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OMFDEDA__N Ibvad
ES. JNLA_ EBC_BINIE @QSU CSQIAS
Iaw Vbr` Cbstbi Insmvfdda
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Umfs cbb` fs n wbr` bh otfbi. Inlas, omnrnotars, pdnoas, nie fiofeaits
nra tma prbeuot bh tma nutmbrs flnkfintfbi br nra usae otftfbusdy. Niy
rasalcdnioa tb notund avaits, dbondas, br parsbis, dfvfik br eane, fs
obfiofeaitnd.
Obpyrfkmt 37>? cy Jnlas O. Ebcsbi nie @urt CruiarNdd rfkmts rasarvae. Fi noobrenioa wftm tma Q._. Obpyrfkmt Not bh >6;8,
tma soniifik, updbnefik, nie adaotrbifo smnrfik bh niy pnrt bh tmfs cbb`
wftmbut tma parlfssfbi bh tma pucdfsmar fs uidnwhud pfrnoy nie tmaht bh
tma nutmbrs fitaddaotund prbparty. Fh ybu wbude df`a tb usa lntarfnd hrbl
tma cbb` (btmar tmni hbr ravfaw purpbsas), prfbr wrfttai parlfssfbi lust
ca bctnfiae cy obitnotfik tma pucdfsmar nt parlfssfbisGmckusn.obl.
Umni` ybu hbr ybur suppbrt bh tma nutmbrs rfkmts.
Hnftm[bres
Mnomatta Cbb` Krbup
3?; Wnr` Nvaiua
Iaw Vbr`, IV >77>;
hnftmwbres.obl
Wrfitae fi tma Qiftae _tntas bh Nlarfon
SSE-O
Hfrst Aeftfbi: Botbcar 37>?
>7 6 = ; 8 1 5 ? 3 >Hnftm[bres fs n efvfsfbi bh Mnomatta Cbb` Krbup, Fio.
Uma Hnftm[bres inla nie dbkb nra trnealnr`s bh Mnomatta Cbb` Krbup,
Fio.
Uma Mnomatta _pan`ars Curanu prbvfeas n wfea rnika bh nutmbrs hbr
span`fik avaits. Ub ie but lbra, kb tb
www.mnomattaspan`arscuranu.obl br ondd (=88) ?;8-816>.
Uma pucdfsmar fs ibt raspbisfcda hbr wacsftas (br tmafr obitait) tmnt nra
ibt bwiae cy tma pucdfsmar.Dfcrnry bh Obikrass Ontndbkfik-fi-Wucdfontfbi Entn
Ebcsbi, Jnlas O., >6?8-
Omfdedass : n ibvad / Er. Jnlas Ebcsbi nie @urt Cruiar. -- Hfrst aeftfbi.
pnkas ol
F_CI 6;=->-5111->?>1-5 (mnreobvar)F_CI 6;=->-5111-;871-7 (dnrka
prfit mnreobvar)F_CI 6;=->-5111->?>5-; (acbb`)
>. Omrfstfni otfbi. F. Cruiar, @urt E. FF. Uftda.
W_?875.B35O5; 37>?
=>?'.8--eo3?37>371>?37
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_aptalcar >, 375?
Xfotbr
Uma hnfit sbuie bh ebbrcadd omflas prblptae Sacaoon _nitfnkb tbodfo` bhh tma mnfr eryar. Umnts wmai sma pnifo`ae. Uma bvai
tflar! Mar kbwi sblawmara but bh ranom, sma mnstfdy krnccae
Xfotbrs knikdy cntmrbca wmfda enrtfik tbwnre tma `ftomai fi n
hutfda ahhbrt tb rasoua mar hbrkbttai pulp`fi sobias.
Cndniofik tma mbt obb`fa smaat wftm mar mnie fi ni bvai lftt,
sma bpaiae tma hrbit ebbr wftm tma btmar mnie. _ma rbddae marayas nt tma sbuie bh ni bvarifkmt eadfvary truo` mnstfdy spaaefik
nwny hrbl tma erfvawny.
Vbu ondd tmnt hrfaiedy sarvfoa2 Sacaoon smbutae tb tma aa-
fik dfoaisa pdnta cahbra caiefik ebwi tb ratrfava tma tmfi pno`-
nka. Ft wns slndd nie nt df`a niy bh tma obuitdass daknd ebou-
laits tmnt raqufrae mar muscnies nttaitfbi. _ma tbssae ft nsfea
cahbra murrfaedy efspbsfik bh tma ebzai slbdearfik dulps ibdbikar suftncda tb sarva wftm tan. Ns bi avary btmar Uuaseny,
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tma crfeka oduc knds wbude nrrfva nt adavai bodbo` smnrp. _ma
mne dass tmni htaai lfiutas tb ln`a mar krnyfik strnies wnvy
nie rahurcfsm n hnoa cnifsmae hrbl ln`aup-hraa nppanrnioas
eaoneas nkb.Uma aivadbpa snt fkibrae uitfd hbur tmfrty tmnt nhtaribbi,
wmai ft onukmt Sacaoons aya. Ns sma wnvae kbbecya tb _maddy,
wmb, ns usund, mne bvarstnyae mar wadobla cy ifiaty lfiutas,
sma ibtfoae ft cndnioae obispfoubusdy bi tma efifik rbbl tncda
rfkmt iaxt tb n daknd crfah Xfotbr mne hbrsn`ai savai mburs anrdfar.
Kbttn rui, ma mne lulcdae tmrbukm n mndh-antai pfaoa bh
tbnst waekae catwaai mfs taatm bi mfs wny but tma ebbr. Dbsttrno` bh tfla.
Sacaoon sfkmae nt tma ralfiear bh mar muscnies omfah smbrt-
oblfik. _ma `iaw wmnt haw btmars obude kuass. Uma astaalae
Xfotbr _nitfnkb, prasfefik jueka fi tma Uaitm Ofrouft Oburt bh
Nppands, wns n lni savarady nddarkfo tb ludtftns`fik. _fppfik
obhhaa nie ravfawfik daknd bpfifbis wara twb sfludtniabus no-
tfvftfas tmnt mne squaazae omao`fik tma tfla but bh mfs lbrifikrbutfia. _ma lnrvadae tmnt Xfotbr lninkae tb survfva wmfda
nwny hrbl mar nttaitfva mbvarfik, dat ndbia tmnt mae anriae
n ibtncda raputntfbi. Cut ma mne, tmni`s fi dnrka pnrt tb tmafr
tmfrty-twb-yanr nrrnikalait. Uma eny Xfotbr lnrrfae Sacaoon
mfs hbrlfencda lfie mne aitrustae ndd ibijuefofnd lnttars tb mfs
cattar mndh, nie sma mne kdnedy nssulae tmal.
Hfiefik n pnfr bh sofssbrs, Sacaoon sdft tma sand nie dat tma obi-taits hndd bitb tma `ftomai obuitar. N slnddar aivadbpa smnpae
df`a n kraatfik onre efspdnyae mniewrfttai sorfpt.
Ub: Lrs. Sacaoon _nitfnkbHrbl: N Hni bh tma Jueka
_ma slfdae, nitfofpntfik nibtmar ibta axprassfik nelfrntfbi hbrmar muscnies krbwfik fiuaioa. _ma mne n pdansnit mncft tmnt
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mne cakui wftm mar sornpcbb` bh iaws odfppfiks hrbl Xfotbrs
yanrs ns prbsaoutfik nttbriay. _ma dbvae snvfik lalaitbs hrbl
`ay onraar lfdastbias. Mar hnvbrfta wns tma hrnlae pfotura
tn`ai nt tma prass obiharaioa niibuiofik mfs nppbfitlait tbtma haearnd caiom. Xfotbr mne prbtastae wmai sma pdnoae ft sb
prblfiaitdy bi efspdny fi tma dfvfik rbbl. Cut mbusambde eobr
hadd wftmfi mar jurfsefotfbi. Ib lnttar mbw crfddfnitdy wbreae mfs
bpfifbi bi tma lnttar, mars ralnfiae tma eaofefik vbta.
Sacaoon mbpae tmnt ib bia, aspaofnddy Xfotbr, wbude avar sus-
paot mar danst caoblfik oustbl: sma rbutfiady sbrtae tmrbukm tma
bhoa wnstapnpar cns`at tb ratrfava ibtas mar muscnie lfkmtmnva efsonreae nhtar efslfssfik tmni`s br n oblpdflait hrbl n
odfait br obddankua. Wnrt bh mar rbda, sma tbde marsadh, wns tb radfsm
tma noobdneas mar muscnie obisfearae frradavnit br uieasarvae.
Sacaoon nssulae tmfs ibta onla hrbl yat nibtmar omnrnotar
wftiass bhharfik avfeaioa tmnt mar dfhadbik dbvar wns ndsb tma
lbst flpbrtnit daknd lfie bi tma pdniat. _ma sdfe tma obitaits
hraa nie ibtfoae n sdfkmt cudka hrbl tma hbdeae dattar fisartaecatwaai tma adaknit pniads bh n onre tmnt lust mnva caai pur-
omnsae hrbl ni upsonda stntfbiary stbra. _ma ralbvae tma pnka
cahbra ranefik tma onres fisorfptfbi.
Eanr Sacaoon:
F npbdbkfza hbr trbucdfik ybu nt mbla, nie F rakrat niy efstrass
tma aiodbsae lny onusa ybu. Cut F easparntady iaae ybur nssfstnioafi wmnt mns caobla n lbst prassfik, eadfonta lnttar. Umni` ybu, fi
nevnioa, hbr ybur obbparntfbi.
[nrlast raknres,
N Lnifomani
_ma stnrae nt tma sfkintura hbr savarnd saobies, tryfik tb pdnoatma inla. Ibtmfik onla. Umai sma cakni uihbdefik tma dbikar
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ibta tb rane tma eatnfds bh tma lystarfbus raquast. Mar lfie
rnoae nmane bh mar mnies tb bhhar pbssfcda soainrfbs, anom saal-
fik dass pdnusfcda tmni tma dnst.
N prnotfond jb`a cy mar briary crbtmar2 @aftm mneit avaicbtmarae xfik mflsadh n sniewfom sfioa dbsfik @ny. Ma
wbudeit wnsta tma dfttda aiarky ma mne daht obiobotfik ni adncb-
rnta knk. Nie avai fh ma mne, mfs mnies smbb` tbb luom hbr suom
krnoahud pailnismfp.
Warmnps sbla surprfsa Xfotbr mne nrrnikae hbr mar sfxtfatm2 Bh
obursa mar cfrtmeny ralnfiae waa`s nwny, nie Xfotbr wnsit tma
typa tb pdni suom tmfiks. Umai nknfi, ma obude mnva raoafvaeprbes nie madp hrbl mfs avar-tmbukmthud nssfstnit Jaiifhar. Wbs-
sfcda, cut ibt df`ady.
Obude ft ca n dakftflnta raquast tb kat fivbdvae wftm n onsa2
Xfotbr mne prasfeae bvar muieraes bh eaofsfbis eurfik mfs yanrs
bi tma caiom. Nt mfs fisfstaioa, ibia mne avar fivneae tma snio-
tunry bh tmafr mbla. Bi tma bia boonsfbi mae saalae tbrturae
bvar n pnrtfoudnrdy omnddaikfik onsa smae ns`ae fh ma wnitae tbtnd` ncbut ft. Cut ma mne sdnllae tma ebbr bi tma pbssfcfdfty
wftm n krntahud `fss bi mar hbramane.
Mnvfik efslfssae ndd tmraa ndtarintfvas Sacaoon hadt n rusm bh
vnkua pnifo ns sma cakni ranefik tma ebucda-oransae pnka.
Eanr Xfotbr:
Wdansa hbrkfva ly saiefik tmfs ibta tb ybur wfha Sacaoon. Wrfbrnttalpts tb obrraspbie tmrbukm ybur nssfstnit mnva prbvai ui-
hrufthud. F mnva yat tb raoafva n sfikda raspbisa tb niy bh ly
pravfbus dattars raknrefik tma wrbikhud eantm nppand fivbdvfik
IA]U Urnisftfbi _arvfoas. Ns ybu `ibw, lniy dfvas mnik fi tma
cndnioa fi tmfs lnttar. Umnts wmy F wns pdansae tma onsa hadd tb n
lni wftm tma `fie bh wfsebl nie rastrnfit ybu mnva ealbistrntae
tmrbukmbut ybur efstfikufsmae juefofnd onraar. Cut tmfs onsa fs hnrtbb flpbrtnit hbr niy mfit bh nlcfkufty. Umnts wmy F lust `ibw
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wmara ybu stnie cahbra tma somaeudae rudfik eanedfia bh _aptalcar
5tm. Wdansa obisfear Sacaoons hutura ns ybu obitalpdnta tma hbd-
dbwfik ndtarintfvas:
BptfbiBptfbi Bia:Bia: Nssura la tmnt ybu wfdd fieaae eaofea fi
hnvbr bh IA]U.
BptfbiBptfbi UUwwb:b: Cfe ybur swaat wfha hnrawadd sfioa ybu wfdd
efa cahbra fssufik ni bpfifbi.
Bioa nknfi, F npbdbkfza hbr ndnrlfik Sacaoon. Cut sma easarvas
tb `ibw ncbut tma fioransfikdy taisa sftuntfbi fi wmfom wa iebursadvas. F obude ibt nddbw niy bh wmnt lfkmt trnispfra tb obla
ns n surprfsa, nie F trust tmnt mar fitarvaitfbi wfdd lbtfvnta ybu
tb eb wmnts rfkmt hbr avarybia.
Ns ndwnys,
N Lnifomani
W._. @fiedy pbst ybur raspbisa nt tma hbddbwfik prfvnta hbrulneerass: NIBI.OMNU.5?6=
Sacaoon hadt mar daks wan`ai ns sma stanefae marsadh wftm n
efifik rbbl omnfr. _ma mne ndwnys `ibwi tmnt flpbrtnit wbr`
df`a Xfotbrs onla wftm oartnfi rfs`s. _b ebas erfvfik n onr br
cbnrefik n pdnia, mar muscnie mne ndwnys snfe ranssurfikdy.
Mae iavar cbtmarae tb laitfbi pbssfcda nssnssfintfbi._ma tbb` ni bvareua crantm ns mar ayas raturiae tb tma bidy
saitaioa bi tma pnka tmnt lnttarae. Cfe ybur swaat wfha hnrawadd
sfioa ybu wfdd efa cahbra fssufik ni bpfifbi.
Uma dattar hadd tb tma bbr fi uifbi wftm Sacaoons sfi`fik
manrt. _ma ornedae mar hnoa fi smn`fik mnies, tmai odbsae mar
ayas tb pravfaw tma soaias bh n oblfik-sbbi ifkmtlnra.
Not Bia. _ma wbude pdane wftm mar muscnie. Cak mfl tb ob-bparnta.
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Not Uwb. Ma wbude sny ib, stuccbridy rahusfik tb hanr tma
snla lainofik tmrant tmnt prblfsae tb `aap mar bi aeka hbr
savarnd hrathud enys nie sdaapdass ifkmts.
Not Umraa. N hnoadass strnikar Sacaoon lfkmt iavar eataotwbude `fdd tma lni sma obude iavar dfva wftmbut.
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WNSU BIAUmraa[aa`s Anrdfar
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OMNWUAS BIA
Nukust >1, 375?
UydarOnfi erbva tmrbukm savarnd cdbo`s bh cbnreae-up mblas nie vn-onit npnrtlait cufdefiks cahbra ranomfik tma hnlfdfnr straat. Uma
iafkmcbrmbbe obude mnva caai niy bh n muierae mndh-ncniebiae
saotfbis bh tbwi. Eaivar mne cakui hbddbwfik fi tma hbbtstaps bh
bioa-tmrfvfik oftfas df`a Eatrbft, Wmfdneadpmfn, Omfonkb, nie Cbs-
tbi. Uma intfbind pbpudntfbi mne bhofnddy tfdtae ebwiwnre bidy
afkmtaai lbitms anrdfar, cut sbla rakfbis mne ndraney trnis-
hbrlae fitb alpty mnvais bh dfha hraa hrbl tma cureai bh `fes.Iafkmcbrmbbes ebit mfea tma sfkis bh nkfik niy cattar tmni
tma pabpda wmb easart tmal. Eaoneas anrdfar tmasa mblas mne
df`ady custdae wftm tma sfkmts nie sbuies bh omfderai manefik bhh
tb sombbd. Umay ibw sarvae ns rfo`aty ralinits bh n cykbia arn.
Haw bh tma sfikda-hnlfdy ewaddfiks nppanrae fi usa caybie tma
boonsfbind orno` eandar, pndl ranear, br saifbr oftfzai tbb pbbr br
stuccbri tb danva ni nran tma uiearhuieae pbdfoa ib dbikar pn-trbddae.
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Uydar puddae mfs uiwnsmae 3= Hbre Lustnik camfie wmnt
ma kuassae tb ca ni ncniebiae 33 Daxus. Uwb uirapnfrae nt
ranr tfras sukkastae tma vamfoda mne caai prbibuioae eane nh-
tar tma prbdbikae tbrtura bh bwiar iakdaot. Uydars onr t rfkmt fi,prbvfefik tma parhaot onlbunka hbr yat nibtmar lfie-iulcfik
stn`abut.
[ftm tma fp bh n tfiy swftom bi tma daht rfl bh mfs suikdnssas
ma dbb`ae tbwnre tma rasfeaioa fi quastfbi. Ma obude mnva
pnr`ae odbsar. Cut hbur muierae ynres knva mfl n ransbi tb usa
tma vfsfbi-lnkifontfbi hantura tmnt, ma mne obivfioae mflsadh,
wbude ca wadd wbrtm tma axtrn axpaisa. Unppfik tma dais twfoa,ma zbblae fi aibukm tb obirl ernwi ernparfas nie n sbdftnry
onr fi tma erfvawny.
Ncsbdutady ibtmfik wns mnppaifik, ns eurfik lbst bh mfs cfdd-
ncda mburs.
Uydar kdnioae nt tma odbo` wmfda ranomfik hbr n sdfkmtdy orul-
pdae cnk obitnfifik tbenys fieudkaioa: twb cnobi omaasacurk-
ars wftm axtrn pfo`das. Saiaa wbude ibt mnva npprbvae, cut maiaaeae sustainioa caybie tma cfre hbbe sma onddae n saisfcda
efat. Mfs kfrdhrfaie mne ndwnys caai n mandtm iut. Ft wns bia bh
tma tmfiks tmnt mne nttrnotae mfl tb mar wmai tmay rst lat. Mar
t hbrty-bia-yanr-bde kura ralnfiae tma cast pnrt bh ni btmar-
wfsa axnsparntfik radntfbismfp. Enfdy jbks nie ondbrfa obuitfik
dbb`ae krant bi mar, cut tmay ornlpae mfs styda. Casfeas, ma wns
fi cattar smnpa tmni lbst kuys pusmfik hty.Ma dbb`ae fi tma vfsbr lfrrbr tb fispaot n hnoa sma mne bioa
onddae cbyfsmdy outa. Ib lni wnits tb ca aftmar, sb ma mne krbwi
n sdfkmt kbntaa tmnt ibw obitnfiae lbra krny tmni ma mne nd-
dbwae mfs tmfiifik mnfr tb efspdny.
Saiaa efsnpprbvae bh hnofnd mnfr ndlbst ns luom ns cnobi
curkars. Ft ftomas la wmai wa `fss, sma mne tansae. Ftomy
`fssfik oni spbfd tma lbbe.Hbrtuintady sma iavar hbddbwae tmrbukm bi tma vafdae tmrant.
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_b ma obitfiuae fkibrfik mar nppands tb rastbra tma nkfik cncy
hnoa sma mne hnddai fi dbva wftm tmraa yanrs anrdfar.
[mfda ebwifik n ind caahy cfta wftm n sfp bh strnwcarry
smn`a Uydar ibtfoae n vamfoda npprbnomfik hrbl camfie. Mawntomae ft krbw fi tma erfvars-sfea lfrrbr ns ft sdbwae tb n wnry
ornwd. Ns tma onr orapt pnst ma raobkifzae tma wblnis hnoa
hrbl tma pmbtbkrnpm mfs odfait mne prbvfeae. Mar onr obitfiuae
rbddfik hbrwnre ns sma strnfiae tb ie n dakfcda neerass cahbra
pnusfik fi hrbit bh tma mbusa Uydar mne pbsftfbiae mflsadh tb bc-
sarva.
_ma ralnfiae santae fisfea hbr savarnd lfiutas, nppnraitdyneefik ifsmfik tbuomas tb mar ln`aup. [mai sma inddy
bpaiae tma ebbr Uydar tnppae mfs dais hbr n odbsar dbb`. Ianrdy
nttrnotfva, sma nppanrae bde aibukm tb ca madpfik krbwi `fes
pno` hbr obddaka br spbfdfik mar krnie`fes rntmar tmni kattfik
ebddae up fi suom n pdansnitdy finpprbprfnta butt.
[my eb tmay onra mbw tmay dbb`2 ma wbiearae. Uma lni wnftfik
fisfea, Uydar nssulae, wbude not but tmfs waa`s saxund hnitnsyraknredass. Ub kuys wftm lnea-up inlas tmnt omnika enfdy, tma
rfs` bh kattfik onukmt wns n cfkkar turi-bi tmni mfkm maads.
Uydar qufo`dy krnccae mfs onlarn tb sinp va pfoturas bh tma
wblni, tma rst ns sma wnd`ae hrbl tma onr nie tma htm ns
sma dbb`ae cno` hrbl ni bpaifik hrbit ebbr tb obirl saoraoy.
Umnts wmai ma onukmt n kdflpsa bh tma lnis hnoa. Ma nppanrae
n cft ybuikar tmni tma wblni, mfs taitntfva ayas enrtfik tb niehrb ns fh omao`fik hbr n stnd`fik dbvar wmb lfkmt ontom mfl fi
tma not. Hfva saobies dntar tma ebbr odbsae ns tma pnfr saourae
tmalsadvas wftmfi n raibvntae sdul mbusa hnr dass nttrnotfva nie
sniftnry tmni ft mne nppanrae fi tma bidfia ne hbr tmfs pnrtfoudnr
Mbusa bh Eadfkmts.
_b cakni Uydars Lbieny-tmrbukm-Hrfeny nhtaribbi rbutfia
bh sfttfik butsfea tmfs br sbla btmar eai bh fifqufty tb kdanitma sornps bh n cbblfik nrrnikae mbb`ups fieustry. Ft wns ndd
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pnrt bh n praefotncda saquaioa hbr saourfik odfaits nie anrifik n
stanefdy laefbora fiobla.
_tap Bia: Hbddbw mbla wmntavar lni br wblni daht biabh tma sbrefe astncdfsmlaits
_tap Uwb: Urnoa mfs br mar neerass tb feaitfhy n pbtaitfnd
pnrtiar
_tap Umraa: Danva ni nibiylbus ibta tb pdnit n saae bh
suspfofbi nie raobllaie n trustwbrtmy fivastfkntbr
inlae Uydar Onfi
_tap Hbur: [nft hbr tma pmbia tb rfik
Uma prboass mne `apt Uydar sb cusy ma ib dbikar cbtmarae
ns`fik mfs hbrlar suparvfsfik eataotfva hbr dakftflnta fivastfkn-
tfbi danes.
Cusfiass fs krant, ma wbude cbnst wmai ns`ae. Lbra wbr` tmni F
oni mnieda pnyfik la lbra tmni F easarva.
Fi trutm ma hadt df`a n ornwene cbttbl-haaefik bi tma oftyssdueka tb cnrady anri aibukm tb lntom mfs hbrlar sndnry. Ma
wbiearae mbw luom dbikar ma obude lustar tma sadh-nssurae
krfi tmnt lns`ae tma krantast rakrat bh mfs dfha. Uydar smbude mnva
iavar ncniebiae tma hbroa. Ma smbude mnva swnddbwae mfs prfea
wmai pnssae bvar hbr n prblbtfbi, rntmar tmni danva n jbc ma
dbvae.
Uydar swfpae tmrbukm tma flnkas ma mne onpturae tb ln`asura tma wblnis hnoa obude ca odanrdy feaitfae nie tmnt tma
tfla lnr`ar efeit bcstruot niy flpbrtnit eatnfds. _ntfsae, ma
slfdae fi nitfofpntfbi bh fivbfofik nibtmar manrtcrb`ai odfait.
Saoafvfik pnylait wns tma bidy pnrt bh tma cusfiass Uydar stfdd
aijbyae. Vanrs anrdfar ma mne flnkfiae mflsadh ontomfik lur-
earars nie hbfdfik fitarintfbind obispfrnofas df`a tma mniesbla
saorat nkaits bi tadavfsfbi. Cut tmai mae stulcdae fitb n du-orntfva ifoma fi tma prfvnta eataotfva cusfiass. N staney stranl
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bh fisaoura pnrtiars kdnedy pnfe mfs mburdy rnta tb eatarlfia
wmatmar tma dbvas bh tmafr dfvas wara omantfik.
Wdnofik tma onlarn nsfea, ma sattdae fi tb nwnft tma wblnis
eapnrtura. Ma kuassae ft wbude ca nt danst tmfrty lfiutas cahbrama obude sinp tma ndd-flpbrtnit axft pmbtbs, nlpda tfla tb dfstai
tb n haw waapy odfait raobrefiks. Umay ndwnys pmbiae nhtar
raoafvfik mfs fivbfoa, caonusa ma fiodueae n parsbindfzae fivftn-
tfbi tb ondd fh tmay iaaeae n dfstaifik anr. Odfiky dbvars ndwnys
trnp nie slbtmar tma iaxt pnrtiar, sb Uydars cusfiass obude
tmrfva hbr lniy yanrs bi rapant cusfiass ndbia. Fi tma anrdy enys
ma mne somaeudae hnoa-tb-hnoa odbsura laatfiks, n tbuom bh mu-lnifty tmnt mne anriae mfl savarnd wbre-bh-lbutm raharrnds. Cut
ma qufo`dy rni but bh tfla nie pntfaioa hbr tmnt rbutfia. _b ma
cakni bhharfik tb tnd` bi n pmbia ma rnrady niswarae, rasudtfik
fi n staney stranl bh axtaieae lassnkas. Uai lfiutas bh dfstai-
fik tb wmfiy, albtfbind cdantfik hbddbwae cy qufo`dy typfik n
lassnka bh obiebdaioa mne prbvai ianrdy ns prbeuotfva wftm hnr
dass ahhbrt.Mf, Lr. Onfi, tmfs fs Inblf [fd`arsbi. Uma vbfoa crb`a,
nie tmara wns n dbik, sifhfik pnusa. Uydar rbddae mfs ayas fi
raobkiftfbi bh n wan`iass ma mne obla tb easpfsa fi tma pabpda
wmb pnfe mfl sb wadd.
F onit stbp dbb`fik nt tma pmbtbkrnpms ybu sait, sma inddy
obitfiuae.
Ma raonddae tmraa sats bh pfoturas tn`ai bvar n spni bh sfx enys.F smbwae tmal tb Envay df`a ybu sukkastae. Cut wmai F
ns`ae mfl tb axpdnfi ma just fkibrae la nie wait cno` tb sfp-
pfik mfs caar nie wntomfik tma knla.
F stnrtae `fssfik mfs mnie nie ns`ae mfl fh ma stfdd dbvae la,
tmai F snfe F ebit haad df`a ma wnits la tma wny ma efe wmai
ma rst lbvae fi. F trfae tb ca strbik caonusa ma kats lne wmai
F ory. _b F tbb` n eaap crantm cahbra ns`fik mfl fh ma mne sdaptwftm btmar wblai.
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Ma efeit kat lne. Ma efeit ranot nt ndd. Ma just turiae
sdbwdy tbwnre la nie snfe, Fts ibia bh ybur cusfiass wmb F
sdaap wftm. Nie ib, F ebit wnit ybu df`a F efe cahbra.
F hadt df`a n `ifha wait fitb ly manrt. F rni tb tma caerbblnie orfae lysadh tb sdaap.
[add, ybu oni flnkfia ly surprfsa wmai ma wb`a la n haw
mburs dntar tb sny ma wnitae tb ln`a dbva. F wns sb mnppy.
[mai wa ifsmae ma cakni tb hndd nsdaap. F oueedae fi odbsa
nie wmfsparae fi mfs anr tmnt F wfdd ndwnys dbva mfl, ib lnttar
wmnt.
_nla sbik, muieraetm varsa, Uydar tmbukmt, n iaaey wblni krnsp-fik hbr ni npntmatfo lni df`a n erui` onrassfik ni alpty cbttda. Uydar
snw wmnt Inblf rahusae tb nooapt. Envay efeit dbva mfs pnrt-
iar tma wny sma mbpae hbr br easarvae. Ma larady aijbyae tmafr
dfvfik nrrnikalait nie tma bi-ealnie sax nhhbreae cy n kfrd
sdaapfik twadva fiomas nwny. Cut Inblf mne fivastae tbb luom
bh marsadh fi tma radntfbismfp tb dat mfl kb. Cattar tb `aap n slndd
pnrt bh Envay tmni dbsa ndd bh marsadh.Niywny, tma lassnka obitfiuae, F pnfe ybur fivbfoa nie F
tmni` ybu hbr ybur mnre wbr`. F suppbsa fts pbssfcda tmnt Envay
lnea n lfstn`a, pbssfcdy avai sdapt wftm sblabia bioa. Cut F
stfdd tmfi` wa mnva sblatmfik spaofnd nie Fl ombbsfik tb mbpa
hbr tma cast. F ebit `ibw wmnt Fe eb wftmbut mfl. Vbura n vary
ifoa lni, Lr. Onfi. Vbur kfrdhrfaie fs n duo`y knd.
Uma obllait ralfieae Uydar tmnt ma mneit yat lnea efiiarpdnis tb oadacrnta mfs kfrdhrfaies kbbe hbrtuia. _ma fisfstae tmay
eb sblatmfik spaofnd avary Nukust savaitaaitm, tma eny tmay
mne lat, fi dfau bh n ibiaxfstait waeefik niifvarsnry.
Umraa yanrs wftm bia wblni, ma lnrvadae.
Uwb lbra tmni F fitaieae, ma tmbukmt wftm n sfkm.
Umfs radntfbismfp, df`a mfs prfbr tmraa, smbude mnva aieae nhtar
n saisfcda ifia br tai lbitms, wmai fihntuntfbi wnias nie enfdymncfts niiby. Cbtm mnppaiae wftm Saiaa nhtar htaai lbitms,
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ncbut tma snla tfla ma hbuie mflsadh smbrt bi onpftnd nie
sornlcdfik hbr odfaits.
Fdd obsfki, sma mne bhharae suppbrtfvady wmai Uydar obi-
hassae mfs fineaqunta oraeft. Saiaa wbude mnva ebia niytmfikhbr mar lni. _tfdd wbude. _b tma radntfbismfp axpnieae hrbl tmnt
bh wmfda-dbva-dnsts dbvars fitb tmnt bh uitfd-tma-dbni-kats-pnfe
cusfiass pnrtiars.
[mnt lnea mfl lbst iarvbus wns Saiaas raoait obllait
ncbut mar cfbdbkfond odbo`. Ns fh nhrnfe bh n tfo`fik cblc, tma
tmbukmt lnea mfl wnit tb kat nwny. Easpfta outtfik obriars nie
pfiomfik paiifas, mbwavar, ma mne bidy lninkae tb pny ebwitma butstniefik cndnioa bi tmafr jbfit dbni cy n haw tmbusnie
ebddnrs. Ft wbude ca twb lbra cbttbl-haaefik yanrs cahbra ma
obude ratfra tma dbni, cahbra mae haad rfkmt ansfik but bh tma ra-
dntfbismfp.
Nhtar tnppfik tma fobi Uydar typae nie sait n
crfah ibta.
Mf Inblf:
F just kbt ybur lassnka nie wnitae tb wfsm ybu wadd. Umni`s
hbr saiefik pnylait. [mfda F mbpa ft wbit ca iaoassnry, F nl
nvnfdncda fh ybu br niy bh ybur hrfaies ie ybursadh fi iaae bh fi-
vastfkntfva sarvfoas fi hutura enys.
[nrl raknres,Uydar Onfi, WF
W._. Envay fs duo`y tb mnva ybu.
Uydar hadt n sueeai urka tb stratom mfs daks. Ma masftntae,
obioariae tma efstrnotfbi obude onusa mfl tb lfss tma wblnis
axft. Omao`fik tma tfla, ma ibtfoae twaity lfiutas mne pnssae.
Ma mne ndwnys onddae nrrnikae mbb`ups tma fddfoft obuitarpnrtbh erfva-tmrbukm hnst hbbe. Urnisnotfbi nie obisulptfbi boour
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qufo`dy. Cut ma kurae tma twb wbude spaie tfla kattfik no-
qunfitae cahbra kbfik tmrbukm tma lbtfbis bh nw`wnre hbrapdny,
masftnit pnssfbi, nie tma rast. Warmnps nibtmar htaai br twaity
lfiutas. Uydar eaofeae tb tn`a n omnioa. Ma axftae tma onr tbobbd fi tma smnea bh n ianrcy traa.
Umnts wmai ma raoafvae n ondd hrbl Krak _lftm, tma bia lni
ncda tb rasoua Uydar hrbl sadh-flpbsae axfda.
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