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My Mother Is Having An Affair
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Question: • I am a teenager • My mom and I moved to this
country a year ago • My dad stayed behind because
he could not get a visa
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• We were still at the airport when I saw a love message on my mom’s phone – from another man back in our country
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• Then I discovered this man had also moved to our new country and he lives nearby
• My mom did not tell me but I know they meet often
• My dad knows nothing
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• My dad still does not have a visa • What she is doing is against our
culture and religion • What must I do?
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Answer: • Marriage is meant to last forever • But people change • This even happens in a culture
where the dream of a life-long happy marriage is cherished
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• Do not judge your mother • People tend to have an affair
long after the marriage broke down
• The husband and wife each carry 50% of the marriage
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• Both are equally responsible for any breakdown
• Your mother may feel she has no option other than to have an affair
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• Rather observe how both your parents deal with the situation
• Then decide what is right for you
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• Once you have decided, you may later change your decision based on your own life experiences
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• Your parents both love you and want the best for you
• Don’t blame or judge either of them
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Thank You
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