
Intimidation Fatherlessness
Shame
Orphan Heart: Demonic Oppression #2Orphan Heart: Demonic Oppression #2ANGER UNFORGIVENESS
Resentment Bitterness
Frustration Accusation
Hatred Critical
Retaliation Judging
Revenge Ridiculing
Strife Murmuring
Mocking Blaming
Destruction Fault Finding
Sarcasm
Orphan Heart: Demonic Oppression #3Orphan Heart: Demonic Oppression #3ORPHAN VICTIM CONTROL
Loss of Inheritance Entrapment Manipulation
Homelessness Slavery Domination
Vagabond (Slave Mentality) Passivity
Wanderer Bondage People Pleasing
Nomad Desolation Pride
Gypsy Poverty Selfishness
Discontent Helplessness Self-Centeredness
Restlessness Suspicion Possessiveness
Fatherlessness
Illegitimacy
Orphan Heart: Demonic Oppression #4Orphan Heart: Demonic Oppression #4
DECEPTION SHAME
Doubt Embarrassment
Unbelief Humiliation
Lying Guilt
Confusion Condemnation
Self-Deception Unworthiness
Delusion Inferiority
Justifying Insecurity
Restoring the FoundationsOrphan Heart
Orphan Lifestyle
Restoring the FoundationsOrphan Heart
Orphan Lifestyle
Chester and Betsy KylstraChester and Betsy Kylstra
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