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ARIOUSTIPS

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Reading body language

Doesn't matter whether she is interested in you you'll ma!e her interested

e"entually anyway#$ %ut loo! &or these signs to show you whether you're

already ma!ing rogress#$ It's also &un to loo! &or these signs as a by(

stander either in e"eryday situations or &or e)amle in a bar ( when the guy

earnestly belie"es he is being sooo smooth but the woman he is tal!ing to

isn't dislaying any o& the signs resented below you *an't hel but ha"e a

*hu*!le about it#$

+er lis# %ig smiles with uer and lower teeth showing with a rela)ed &a*e,

%iting o& the lis or showing o& the tongue li*!ing her lis or tou*hing

o& her &ront teeth,

She wets her lis some women use only a single(li li*! wetting the

uer or lower li while others run the tongue around the entire li

area,

She uts her &ingernail between her teeth,

She rotrudes her lis and thrust her breasts &orward,

+er eyes# She ga-es in your eyes with dee interest and her uils are dilated,

She raises both eyebrows e)aggeratedly &or a *oule o& se*onds this

is o&ten *ombined with a smile and some eye *onta*t,

She win!s at you while tal!ing to you or win!s at you &rom a distan*e, .hile tal!ing to you she blin!s more than usual &luttering her

eyelashes,

/yebrows raised and then lowered then a smile indi*ates interest in

you,

+er hair# She ushes her &ingers through her hair, This *an be one hand

mo"ement or more o& a stro!ing motion,

She twirls her hair around her &ingers while she is loo!ing at you,

She is throwing her hair ba*! o&& her shoulders,

+er *lothing# I& she is wearing *lothes that show her niles underneath and you

noti*e they are getting er!y and ere*t,

The hem goes u to e)ose a little more leg,

She is &i)ing atting or smoothing her out&it to ma!e hersel& loo!

better,

.hile she is seated#

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She mo"es in time to the musi* with her eyes on you,

She starts sitting straight u and her mus*les aear to be &irm,

She is sitting with her legs oen,

She sits with her legs *rossed in a manner to re"eal her thigh,

+er legs are rubbing against ea*h other,

+er legs are rubbing against the leg o& the table,

+er *rossed leg is ointed towards you or i& that same leg is ro*!ing

ba*! and &orth towards you,

+er hands# She e)oses the alms o& her hand &a*ing you,

.hile tal!ing to you she rests an elbow in the alm o& one hand while

holding out her other hand alm u,

She rubs her wrists u and down,

She sits with one hand tou*hing one o& her breasts,

She rubs her *hin or tou*hes her *hee!, This indi*ates that she's

thin!ing about you and her relating in some way#$

She is &ondling !eys sliding hands u and down a glass laying with

toys or other things on the table,

She lays with her 0ewellery ese*ially with stro!ing and ulling

motions,

She tou*hes your arm shoulder thigh or hand while tal!ing to you 1in

*ase you already ha"en't started !inoyoursel& dumbass#$,

She is retending to loo! at her wat*h as you ass her,

+er "oi*e

She raises or lowers the "olume o& her "oi*e to mat*h yours, She seeds u or slows down her sea!ing to mat*h yours,

She laughs in unison with you,

In a *rowd she sea!s only to you and &o*uses all o& her undi"ided

attention on you,

2i*ellaneous# She mirrors your body language and body ositions,

+er s!in tone be*omes red while being around you,

She blows smo!e straight out &rom between her lis and toward you,

She leans o"er and sea!s into her &riend's ear 0ust li!e in 0unior high

s*hool, She is standing with her head *o*!ed slightly at an angle one &oot

behind the other his slightly thrust &orward,

At a arty ( e"ery on*e in a while she seems to aear out o& nowhere

in your "i*inity and i& you mo"e to another sot soon she aears out

o& nowhere again you *at*h her glan*ing in your general dire*tion

1a*tually glan*ing at 3OU dummy4#$ she bums into you5

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a**identally tou*hes you5 a**identally et*#$

.hen tal!ing to a girl these are some o& the more imortant signs towat*h &or#

6an you !ee *on"ersation going with her7

Does she rea*t well to !ino7

Does she tou*h you7

Does she laugh7

8ow I don't ha"e to e)lain what the answer 9yes9 to these :uestions

means do I#$

;rom 9Swee women o&& their &eet,,,9# 9All these signs usually tell you that

the girl is *ati"ated by your *harms, %ut be&ore you get there *han*es are

that her body language *hanges as the dis*ussion rogresses, 2a!e sure

that you wat*h her *losely and as soon as you get a sign that should be an

indi*ation that you are on the right tra*! !ee going in that dire*tion, I& the

oosite haens 0ust *hange the sub0e*t and see what haens,9

The really gorgeous and beauti&ul girls howe"er "ery seldom get around to

dislaying the signs o& interest des*ribed abo"e, They simly don't ha"e to

as they are used to getting some attention already long be&ore that, .ith

su*h girls you ha"e to be on a loo!out &or the initial and thus mu*h more

subtle signs o& interest, One e)amle o& this would be a gorgeous girl simly

loo!ing at your &a*e, Ob"iously eole tend to loo! at what or whom they

li!e to loo! at, %ut whereas an a"erage girl &irst 0ust loo!s at your &a*e and

then rogresses into the more o"ert signs o& interest des*ribed abo"e

loo!ing at your &a*e &rom time to time might be the only sign o& interest

you'll e"er get &rom the most beauti&ul o& girls,So i& you thin! you're not getting any signs o& interest &rom beauti&ul girls (

you are but you 0ust *an't see them well enough yet,

Don Steele# 9+ere are signs o& interest sent &rom a*ross the room, 2ost are

ali*able to both se)es, The se:uen*e o& the list aro)imates the

*ourtshi se:uen*e,

I'2 I8T/R/ST/D

Sidelong glan*e1s$

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Smiles

2at*hes your osture

/yes sar!le

radually oens osture

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In so*ial settings most o& us start

out in a *losed de&ensi"e osture

be*ause we're a bit arehensi"e, A

*losed osture &eels sa&e, .hen the

erson you are tal!ing with shi&ts to

a more oen osture it signi&ies trust

and *om&ort, That erson is literally

oening u to you and what you ha"e

to o&&er,

It ta!es *ourage to oen u to the

other erson, I& you go &irst she or

he will usually &ollow your mo"e &rom

*losed to slightly more oen, Oen u

in slow gradual shi&ts o& osture,

A "ariation o& mirroring is dis*ussed in the arti*les dealing with eli*iting

"alues and using tran*e(words ( that is "erbal mirroring, %ut a better(!nown

"ariation o& mirroring is hysi*al mirroring, A*tually you'"e most robably

been doing it all your li&e without !nowing it but on*e you !now how to

harness the ower o& mirroring *ons*iously ( its li!e young S!ywal!er

re*ogni-ing and harnessing the ower o& the ;or*e#$,

8oti*e how eole that seem to be engaged in an interesting *on"ersation (

they are e)*ited about what they themsel"es are saying they are about to

say and what the other is saying in other words they ha"e raort ( seem tota!e the same oses whether sitting or standing u, .hen sitting either

side by side or on oosites sides o& the table ( one leans &orward and then

the other leans &orward as well one leans ba*!ward and then the other leans

ba*!ward as well they *ross their hands in the same manner tilt their heads

similarly seem to be ha"ing similar side(a*ti"ities 1one laying with his

!ey*hain the other with her en$ et* et*, Are they dire*ting their a*tions

*ons*iously7 8o all their energies and *on*entration is on the dis*ussion

e"erything else haens sub*ons*iously, %ut a*tually they don't e"en ha"e

to be ha"ing a dis*ussion they may 0ust both be thin!ing their own

thoughts5 and still you *an see mirroring going on ( they ma!e the samemo"ements almost the same time without seemingly without ha"ing any

er*ei"able intera*tion with the other erson,

.hat is all this !nowledge good &or7 .ell mirroring *an be used as a tool &or

building raort, %eing similar or ha"ing someone similar in your "i*inity

*reates a &eeling o& ease *om&ort being understood rote*ted 1should there

aear a threat o& any sort there's two o& you now#$ et*, So you *an use the

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ower o& mirroring to *reate these &eelings in the one you are mirroring

she'll sub*ons*iously lin! all those &eelings to you 1a&ter all you are the one

mirroring her#$ and raort is going to de"elo between you without you

ha"ing li&ted a &inger 1unless she li&ted a &inger and you had to mirror her#$,

+ow whom and &rom where should I mirror7 .hom ( that's easy the girl you

want o& *ourse#$ +ow ( assuming the same osture doing the same

mo"ements with your hands in all rese*ts using your body in a similar

&ashion to hers, 2ore ase*ts o& mirroring are#

;ollowing ( doing the mo"ements a&ter she did them, 8ote that

although your mind s*reams 9This is stuid4 I'm going to get *aught4

She 2UST see me doing the same mo"ements4 This is ridi*ulous4?

don't' listen to it &ight it it is the "oi*e o& the Dar! Side4#$ .hy7

%e*ause they 8/V/R 8OTI6/ it4 Instead they &eel more *om&ortable

and rela)ed in *onne*tion with you and e"entually 1that's why you

e"en bothered right7#$ ( more drawn to you,

Pa*ing ( doing the mo"ements the same time with her, 3es, Sounds

imossible7 .ell it isn't, +a"e you e"er noti*ed how you sometimes

haened to do the same things at e)a*tly the same time with another

erson7 2aybe yawn and then ha"e a laugh about it#$7 %e*ause you

thought it was a**idental7 .ell it wasn't you had rea*hed the se*ond

stage o& mirroring#$ 13awning is not a good e)amle though@ the last

thing you want is the girl yawning with you#$, %ut there's nothing

magi*al or suernatural about doing the mo"ements at the same time

be*ause essentially the se*ond hase is a stage o& transition between

the &irst and the third, In mirroring there's always a leader and a&ollower, So &ar she has been leading you 1be*ause you'"e been

&ollowing her$ but now you are *oming to the stage when 3OU will be

leading her4 And the ine"itable stage between &ollowing and leading is

a*ing ( you are doing mo"ements simultaneously,

leading ( i& you'"e done your mirroring right ha"e &ollowed and a*ed

then you are ready &or a re"elation, 3ou *an lead4 Try it, 6ough, She

*oughs, S*rat*h your elbow, .ell maybe she'll s*rat*h her shoulder

instead o& her elbow big deal#$ In addition to being a tool o& building

raort you *an lead her into doing some retty &un stu&&, Do a

mo"ement with your hands mimi*!ing the arting o& legs 1this shouldbe asso*iated with something you are tal!ing about i& it loo!s strange

she'll noti*e it and you don't want her *ons*ious attention on your

mo"ements !ee her mind busy with what you're tal!ing about$, .at*h

her legs art#$ +a"e &un#$

Another more ad"an*ed ase*t although *ontro"ersial as to the

e&&e*ti"eness o& it is mirroring her blin!ing her eyes and breathing, %eing

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able to mirror her breathing and blin!ing her eyes is suosed to *reate an

e"en deeer raort but &irst o& all ( trying to see when she breathes might

seem li!e you staring at her breasts 1and you would 8/V/R do that would

you7#$@ and se*ondly ( all the *on*entration re:uired to dete*t and mat*h

your breathing and blin!ing with hers will ta!e away mu*h(needed attention

&rom what she is saying how is she resonding to your atterns "alues !ino

et* so e"entually this *ould do more harm than good,

As to &rom where to mirror ( the most *ommon situation is when you're

tal!ing to her, %ut you *an also try mirroring &rom a distan*e say in a

*lassroom meeting night(*lub or *a&eteria 0ust ma!e sure she has a *han*e

to sub*ons*iously dete*t you mirroring her in other words she must be able

to see you 1so you *an &orget about mirroring her while wat*hing her ta!e a

shower through a ee(hole#$,

A te*hni:ue o& *reating instant raort by 9&a!ing9 body(language, Tom AS;#

9I 0ust &inished another boo! about body language and they mention se"eral

times that when someone is interested in a dis*ussion they tilt their head

slightly, I thought that now that I !new when someone was interested

maybe I *ould do the same to 9simulate9 my dee interest in what they say,

And,,, it wor!s4 .hen someone's li!e 9and you !now my dog 0ust got a new

*ollar and it &its wonde&ully with the li"ing room &urniture@ the shade o& green

is 0ust the same as the !id's bedroom *aret and that's great be*ause,,,9 (

usually you would be using a &ew words they said 1dog *ollar et*$ and using

the same ad0e*ti"es 1wonder&ul great et*$ and as! something ma!ing them

*ontinue, %ut when you tilt your head slightly and do the same thing it's

ob"ious the ima*t is mu*h stronger,92a)im 1htt#ma)immag,*om$#

BI lo"e it when a guy sort o& mirrors my hysi*al beha"ior li!e when ICm

sitting a*ross &rom him and I lean in to say something I li!e him to lean in, I&

ICm tal!ing really &ast and he *an !ee u with me it ma!es me &eel li!e

weCre in the same la*e, I& ICm being a little &reneti* and heCs slow and

rela)ed and laid(ba*! I &eel really &ar away,

6arlie EF Salt

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=inestheti*s 1a!a !ino$ ( ha"e !ino with your &emale&riendsa*:uaintan*es

Psy*hologi*al studies show that *asual tou*hing during a &riendly

*on"ersation *auses eole to remember the *on"ersation more &ondly a&ter

the &a*t,

The *ombination o& !inowith so*ial roo&is dynamite, Tou*h one girl and

the other girls seeing this thin! its normal or e"en 9good9 to be tou*hy(&eely

with you#$, 8ow you *an :uite naturally mo"e on to tou*hing those other

girls and so &orth#$,

AS;# 9It's :uite simle ( hug them tou*h their hand soradi*ally and in A

8O8 T+R/AT/8I8> .A3 that is not li!e the deserate er"ert we all are#$

So the idea is you hide *omletely the interest you might ha"e A8D at the

same time you a*t really tou*hyhuggish, The roblem is ( you ha"e to start

this early in the 9&riend9 relationshi it has to seem natural or otherwise

she'll wonder 9what the &u*! is he doing lately79#$ On*e you'"e de"eloed

that !ind o& &lirtatious &riendshi it's easy to sawn other su*h '&riendshis'

with other women# they will see you being *lose to another woman and I

thin! the !ey here is that it robably does not trigger as mu*h 0ealousy as it

ma!es them 1the 9new9 ones$ &eel *om&ortable (( they see another woman

being tou*hed by you in a non(threatening way and blam so*ial(roo& it

be*omes a 'roo&' to them that it's normal &or you to tou*h them in turn,,, 9

AS;# 9O! I use this all the time now, TOU6+ +/R444 It doesn't matter i& you

0ust met her, +old her hand rub her arm her elbow her ba*! her shouldersher hair her &a*e, TOU6+ +/R 4449

AS;#

G, PA3 ATT/8TIO8 TO +O. S+/ R/SPO8DS TO 3OU444

H, PA3 ATT/8TIO8 TO +O. S+/ R/SPO8DS TO 3OU444

E, One more time# PA3 ATT/8TIO8 TO +O. S+/ R/SPO8DS TO 3OU 444 I&

you do this you will be able to better gauge i& you ha"e the aroriate

raort to in"ite a !iss, I& her body seems to resond to the non(se)ual

tou*hing then get gradually more se)ual, ;or women some areas o& the body

outside o& the rimary erogenous -ones are intimate# Palms inside the

elbow ear lobes *hee!s the his were the waist meets the his betweenthe &ingers,,,,

,

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you'll get 9inno*ent9 yet leasurable !ino#$

=inoas soon as you meet a girl,2eeting someone &or the &irst time is ane)*ellent *han*e &or starting !ino( sha!ing hands when e)*hanging names

is a tradition o& many *ultures and *ultures, %ut ma!e sure you hold on to

her hand longer than e)e*ted long enough &or you to en0oy it and her to

noti*e i& not you en0oying it but at least you not letting go as :ui*!ly as

eole usually do,

.hen meeting girls you already !now sha!ing hands might seem strange

so gi"ing some sort o& a hug is the way to go, 3ou don't need to &all all o"er

her to gi"e her a hug 1whi*h deending on the situation might e"en ma!e

you loo! li!e a &ool or a er"ert or ma!e her embarrassed instead o& ha"ing

her en0oy it too#$ a hug *an also be utting your arm around her waist or

shoulders when standing to her le&t or right and ulling her *loser &or a

moment or ta!ing her hand &or a moment 1but not sha!ing it$ or her elbow

or arm et*, Daniel AS;# 9=I8Oon the armhand as soon as you say hi to

show her you are a se)ual being,9

Set the mood o& the date &rom the start,.hen going on a dateget(together establish the mood immediately, 3ou *an o& *ourse *hange the

mood &rom 9olite and *alm9 to 9warm and &riendly9 to 9aroused and sweaty9

during the *ourse o& the meeting but why go the hard way i& you *an 0um

right into 9warm and &riendly9 or beyond in the &irst la*e, It is best to ha"e

a*ting enthusiasti* uon meeting the girl to ha"e agreed uon re"iously

1most robably when you set u a meeting on the hone see Re&ining the

*losein 6losing &or more in&ormation$, %ut e"en without that you *an be all

smiles when you meet her gi"e her a big hug right away try to ta!e andhold her hand all the way to wheree"er it is that you'll be going and wat*h

her *hange &rom slightly ner"ous to hay smiling starry(eyed and glowing

all o"er#$ And remember ( enthusiasm is *ontageous#$

;oot(&lirting,3ou'"e all seen it done in the mo"ies#$ The &oot looses theshoe and the woman is stro!ing the man with her bare &oot or "i*e "ersa,

6orny you say#$7 A *li*he maybe#$7 Try it and then see what you thin!#$ am

AS;# 9Jin resonse to 9you *an't !inositting a*ross the table9K A*tually you

L*anL !inowhen you are sitting a*ross &rom the target, Must use your &eet4

O& *ourse this re:uires a small table but this also hels to set u an

intimate atmoshere 1remember *andles et*,$, Tou*h her &eet 9o**asionally9with your own under the table say something li!e 9tee hee you are &oot(

&lirtin' with me79 in a 0o!ing way,

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96an't hear you#$9,aeden AS;# 9Try this# I& she says something lean&orward as i& you aren't hearing her "ery well and tou*h her 1arm or ba*!$,

Then lean ba*! again and answer, Are there any easy *lues as to when is

the right time to go !ino7 The *lue is when it's ossible 1ie she's within in

range$9,

=inois the di&&eren*e between getting and not getting the girl,It is thesa"ing gra*e o& e"en the otherwise doomed 9ni*e guy9 aroa*h, And in

some instan*es being the 9ni*e guy9 together with using !ino*an e"en be

:uite e&&e*ti"e, +ere's why# the su**ess o& !inodeends on whether the girl

er*ei"es you and your tou*h as a threat to her or not, 3ou *an be a rough

and tough guy 1I try to a"oid the word 90er!9 as it is not really :uite

rersesentati"e o& what the oosite o& 9ni*e guy9 a*tually is$ and still ha"e

the girl &eel you are not a threat to her se&i*i*ally thus initiating !inowill

be easy, A ni*e guy usually 0ust has an easier time ha"ing girls &eel he is not

a threat to them, Usually though that is also his undoing as he is

*onse:uently er*ei"ed as wea! neutral and non(se)ual all o& whi*h are

ma0or turn(o&&s &or girls, %ut here is where the sa"ing gra*e o& !inostes in,

3ou are sa&e so tou*hing and hugging with you is,,, well also sa&e,

+owe"er be&ore she !nows it ( tou*hing and hugging with you mo"es &rom

&eeling retty good to :uite e)*iting to really ele*tri&ying until all that good

sa&e and &riendly hysi*al *onta*t with you is going to ma!e her wonder# 9I&

it &eels so good 0ust to tou*h with him why on earth not do more7 I wonder

what that would be li!e79, .hi*h is not to say that being the 9ni*e guy9 is

the way to go, This was simly meant to illustrate the strength o&

!inestheti*s ( it e"en wor!s &or the 9ni*e guy9#$ So remember ( !inoreally isthe di&&eren*e between getting and not getting the girl,

The rote*ti"e gesture, 2a)im 1htt#ma)immag,*om$# BIn a *rowded bari& eole are wal!ing by and ushing you thereCs a way a guy *an ut his

arm around younot a*tually tou*hing you but behind your ba*! so heCs

sort o& !eeing you &rom getting sho"ed, A man doesnCt need to i*! a &ight

with some guy who a**identally stes on my toes but itCs ni*e i& heCs

rote*ti"e, =ris HN

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.here to meet girls

1Ta!en &rom 9Swee women o&& their &eet,,,9#$

Shoing 2alls,Try to remember the last time you went to a mall, 6an youossibly loo! in a dire*tion and not sot a beauti&ul girl that you would li!e

to sedu*e7 I'd "enture a guess and say no,

The malls are always &ull o& girls, >irls who wor! at "arious stores and

shos within the mall but also a lot o& girls who go shoing or 0ust hang

out, >irls lo"e shoing, Though it is harder to sedu*e a girl i& she is

surrounded by her &riends it is not always the *ase,

.al! u and down the halls and loo! inside stores &or beauti&ul *ler!s or

shoers, I& it is a women's *lothing store or something &eminine e"en

better, 3ou *an easily wal! u to a girl 1*ler! or shoer$ and as! her#

9/)*use me, .ould you be so !ind to hold this u in &ront o& you &or a

moment7 It's my sister's birthday ne)t wee! and you are about the same

si-e as her and &rom what I *an tell you ha"e the same e)*ellent &ashion

sense,9

%etter yet a&ter the initial aroa*h you *an e"en as! her i& she sees

anything else that she really li!es in the store that your sister might li!e too

be*ause o& the similar tastes in &ashion, Probe &or !eywords why she li!es

*ertain things o"er the others et*,

On*e you ha"e su&&i*ient in&ormation o& not only what she li!es but also why

she li!es it you *an start your *harm, /)and the *on"ersation to li!es and

disli!es in other areas o& her li&e to get her "iew on things and so on, I& she'sa shoer you might want to a*t "ery :ui*!ly to &inding ways &or you to

*ontinue your *on"ersation somewhere else but i& she wor!s there she

won't mind sending the time with you ese*ially i& it's not "ery busy,

ibraries,I& there is one la*e that girls almost always outnumber guys ithas to be the library, .hether it's a ubli* library or a *ollegeuni"ersity

library you will always &ind young girls trying to do resear*h &or a ro0e*t or

homewor!,

These girls are usually "ery intelligent and dedi*ated to their wor! but the

lain truth is the &a*t that e"erybody *an use a brea! on*e in a while, I& you

ro"ide a bit o& a leasant distra*tion they'll be more than hay to tal! toyou, 3ou *ould be as!ing them &or some hel to lo*ate a se*i&i* se*tion or

se*ialty boo!, /"en i& they *an't hel you out they will at least ha"e to tell

you that they don't !now where you *an &ind your boo!, %ut guess what7

That is a *on"ersation ta!ing la*e right there, As! them about their own

wor! interests et*, Show interest and let them tal! about it &or a while,

These girls li!e to show o&& their !nowledge so they'll tell you more than you

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need to !now about the sub0e*t, %ut i& you de"elo good raort at this

stage you *an easily *ontinue this &as*inating *on"ersation elsewhere, >et

my dri&t7 3ou *an start as!ing why they're interested in this arti*ular

sub0e*t what's the most &as*inating thing about it what are the *hallenges

and so on, On*e you mo"e to answering this tye o& :uestions then you will

be able to get an insight as to what tye o& girl she is what she holds dear

and so on,

ourmet 6o&&ee Shos,%e&ore wor! at lun*h and a&ter wor! these la*esare a*!ed with girls, Sometimes the more a*!ed the la*e the better

be*ause you may ha"e to share a table with 9someone9, I& it's not "ery busy

you *an still as! to sit ne)t to a beauti&ul girl, Must tell her that you don't

li!e to sit alone and i& she'd mind you sitting with her till you're done with

your drin!,

I& you're sitting together might as well tal! about something, And remember

this is a gourmet *o&&ee sho, These girls don't *ome here &or the *o&&ee

they *ome here &or the se*ialty *o&&ee and they *ome &or the &rills and

sometimes e"en the restige asso*iated with a arti*ular se*ialty *o&&ee

sho,

So what do you tal! about7

+er &a"orite drin! and why she li!es it o"er regular *o&&ee how does it ma!e

her &eel and so on, Try and tal! in detail about the di&&erent sensations and

aromas, .omen lo"e des*riti"e tal! in detail ese*ially i& it in"ol"es

something that *an e"en be *omared to a se)ual sensation,

The whied *ream the *herry on to how the blend o& the *o&&ee with the

di&&erent li:ueurs reminds you o& a hot and steamy

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initially ultimately you will ne"er learn the s!ills that really ma!e the

di&&eren*eK

Is this too low &or you7 Is it beneath you7 +ell no, .hether it's newsaer

ersonals telehone ersonals "ideo ersonals or Internet ersonals and

*hat rooms they o&&er you e)*ellent oortunities to meet a lot o& women to

ra*ti*e your s!ills,

.ith the e)*etion o& "ideo ersonals the drawba*! is the &a*t that you

don't really !now what the erson loo!s li!e, %ut that's not a roblem, It

shouldn't be your goal to meet someone to sedu*e right away, This is

nothing but an a"enue &or you to get ra*ti*e and e)erien*e tal!ing to

women, %ut i& things *li*! &or you why not go &or it anyway7 I& she turns out

to be butt ugly 0ust tell her that as shallow as this seems without the

hysi*al attra*tion things aren't going to go anywhere between you two and

mo"e on,

8ow when la*ing these ersonals you *an attra*t a whole lot o& women

with some *at*hy headline and be bothered with a lot o& relies that get you

nowhere wasting your time, Or you *an be "ery se*i&i* and dis*riminating

about who you are what you loo! li!e and what you're loo!ing &or, ;eel &ree

to in*lude any *hara*teristi*s they may &ind unaealing, This will eliminate

a lot o& women who might otherwise rely but the ones who do rely are

more li!ely to end u somewhere be*ause they already !now what to

e)e*t &rom you and are willing to a**et it,

%etter yet read a lot o& the women's ersonals and try to model yours a&ter

them,

As an added dirty tri*! you *an la*e a ersonal as a woman see!ing a manto get a lot o& good ideas &rom other men who rely to it, 2ost o& them will

be really bad but on*e in a while there will be one that will *at*h your eye

and *uriosity, .hen you rely to a woman's ersonal ad try out these other

ideas to see i& they wor!, I& they wor! you learned something new, I& they

don't wor! mo"e on,

An e)amleo& a ersonals ad, AS;#9Isn't attra*tion in*redible7 Imagine rela)ing into strong arms holding you

&eeling sa&e and are*iated and intimate !nowing you're e)a*tly where

you belong,,, I'm edu*ated su**ess&ul emotionally mature and I !now what

I want, 2y wor! !ees me busy but I ma!e time &or tra"el dining out musi*1"ery di"erse tastes$ and anything new and interesting, I'm tall in great

shae with green eyes and dar! wa"y hair 1i*ture a"ailable$,

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Restaurants with atta*hed bars#These la*es are o&ten great Tuesday toThursday nights around ( #EF P2, /se*ially us*ale la*es they *ater

to a ro&essional *rowd, Some V/R3 ni*e loo!ing women loo!ing to unwind

a&ter wor!, Also o&ten these la*es ser"e as a meeting ground &or women

ha"ing ba*heleorette arties,

6o&&ee houses#li!e Starbu*!s 6o&&ee %ean Tea reat &rom (GF#EF A2 e"ery day o& the wee!, A&ter Q A2 you are more li!ely to get

women who wor! in retail outside sales li!e harma*euti*al res sel&(

emloyed students et*,

Suermar!ets#2 ( ; noon to around G#EF P2 as women on their lun*h hourso into buy things, 2onday to Thursday ( #EF P2 Saturdays GF A2 to

noon same &or Sundays,

Shoing malls#This is a no brainer, I& they ha"e a good &ood *ourt and arenear o&&i*es then noon til G#EF P2 2 ( ;, +it the &ood *ourts and &orget most

o& the rest o& the stores, Other good times# Tues ( Thurs #EF ( P2 and Sat

a&ternoons,

Sel&(imro"ement seminars#Su*h seminars are >/STI%

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See also#

8ight(*lubs "s other la*es to meet girls

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Demonstrate "alue and ersonality

3ou ha"e nothing absolutely nothing to e)e*t &rom a girl to whom you do

not demonstrate "alue and ersonality, %e it being 2r Smoothor ma!ing her

horny with >2or leading her imagination with atterning or simly being

you in a great mood *on&ident and witty whi*h she &inds attra*ti"e ( you

ha"e to demonstrate her something about you that she dis*o"ers to be o&

"alue &or her, And she will dis*o"er it being o& "alue &or her &or the simle

reason o& li!ing the way that "alue ma!es her &eel,

So many guys thin! that their mere resen*e and *omany is o& some

se*i&i* "alue to the girl ( well it is not, I& you sort a great &a*e andor big

mus*les then your resen*e *an sometimes be a turn(on &or a girl ( she

li!es the way the ro)imity o& your &a*e and mus*les ma!e her &eel and thus

your resen*e *an be o& searate "alue &or her, %ut e"en the &ew times that

haens it will wear o&& &ast i& it turns out that that is all you ha"e to o&&er,

Any time the girl is bored disinterested turns you down wal!s away

re0e*ts you or ignores you ( you ha"e simly not demonstrated enough "alue

to her, Demonstrating the right !ind o& "alue and ersonality the !ind that

she is ese*ially loo!ing &or in a artner is not an issue at this oint you'll

get to that when /li*iting "alues, Right now you simly need to get her

attention by ta!ing an edu*ated guess at what she might be interested in (

see >ood traits to ha"e and de"elo, Demonstrating any !ind o& "alue and

ersonality &rom that list o& traits will do er&e*tly &ine &or starters and is

in&initely better than the 9+ere I am this is the way I loo! 1and I'm sorry I'mnot better(loo!ing$ now lease li!e me9 attitude used by most guys 1who

are also 9trying9 to be &unny and *on&ident et* but e"entually their A;6'ness

will ine"itably shine through#$, .hi*h will lea"e them s*rat*hing their heads

while the girl wal!s away and thin!ing 9oh better lu*! ne)t time I'm sure

someone somewhere will li!e me,,, I hoe9,

In &a*t you are li!e a tra"elling salesman gi"ing girls only a &oretaste o& the

goods and o&&ering them an oortunity to get the real stu&&,,, 9i& they

beha"e well enough9#$ See the di&&eren*e with A;6thin!ing7 .hi*h seems

to *onsider that the girls are the 9goods9 whi*h you might e"entually get i&

you date ay &or dinnersmo"ies and ta!e their disrese*t long enough7 8o3OU are the goods but you're not selling to e"eryone ( you o&&er only to a

sele*t grou o& otential *ustomers, %ut you don't need to ush it the stu&&

is &or real and you !now it and i& one *ustomer doesn't want it its her loss

another one will grab you gladly#$

Must don't &orget ( nobody will want your goods i& they don't e"en !now

anything about it, So samle it ( by demonstrating "alue and ersonality,

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Tal!ing to her e*hoing her

>irls want to be understood, In order &or her to &eel understood you need to

listen to what she says rehrase it and &eed it ba*! to her 1it hels i& you

agree with whate"er statement she made#$,

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Demonstrate "alue and ersonality

3ou ha"e nothing absolutely nothing to e)e*t &rom a girl to whom you do

not demonstrate "alue and ersonality, %e it being 2r Smoothor ma!ing her

horny with >2or leading her imagination with atterning or simly being

you in a great mood *on&ident and witty whi*h she &inds attra*ti"e ( you

ha"e to demonstrate her something about you that she dis*o"ers to be o&

"alue &or her, And she will dis*o"er it being o& "alue &or her &or the simle

reason o& li!ing the way that "alue ma!es her &eel,

So many guys thin! that their mere resen*e and *omany is o& some

se*i&i* "alue to the girl ( well it is not, I& you sort a great &a*e andor big

mus*les then your resen*e *an sometimes be a turn(on &or a girl ( she

li!es the way the ro)imity o& your &a*e and mus*les ma!e her &eel and thus

your resen*e *an be o& searate "alue &or her, %ut e"en the &ew times that

haens it will wear o&& &ast i& it turns out that that is all you ha"e to o&&er,

Any time the girl is bored disinterested turns you down wal!s away

re0e*ts you or ignores you ( you ha"e simly not demonstrated enough "alue

to her, Demonstrating the right !ind o& "alue and ersonality the !ind that

she is ese*ially loo!ing &or in a artner is not an issue at this oint you'll

get to that when /li*iting "alues, Right now you simly need to get her

attention by ta!ing an edu*ated guess at what she might be interested in (

see >ood traits to ha"e and de"elo, Demonstrating any !ind o& "alue and

ersonality &rom that list o& traits will do er&e*tly &ine &or starters and is

in&initely better than the 9+ere I am this is the way I loo! 1and I'm sorry I'mnot better(loo!ing$ now lease li!e me9 attitude used by most guys 1who

are also 9trying9 to be &unny and *on&ident et* but e"entually their A;6'ness

will ine"itably shine through#$, .hi*h will lea"e them s*rat*hing their heads

while the girl wal!s away and thin!ing 9oh better lu*! ne)t time I'm sure

someone somewhere will li!e me,,, I hoe9,

In &a*t you are li!e a tra"elling salesman gi"ing girls only a &oretaste o& the

goods and o&&ering them an oortunity to get the real stu&&,,, 9i& they

beha"e well enough9#$ See the di&&eren*e with A;6thin!ing7 .hi*h seems

to *onsider that the girls are the 9goods9 whi*h you might e"entually get i&

you date ay &or dinnersmo"ies and ta!e their disrese*t long enough7 8o3OU are the goods but you're not selling to e"eryone ( you o&&er only to a

sele*t grou o& otential *ustomers, %ut you don't need to ush it the stu&&

is &or real and you !now it and i& one *ustomer doesn't want it its her loss

another one will grab you gladly#$

Must don't &orget ( nobody will want your goods i& they don't e"en !now

anything about it, So samle it ( by demonstrating "alue and ersonality,

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Pa*e and lead

An e)amle o& "erbal a*ing and demonstrating understanding to in*rease

raort 1see 92irroring9 &or an e)lanation and e)amles o& hysi*al

a*ing$, Seed Sedu*tion newsletter Ross Me&&ries#

9V/R%A SITUATIO8 ( I *annot emhasi-e enough

the ower o& this V/R3 imortant rule, %asi*ally what it means is to

"erbally des*ribe and there&ore A6=8O./ the situation and reality

that she &inds hersel& in with you,

An e)amle#

to sto you we'd ne"er get a *han*e to tal! 1also *omletely

true,,, a truism with whi*h she *annot argue$ and maybe see how mu*h ./

6OU

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;rom here what I will do is say 9

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%uying her a drin!

I'll ma!e it short# don't buy her a drin!, Don't o&&er to buy her a drin! neither

agree to her demands 19I'm thirsty,,9 9.ill you buy me a drin!79 et*$, +ere's

why ( i& you do you suli*ate, And women ha"e nothing but s*orn and

disrese*t &or suli*ating men,

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e)amle#

+er#9.ill you buy me drin!793ou#98o, %ut you *an buy me a drin!#$9+er 1thin!ing 9Argh5 >mh5 +e didn't suli*ate4 6ould this be5 a realman47 .hat's this I'm getting wet479$# 9Am5 um5 3es49

I& howe"er she seems to be *ruising &ishing &or drin!s and doesn't seem to

*are the least bit about you telling her 98o9 would mean she'd 0ust mo"e on

without listening to you any &urther and getting her drin! &rom some *hum

e"entually anyway, So you need to sto her *old in her tra*!s#$ +ere's an

e)amle &rom AS;#

+er#9.ill you buy me a drin!793ou#9>i"e me a ;ren*h !iss,98OT/ that the tongue lay must be an e)li*it art o& the bargain u &ront,

8one o& this e*! on the lis %Uo

>2and 2r, Smoothon her right away4

93ou aren't utight are you7 Don't you go out to ha"e &un7 .e're ha"ing

&un4#$9

93ou li!e *ool guys don't you7 #$9

9It's not hot se) or anything,,,0ust a little !iss4#$9

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Pa*ing the ongoing reality

A good tool to use &or instant raort ese*ially when aroa*hing 1as you

need to o"er*ome her ossible *autiousness about you and do it &ast$ is

a*ing the ongoing reality, .hat this means is des*ribing both the "ery

re*ent 1&or e)amle her ha"ing been idle and you ha"ing aroa*hed her$

ongoing 1you tal!ing to her and her being leasantly surrised$ and near

&uture e"ents 1her &eeling good about getting to !now a handsome stranger

li!e you$ in a leasant humorous and belie"eable manner, +ere's a modi&ied

e)amle originated by 6li&&ord in 6li&&ord's Sedu*tin newsletter, It starts out

with some basi* aroa*hing elements 1ardoning *omlimenting her

o&&ering your name$ whi*h are sometimes &rowned uon by more

e)erien*ed PUA(s 1see 96omlimenting her9 98eghits9 and 9Should I o&&er

my name79 &or more in&ormation on why$ but the ensuing a*ing o& ongoing

reality *reates an o"erall leasant atmoshere o& honesty simli*ity and

sin*erity whi*h is o&ten almost imossible to resist#$ The modi&ied e)amle

a*ing by 6li&&ord 6li&&ord's Sedu*tion newsletter#

9/)*use me I don't mean to interrut you Jdrin!ing *o&&ee reading the

newsaer waiting &or the *ommuter your train o& thoughtK but I 0ust

wanted to tell you that I &ind you "ery attra*ti"e and wanted to meet you, 2y

name is Ri*! what's yours79 J+ere *omes the a*ingK 93ou !now you ne"er

!now when something wonder&ul is about to haen li!e you *ould &ind

yoursel& Jin the *a&e in the waiting(hall sitting on the ben*h wheree"erK

0ust thin!ing about Jeating another donut what time the *ommuter arri"es whate"er she's doing or e)e*ting to haenK and the ne)t thing you !now

an attra*ti"e stranger is tal!ing to you and as you listen to him you may

noti*e that e"en though Jyou'"e ne"er seen him be&ore you'"e seen him

be&ore at this bus(sto you'"e met him be&ore here in this libraryK somehow

today be*ause he is tal!ing to you you may see him in a new and di&&erent

way, 6an you imagine that79

8ow what you did here is you told her something that she in"ariably had to

agree with ( yes she was where you said she was doing what you told her

she was doing thin!ing in the lines o& what you hinted she was yes yes

and yes, And all o& these things were :uite simle &or you to say ( all you hadto do was to des*ribe the s*enery#$ %ut in her mind it doesn't matter ( she

&inds hersel& agreeing to what you're saying o"er and o"er again, And its not

some unimortant who(*ares and so(what stu&& li!e 9the sun is shining,,, and

the buildings are tall,,, and eole are wal!ing by9 either its a*tually

something :uite imortant as it is about what LsheL was doing and what

LsheL was thin!ing about, So while she is listening to you and she &inds

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hersel& agreeing with you on some &airly imortant matters the agreean*e

she has in her mind *reates a &eeling o& enthusiasm and being *lose to you

and in e&&e*t ( instant raort,

+a"ing had to agree with so many things the &ew things that she robably

wouldn't agree with on their own seem also mu*h more a**etable as a

*onse:uen*e, So maybe she wasn't leasantly surrised when you

aroa*hed her or maybe she wouldn't des*ribe you as arti*ularly

handsome ( but now that you'"e showered her with so many truisms to begin

with the ones that wouldn't ring so true by themsel"es seem mu*h more

true amongst all the other truisms, Thus &or e)amle you telling her she was

leasantly surrised when she thought she wasn't will ha"e her re(e"aluate

the nature o& her surrise as a *onse:uen*e o& all the other truisms that

surround it, Don't o"erload her mind with things that she robably wouldn't

agree with though ( !ee a &ine balan*e ush things in your a*ing 0ust a bit

abo"e the a*tual and towards the more ositi"e &or i& you go o"erboard she

will sto agreeing with you,,, and bye(bye instant raort,

6li&&ord *ontinues# 98ow listen &or her resonse ( one thing that may haen

here and whi*h has haened to me many times is that she may be one o&

those women who starts tal!ing a lot and you won't be able to get mu*h o&

what you are thin!ing o& saying out, This is a great sign, Usually I 0ust smile

!nowingly and let them tal! their little hearts out, As soon as the toi* o&

se) *omes u you !now you'"e got her, Must lay ba*! be &riendly don't say

too mu*h and she will tal! hersel& right into your bed, 3ou may need to

in"ite her &or a *o&&ee or a drin! at the right time 1I ha"e &ound a lot o& the

tal!ers will e)tend an in"itation to you themsel"es and you 0ust ha"e towat*h &or it$,9

/"en during the remote ossibility that she doesn't dislay immediate

interest you still ha"e lenty o& otions to e"o!e it ( eli*iting "alues

*on"ersing on general atterning themes or e"en outright atterning

dislaying the general attra*ti"e traits o& humour and *on&iden*e lus

anything you *ame to !now she wants in a man "ia eli*iting "alues et* et*,

+owe"er e"en i& you need a &ollow(u te*hni:ue to *ontinue with than!s to

your initial a*ing o& the ongoing reality you're well on your way to getting

her to li!e you, And &rom there on to,,, well whate"er your

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Should I as! &or her name7

;orget it, It might seem li!e an inno*ent and easy way o& 9getting to !now

ea*h other9 ( 92y name's 5 what's yours79, %ut as e"eryone and their mom

is doing that it is 0ust lain lame, I& she's not interested in you she'll &orget

your name in an instant, And i& she is belie"e me she's gonna as! &or it#$

And this way it e"en be*omes a little test o& 9am(I(getting(anywhere(with(

this(girl79#$ I& during the *on"ersation she suddenly dis*o"ers to her

ama-ement that 9goosh I don't e"en !now this guy's name749 and as!s &or

it5 you're well on your way#$

As!ing &or her name is roagated by some on the reten*e that this way

you'll get to be 9&ormally introdu*ed9, And what is that suosed to mean7

8ow that she !nows your name she'll be burning hot &or you7 +ardly,

Rather you get to be &ormally *ategorised as a *hum or maybe a 9&riend9 i&

you're lu*!y 1belie"e me you're not i& that is what haens#$

One more argument against as!ing &or names ( you as! &or her name and

then oh goosh you &orget it4 She e)e*ts you to !now it but you don't, And

9.hat's you're name again79 is not e"en a neg( where's the *omliment in

that7 3ou *ould o& *ourse go 9.ell I !now you had a "ery beauti&ul name5

but what was it e)a*tly79 ( use this one to negher i& you as!ed &or her name

and &orgot it, %ut better 0ust &orget trying to 0uggle with names and let her

as! yours &irst, And see i& she remembers#$

In *on*lusion ( names are &ine as long as she initiates the e)*hange, Until

then ( remain a man o& mystery#$

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The :uestions game

I bet you always ha"e a lot o& 9interesting9 :uestions you'd li!e to as! a lady

when you &irst meet her,

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/li*iting "alues ( the :uestions

+ere's a samle list o& :uestions to use to eli*it her "alues and tran*e

words, 836 AS;#

.hat she wants7

.hat she li!es7

.hat she thin!s she needs7

.hat she thin!s she deser"es7

.hat she had in the ast that she wants to reeat7

.hat she had in the ast that she wants to a"oid7

.hat s*ares her7

.hat ma!es her hay7

.hat ma!es her &eel se)y7

As! the right :uestions don't try to ush her towards some se*i&i* state

1li!e e)*itement &or e)amle$ it might mean nothing to her, AS;# 9Realise

that 9do you "alue e)*itement in your li&e79 is a useless :uestion *omared

to 9what do you "alue79

+ere are some additional :uestions you *an as! that might be a little less

"alue(eli*iting oriented but hel&ul ne"ertheless, They'll hel you to get to

!now to her and should also ut her in an altered state by ma!ing her dig u

answers &or these &rom dee within her *ons*iousness and sub*ons*ious,

9.hat are the *hallenges in her line o& wor! what are the easy arts

what she li!es what she doesn't li!e about her 0ob79

9.hat is the most unusual thing you'"e done when laying 9truth ordare979 +oe&ully she *omes u with some se)ual stu&$

9+ow do your &riends des*ribe you79 Use this both &or "alue(eli*iting

and as re in&o &or alm(reading a&ter whi*h you *an say 9

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a"oid any ossible romanti* memories#$

9In what eriod o& your li&e where you most oular79 +a"e her

remember the 9good times9#$

9Do you remember the &irst time you &ell seriously *omletely and

hellessly in lo"e#$ +ow did it haen79

9The haiest moment o& your li&e79

9.hat role would you li!e to lay in some mo"ie79

9A*hie"ing what goals in your li&e ha"e brought you the most 0oy79

9+ow well do you !now yoursel&79

I& the answer to some :uestion is not to your li!ing 19what s*ares you79

9mi*e9$ elaborate on what you meant with your :uestions, And i& there's

anything you don't understand in her answer *omletely se*i&y and as!

additional :uestions, Don't T+I8= you understand be SUR/ you understand

be*ause that is the only way o

G$ ma!ing her &eel *omletely understood by you

H$ and *omletely understanding her ( whi*h is what you need in order to

!now how to ma!e her &eel the way she wants to &eel with that se*ial man

o& hers#$

Don't &orget though that you ha"e to be able to introdu*e these :uestions

as a natural *omonent and *ontinuation o& your *on"ersation with the girl,

Simly as!ing them out o& the blue will ma!e it sound li!e you're

interrogating her or that you'"e reared and rehearsed them be&orehand

1insin*erity4$ and on*e that haens you're through,

836 AS;# 93ou *an tell when a *hi*! is a&&e*ted by !inoOR tal!ingthin!ing

about something, The sub0e*ts that she doesn't rea*t to and the !inothatshe doesn't rea*t to,,, don't bother with them, .hen you lat*h onto

something that really hases her in the dire*tion you want her to go ta!e

her deeer into it by as!ing her more intri*ate :uestions about it that she

+AS TO meta(state into the situation to a**ess, She will ha"e to

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+er# 8o not really,,, I'm !ind o& i*!y,

2e# Really7 I mean I don't mean to sound strange or anything,,, but what

:ualities do you loo! &or in a guy7

This is where you shut u and listen

See also#

/li*iting "alues e)lained

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+ow to ha"e her lea"e the grou%y 8ightShadow, 2indlist#

9I see a hottie tal!ing to all o& her &riends and I want to meet her,

JThe &ollowing des*ri'tion is useless in this *onte)t but it was Uso mu*h

&unU I 0ust had to Ulea"e it inU@$K,

She is wearing a beauti&ul !nee high s!irtdress her lis are e"er so *aringly

outlined with 0ust the right amount o& li sti*! to a**entuate her slightly

outy lis, An angels &a*e with a bed de"ils grin, 8i*e round &irm breast

tight and shaely ass legs that s*ream to be sread li!e butter with your

hot !ni&e o& leasure,

8ow I bet hal& the guys on the list are going 9.+AT .OU

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Patterning e)lained

Dis*laimer# Part o& the *ontentsideas aearing in this se*tion o& the Player

>uide ha"e been re&eren*ed or artially reurosed &rom Ross Me&&ries'Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site1&ree newsletters$ *ourseware rodu*tsor seminar re*ordings, I& you &ind the materials in this se*tion use&ul youmay want to *onsider loo!ing into Ross' rodu*ts a"ailable &or ur*hase

&rom the O&&i*ial Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site ,Patterns &orm the *ore o& Ross Me&&ries' Seed Sedu*tion te*hni:ue,

Patterns are s*rits o& des*ribing "arious wonder&ul states o& mind and

&eelings to a girl seemingly ha"ing nothing to do with you and her 1&or

e)amle by des*ribing the wonder&ul &eelings and states that musi*

dan*ing eating strawberries and *ho*olate et* *an *reate$ but

sub*ons*iously getting her aroused5 by what you're saying and in e&&e*t by

you#$ 3ou *an either lin! all those wonder&ul &eelings you ma!e her &eel by

what you're saying by sel&(ointing at aroriate times 1whi*h is what Ross

Me&&ries re*ommends$ but the simle &a*t that you're there while she gets

all those &eelings and that you are the originator o& them should do the 0ob

as well#$,

2a!ing her &eel all those wonder&ul states not only means des*ribing them

to her it also means gi"ing her *ommands embedded in what you're saying

to e)erien*e those states, Des*ritions by themsel"es might not always

wor! she might not be aying too mu*h attention and wander o&& in herthoughts but on*e you'"e gi"en her *ommands ( 9;eel it building,,, &o*us in

on those &eelings,,, surrender *omletely,,,9 ( she might &irst e"en be

aroused by su*h *ommands by themsel"es but she will de&inetly be mu*h

more attenti"e towards the des*ritions you are about to o&&er,

Patterns also *ontain sub*ons*ious messages !nown as binder *ommands,

;or e)amle an e)*ert &rom a attern# 95 that's the way to do it, 8ow

with me its di&&erent be*ause59 in*ororates a binder *ommand o& 9DO IT4

8O.4 .IT+ 2/49 whi*h will bind all &eelings and desires her arousal has

*reated to 3OU,

On*e you ha"e her attention one o& the most ower&ul methods o& ma!ingher 9&eel9 is using se)ual metahors, They sound inno*ent in the *onte)t o&

what you're saying but she is bound to i*! u on them and on*e you ha"e

her imagining all those hrases out o& *onte)t5 don't be surrised i& she

says has to go to the bathroom &or a moment and you noti*e her seat is all

wet#$ A &ew e)amles o& su*h hrases are# 96reate an oening &or it,,, &eel

that thought enetrate you,,,, you *ome o"er and o"er again to the same

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*on*lusion,,,9, 8ow that you !now what to loo! &or you'll &ind more hrases

in the e)amle atterns resented in this guide,

One rather dubious ase*t o& atterns is the so(*alled weasel hrases, ;or

e)amle the hrases 95these "alues are below me9 ronoun*ed 9%U3 IS SO %/AUTI;U

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Deli"ering atterns ( general rules

Dis*laimer# Part o& the *ontentsideas aearing in this se*tion o& the Player

>uide ha"e been re&eren*ed or artially reurosed &rom Ross Me&&ries'Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site1&ree newsletters$ *ourseware rodu*tsor seminar re*ordings, I& you &ind the materials in this se*tion use&ul youmay want to *onsider loo!ing into Ross' rodu*ts a"ailable &or ur*hase

&rom the O&&i*ial Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site ,%eing "ague,It is imortant to be as "ague as ossible in your atterns, ;orone thing "agueness &or a woman doesn't sound in*oherent or obs*ure li!e

it does to the rational and matter(o&(&a*t mind o& a man, ;or a girl "ague

e:uals romanti* thrilling mysterious and intriguing, ;or another thing

being "ague in your atterns lets her more easily lin! the &eelings you

des*ribe with her own e)erien*es or dreams, The more "ague the better4

Doesn't atterning sound unnatural71Ross Me&&ries#$ 9.hen you learn howto do Seed Sedu*tion a**ording to that it *eases to be about mind(&u*!ing

and ramming memorised atterns into a 1hoe&ully#$ *o(oerati"e sub0e*t

and be*omes a mutual e)loration o& how you thin! and how she thin!s

about *ertain toi*s that naturally would lend themsel"es to attern tye

tal! e"en i& you didn't !now a thing about Seed Sedu*tion4 Using the

attern language there&ore in this *onte)t is utterly natural in*redibly

ower&ul and allows you to a*tually learn something about the woman on a

"ery dee le"el while you are *reating in*redible *onne*tions se)ual

&eelings et*, et*,9On*e more the atterns here are only e)amles,Ross Me&&ries# 9Theatterns are e)amles 8OT rules, 2any students thin! that unless they

resent the atterns to women word &or word that they won't wor! or get

results, T+IS IS MUST GFFW ;A

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*lasses o& women who resond to atterns@ those who want to be

o"erwhelmed and those who want it to be their own e)erien*e, The

women in the &irst *ategory will 0ust sit and let you run atterns without

interruting@ the se*ond *ategory will interrut by tal!ing, That's o!,,,let

them tal!,,, be*ause they will gi"e you their ersonal tran*e words whi*h

you use ba*! with them when you *ontinue with the atterns4 >irls in the

se*ond *ategory are a*tually more entertaining and &un49

The time delay,Ross Me&&ries# 9Some women &or whate"er reason ha"e a9time delay9 e&&e*t@ the atterns might not aear to wor! but an hour or E

days or e"en E months later out o& the blue they want to bang you, This

9time delay9 *an be an )(&a*tor that *an ma!e resonses seem a bit more

unredi*table,9

1Ta!en &rom 9Swee women o&& their &eet,,,9#$ 9I& she's still not resonsi"e

maybe she's ne"er e)erien*ed su*h &eelings in the ast and is ha"ing a

hard time !eeing u, Slow down and tal! as though you are trying to

understand as well &rom the e)erien*e o& your &riend, It will be easier &or

her to imagine all the &eelings you are des*ribing i& there is no ressure &or

her to readily understand them, >i"e her the time she needs to absorb

e"erything, And sometimes it ta!es a while be&ore she'll absorb e"erything,

%elie"e me that does haen,

;or e)amle there was this girl I thought was unresonsi"e yet a &ew days

a&ter we had a dee *on"ersation about lo"e and &eelings she *ame u to

me and a*ted as though she was truly in lo"e i*!ing u that same

*on"ersation a&ter I almost &orgot what we were tal!ing about in the &irst

la*e,96ombine &eelings with body sensations,Ross Me&&ries# 9As &ar asossible layer in body sensations along with your *onne*tion atterns4

.hen you *ombine body sensations along with emotional *onne*tions

either at the same time or raidly in se:uen*e the e&&e*t is ra*ti*ally

irresistible and the ower isn't additi"e,,,it's e)onential49

;ear77 8o, ;U844Ross Me&&ries# 9I& you want to be hilariously su**ess&ulwith Seed Sedu*tion then you must realise that the atterns aren't about

begging, They aren't e"en really about tri*!ing or misleading, 8o sir the

atterns are about being able to *reate su*h in*redible states o& leasure

and &un and highs &or her that no one else *an su*h that she really .A8TSto gi"e you her se)ual goodies, They're about *reating states &or her that no

one else *an, Viewed li!e this that in*redible babe you want to bang isn't

someone you need to &ear, She's someone who's about to re*ei"e an

in*redible gi&t &rom you a gi&t she might *ontinue to re*ei"e I; she's smart

enough and hot enough and se)y enough to gi"e you what it ta!es to !ee

3OU *oming ba*! &or more, 3ou see it sure ma!es a damn big di&&eren*e

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when you *an loo! at a honey(ie and honestly thin! to yoursel& 9+ow good

*an this woman stand to &eel7

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else, Does this ma!e sense7 I !now sto a minute *lose your eyes,

/"eryone has some when I say *lose your eyes I want the lids down,

Anyone who's lids do not *lose will &ind their se)ual &uture shrin!ing away

raidly raidly, Some o& us don't ha"e long to wait, I want you to thin! o&

some situation where you ha"e alot o& &le)ibility where something gets

thrown in your ath you shi&t around and you !ee going, I don't *are what

*onte)t it is, And as you thin! o& that thing I want you to raise your hand in

the air raise your hand in the air do it and ma!e a &ist raise your arm all

the way u in the air ma!e a &ist and as you bring that hand down I want

you to in*rease that &eeling o& utter &le)ibility and &ero*iousness that you go

&or what you want and !ee going, And do it again, Thin! o& that thing again

raise your hand in the air and as you do that thin! to yoursel& yes don't say

it but thin! to yoursel&, And remember that &eeling o& being &le)ible and you

go to the ne)t thing, O! one more time, And this time in your mind's eye I

want you to see some woman that you would really li!e to sedu*e and see

her not resonding the way you'd li!e to, As you ut your hand down noti*e

how you *an in*rease that &eeling hey I'm going to try something else and

!ee going, 8othing is going to sto me, Do you get that7 Alright, Oen your

eyes and loo! at me,9

%e atient and learn &rom trial and error,Ross Me&&ries# 9Ability 8o E isthe ability to be atient and learn &rom trial and error, I !now you all admire

me and you're not worthy and all that other shit but guess what, I ma!e

mista!es with this, %ut I don't want to thin! o& ma!ing mista!es I am

learning, I o**asionally do things guess what they don't wor! the way I'"e

lanned, >uess what7 I get e)*ited, =ent and 2ar! here had lun*h with meand the &irst thing I as!ed them was what ha"e you done that doesn't wor!7

Tell me about what you'"e done where it didn't wor!, Did I not say that7

%e*ause that's where I get e)*ited, That tells me I'm about to ste into a

new le"el o& ower, I& something isn't wor!ing *ongratulate yoursel&

be*ause you're about to &ind out what does wor!, 3ou're about to learn

something new, .ithout that mind set you will be at best medio*re with

this material, .ith this mind set no matter what blo*!s you may start out

with you will lea"e them behind :ui*!ly and go where"er you want to with

the material, %ut i& nothing else i& all you do is really begin to li"e the

attitude that there are no &ailures there's only learnings you will be aheadQQW o& the eole in so*iety,9

%e able to mo"e &rom one attern to the ne)t, Ross Me&&ries# 9Ability 8o,, Ability to mo"e &rom one attern to the ne)t, I will go o"er some

transitional hrases that will allow you to mo"e &rom any attern to any

other attern, /"en i& it ma!es it logi*ally seem it's nothing more &un to me

than ma!ing it seem li!e my ideas are logi*ally *onne*ted when there's no

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logi*al *onne*tion at all, I'm 0ust *onne*ting them so I *an ram atterns in,

O!, And there's *ertain hrases 9now here's another thing9, Or 9here's

something else that is interesting9, It doesn't ha"e to be any logi*al

*onne*tion to be any ideas at all,9

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Deli"ering atterns ( tonality

Dis*laimer# Part o& the *ontentsideas aearing in this se*tion o& the Player

>uide ha"e been re&eren*ed or artially reurosed &rom Ross Me&&ries'Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site1&ree newsletters$ *ourseware rodu*tsor seminar re*ordings, I& you &ind the materials in this se*tion use&ul youmay want to *onsider loo!ing into Ross' rodu*ts a"ailable &or ur*hase

&rom the O&&i*ial Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site ,The way you deli"er the atterns determines the di&&eren*e between ma!ing

her &eel wonder&ul dee inside or you sounding li!e a honey or a atheti*

*lown re*iting some weird(sounding monologue or s*rit,

Presenting her with the te)t a**omlishes you nothing the words itsel& will

not ma!e her &eel anything, 3ou ha"e to be the te)t you deli"er you ha"e to

&eel it with her be with her e"ery ste o& the way5 until the &inal erution#$

13es women ha"e been reorted to ha"e orgasms simly by listening to

atterns being deli"ered the right way#$, So memorising the atterns

resented in this guide does nothing &or you unless you really li"e out and

not simly re*ite e"ery word to her,

The atterns that you *an &ind on www,sedu*tion,*omor in this guide are

mere e)amles o& what attern(tal! is li!e they are not sells that ma!e

magi* things haen 0ust be*ause they are mumbled out loud, 3ou *an

*ertainly start by memorising some atterns but you will start ha"ing real

su**ess only when you'll be able to ma!e u a attern on the &ly about

anything that is e)*iting and *lose to heart &or that one se*i&i* girl you aretal!ing to, It hels i& you ha"e a so&t low mesmerising and a slightly

hynoti* "oi*e and i& you don't5 try to modulate your "oi*e to be*ome as

su*h while deli"ering your atterns#$

1AS;#$ 9Using a low sedu*ti"e "oi*e may seem unnatural at &irst but you

must ra*ti*e, Try tae re*ording your own "oi*e so you get an idea o& how

you sound in general, Then tae yoursel& re*iting a s*rited attern, 3ou'll

hear how stilted and unnatural it sounds, 8ow tae yoursel& while

imro"ising that same attern but this time wor! on ma!ing how you say

the words sound soothing and well sedu*ti"e, Don't worry about s*rewing

u the word order 0ust *on*entrate on +O. 3OU SA3 IT, Also ( ause mid(senten*e to *reate a sense o& anti*iation and mystery,9

Adated &rom Ross Me&&ries' ubli* seminar tans*rit no G#

Ross#Some o& you your tonality u until tonight su*!ed, It 0ust su*!s, 3ouneed to ra*ti*e, 3ou'"e got to ma!e a *ommitment to ra*ti*e these s!ills,

+ow many eole here wal!7 +ow many eole here tal!7 +ow many eole

here *an stand u7 +ow many eole here are toilet trained7 =ee your

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hand down %ru*e, Must teasing o!, Do you thin! those are all things that

you a*:uired immediately7 Did you o out o& the womb being able to do it7

3ou had to ra*ti*e, 3ou must ra*ti*e these s!ills on a *onsistent basis, I

don't !now why I ha"e to *ontinue to hammer on this oint be&ore you get it

and in*ororate it, So let's wor! on *ontrolling tonality let's ut your notes

down, I dont want to see anyone writing or holding notes anyone with a en

in their hand will &ind their gentile is shrin!ing, And some o& you ha"e no

time to waste, +ow many o& you !now what the "owels are7 .hat are the

"owels7

Audien*e#A/IOURoss#.rong here are the "owels, AAAA //// IIII OOOO UUUU, Thoseare the "owels, So we're going to do an e)er*ise, Put one hand on your

*hest so you *an &eel the residen*e o& your "oi*e ta!e a dee breath ut

your head ba*! and say with me, AAAA //// IIII OOOO UUUU, .el*ome

to the &i"e hour orgasm, O!, .hen you sea! to a woman you should be

sea!ing su*h that your "oi*e resinates, .hen you ra*ti*e these atterns

out loud and you must ra*ti*e e"ery attern OUT

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only ut your head ba*! ta!e a dee breath and go sedu*e me ma!e it

resinate, Say it out loud,

Audien*e#Sedu*e meRoss#%etter a little louder, This is not obser"ant, Do it, Sedu*e me bettero! now do watermelon,

Audien*e#.atermelonRoss#Su*! it in li!e this and go watermelon,Audien*e#.atermelonRoss#+e's got it, 8i*!y *ome on in and ha"e a seat, O! do you guys wantto try it7

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6ommon signs o& interest

6ommon signs o& interest &rom the girl ali*able mostly in bar(room and

*lub situations, Stehanie Ale)ander 2a)im 1htt#ma)immag,*om$#

She *omliments you on "irtually anything, .omen are used to

re*ei"ing *omliments not gi"ing them, So i& she oints out a ositi"e

*hara*teristi* youC"e imressed her,

SheCs disagreeing but laughing, ;lirtatious sar*asm as in B3eah right

li!e I belie"e that4? means sheCs into you, I& she werenCt sheCd simly

BUh(huh? you into obli"ion,

She !ees as!ing you to reeat yoursel&, SheCs not allowing the

blasting musi* to *ome between the two o& you, A suggestion o& a

:uieter *orner to tal! in will be well re*ei"ed,

She laughs at your lame 0unior high s*hoolXle"el 0o!es, SheCs ob"iously

lust drun!, Or maybe 0ust drun!,

She tou*hes you anywhere, Tou*h her ba*! in the e:ui"alent la*e

and let her u the ante 0ust in *ase her tou*h was an a**idental sli

o& the hand,

She stays ut, I& you run to drain the monster and sheCs still where you

le&t her when you return youCre doing something right, uys do

this all the time, +a"e you e"er wal!ed into a bar and then made ra*ti*ally

a bee line &or the hottest *hi*! i& only to be near her and *he*! her outmore7 And maybe you 9*hanged your mind9 and instead o& aroa*hing her

you ordered a drin! at the bar right ne)t to her7 I'"e been in stores shoing

where it seemed that a woman I had seen ut hersel& near me se"eral times

o"er the *ourse o& GF(HF minutes, 6oin*iden*e7 2aybe but I don't really

belie"e that and it's &ar more use&ul &or me to belie"e that a woman &inds

me interesting or attra*ti"e and is utting hersel& near me on urose

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hoing that I may start something,9

;or more signs o& interest see#

Reading body(language

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Reading the signs o& a 9*ommitted9 woman

;or starters ( a story whi*h at &irst glan*e only seems to illustrate the

mista!e o& 0udging a girl by her words and not her a*tions, %ut a&ter a more

*are&ul inse*tion e"en those seemingly 9re0e*ting9 words o& her are

a*tually a *omlementary sign to her a*tions 1the sign being ( 9I want

you49#$,

2r +ay AS;#

9O! boys and girls learn &rom 2r, +ay's mista!e so that you don't &all &or

it yoursel&,

I met this *hi*! online and got her to agree to meet me to lay some ool,

She was really hot, I also did a really good 0ob o& *on"eying ersonality,,, I

got in some good negs some humor some teasing it was "ery lay&ul and

also some light !ino, 1I !now I did this right be*ause she still messages me

et* so maybe I'll get a *han*e to *orre*t the ;U6= UP that I made,,,read

on,$

See the whole time she is tal!ing about how she is a 6hristian and she

wor!s &or 6amus 2inistries and she has a ;IA86/ and how they're not

0ust DATI8> but they are 6OURTI8> and how se*ial it is blah blah, She

also says how busy she is be*ause o& s*hool and that i& I'm going to see

her it'll be on her terms 1ha4$ so at that oint I thought s*rew this I ha"e

better things to do with my time, She in"ited me to a me*hani*al engineer

1her ma0or$ arty that &riday and I turned her down,

She messages me a &ew days later and tal!s about how she got drun! andstoned at the arty and how she went home with some other student and

got her brains &u*!ed out, She hoes she isn't regnant she doesn't intend

to tell her &ian*e et* blah,

That *ould ha"e been me in there4 I will ne"er sare a *hi*! again#$9

%ased on the story abo"e here are *ommentaries by Odious on what

wereare the signs o& a married or bore&riended iow 9*ommitted9 woman

being interested in you, Odious AS;#

9O= ha"ing been with married women be&ore there are E !ey signs that

she's hot to trot and ready to ste out,

G, She will 9oen u to you9 and tell you what IS 8OT haening with herman,

This goes &or married women women with boy&riends,,, all o& them, She will

tell you &lat out what it is she is missing and what she wants, .hen she

starts telling you how he's not *utting it she's letting you !now that door is

oen, 8ow this woman did this but it sounds li!e she was being subtle

about it, She said they were *ourting not dating,,, what the hell is that7 I

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thin! that meant 9we ha"e a *ommitment but he's not &u*!ing me,9

H, I& she's interested she'll *reate oortunities &or the two o& you to be

alone together,

I had a woman who I didn't e"en reali-e was interested in me *ome o"er to

my house to study and wor! on a aer,,, be*ause her *omuter was on the

&rit-, The thought that she was hot &or me did not e"en *ross my mind until

she started as!ing me my oinions on the meaning and "alue o& marriage

iow 9what would you thin! o& a woman who *heated on her husband,,, with

you,,, right now49

E, She !nows when he'll be around or not so she'll want to *all the shots as

to when you see ea*h other,

She ob"iously did that one, +owe"er don't *ount yoursel& out 0ust yet

be*ause she is still gi"ing you a subset o& the &irst sign 1whi*h was ( telling

you what is LnotL haening with her man$, She may tell you about other

se)ual e)loits ( i& she *heated on him be&ore or i& she *heated on an old

boy&riend et*, So this woman is hitting all the signs, She's oened u to you

she's ma!ing time she wants to *all the shots as to when you get together

and now she's telling you she *heated, The ne)t time you see her or tal! to

her ( a*t li!e you thin! her *heating is no big deal that you rese*t it when

women *an go &or what they want, I ha"e also &ound an atta*! on the se)ist

nature o& the whole idea o& monogamy to be "ery e&&e*ti"e#

9The whole idea o& monogamy dates ba*! to a time when women were

treated as roerty, 2en ran the world and made all the rules, So men *ould

ha"e mistresses and *on*ubines but i& a woman *heated she was stoned to

death, It is *omletely se)ist and hyo*riti*al, I thin! you should listen toyour heart and your desires and see where that leads you, To me that is

the only way to go, ;ul&ill your desires and see! leasure, .ith me that's

what's imortant, Pleasure is a gi&t indulge it and you be*ome a more

&ul&illed and *omlete erson,9 et*,9

836 e)lains why 9*ommitted9 women are a*tually :uite easy both to

aroa*h and e"en get 9"ery &riendly9 with#$ 836 AS;#

9.omen that are 9ta!en9 are di&&erent &rom women that are single in that

they are either

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RO2A8TI6 !ind o& intera*tion that she doesn't get &rom her 9boy&riend9

*oming home turning on the TV wat*hing sorts &eeling her u &or a

se*ond 1la*! o& &orelay is a 2AMOR turno&&$ and &u*!ing her until +/ *ums

and &alling aslee, As long as she &eels li!e she *an get away with it and

still ha"e her hum(drum relationshi inta*t she will &u*! you, 3ou would be

surrised how many women are 9ta!en9 but nowhere near SATIS;I/D4 ,,,

+%sare 8/V/R without a man, They !ee the one they ha"e until they hoo!

u something new, Then they s!i o&& so i& you are waiting &or an +%to

be*ome SI8>

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6aitalise

To *aitalise when doing a i*!(u would be to and Y*lose with a girl, To

*aitalise with a girl that you'"e already Y or *losed would be to do a

&ollow(u o& *alling her and then either by atterning or using any other

sedu*tion te*hni:ue heling her to realise what you both ha"e really wanted

all along#$ And then doing it o& *ourse#$

Aart &rom your usual i*!(us though you might ha"e gotten a girl

interested in you in the midst o& your e"eryday *hores ( maybe a *o(wor!er

a neighbour a &ellow student a girl at the *ashier, To *aitalise would

mean 8OT TO

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Put a ri*e on yoursel&

Ross Me&&ries# 9And one o& the most true and ower&ul realities o& human

nature is# I; SO2/T+I8> 6O2/S AT V/R3 /R44 >uys who

ne"er get mad who ne"er show that they will stand u &or themsel"es

and ma!e a woman &eel a bit o& unleasantness are in e&&e*t gi"ing

themsel"es away &or &ree44 OI8> TO PA3 A PRI6/4

H, %e willing to withdraw your time and attention and be una"ailable4

There are a*tually two rules wor!ing here# one is that eole "alue

more what they ha"e to wor! &or but also the rule is# i& it's rare or

be*oming 2OR/ s*ar*e it's "iewed as being more "aluable,

.ell in any *ase as I'"e said it's a reality so use it in the &ollowing ways#

A, A, 8ow and again *an*el dates,%, %, Don't always return her hone *alls romtly

6, 6, On o**asion and ese*ially in the beginning >/T O;; T+/ P+O8/

;IRST44 Don't ha"e unlimited time or willingness to tal!44

That should get her "iewing you as s*ar*e and there&ore a lot more "aluable

and there&ore something,,, She's .illing To Pay A +ell O& A et44

8ow the &inal and erhas the most imortant rule I *an gi"e you is#

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you don't eliminate those who won't ay the ri*e then you will be

under*utting your *on&iden*e when you want to mo"e towards what you

want be*ause your beha"iour is not GFFW *ongruent with your belie& that

you are a erson o& "alue who is deser"ing o& the best,9

6raig 6li&&ord's Sedu*tion newsletter# 92a!e her ut some wor! into

hanging out with you in order &or her to "alue you, 2a!e her *ome and i*!

you u ma!e her send some money on you ma!e her *all and do you

&a"ors et*, .hen she does things &or you it will 0usti&y her own &eelings &or

you and allow them to grow,9

See also#

Attra*t girls by being busy

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Attra*t girls by being busy

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a small ie*e o& hoe in her mind that she *ould be*ome YG,9

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Show a willingness to wal! away

Ross Me&&ries# 93ou see a&ter years o& e)erien*e and study I'"e *ome to

the *on*lusion that a woman *an only e)erien*e real assion &or i& on

some le"el she belie"es she *ould do something to lose you4 Understand

that when you show this willingness to wal! away in any area o& your li&e it

*on"eys the message that you are the ri-e to be ursued that you are the

erson o& "alue and they had better ta!e ad"antage o& the oortunity, This

is an attitude that will mo"e you &orward in any area that's *hallenging you,

%y way o& *ontrast i& you show a non(sto &ore"er and e"er de"otion to her

and ut u with her *ra and ambi"alen*e then where is that tension o&

!nowing she *ould lose you7 Answer# nowhere4 And that's why you get

nowhere when you ut u with this !ind o& stu&&4 I& you'"e seen an initially

hot relationshi grow i*e(*old this is one big reason4449

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Use her &riends

Ross Me&&ries# 9;lowers wor! wonders on young *hi*!s ese*ially i& you

gi"e them to her in &ront o& her &riends, Always let her &riends !now 1by

being not saying$ you are a great guy, 8e"er e"er underestimate a girl's

desire to ma!e her &riends 0ealous o& her man, In addition to that always let

her thin! her &riends want you, 9Per*ei"ed "alue9 is why only some baseball

*ards are worth more that the store you bought them in when they are all

rinted on worthless *ardboard, And i& you want to ut a *herry on to,,, you

*an ma!e slight *omments that ma!e her thin! that 0u