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PARENTING IS A TASK WITH FAR-REACHING CONSEQUENCES Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen
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PARENTING IS A TASK WITH FAR-REACHING CONSEQUENCES Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen.

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Page 1: PARENTING IS A TASK WITH FAR-REACHING CONSEQUENCES Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen.

PARENTING IS A TASK WITH

FAR-REACHING CONSEQUENCES

Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

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CONGRATULATIONS

• CONCERNED

• PROACTIVE

• RESPONSIBLE

WELCOME PARENTS

THE FUTURE IS IN YOUR HANDS

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is

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The last human freedom – The ability to choose

one’s attitudeCreated for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

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WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE

TOWARDS YOUR CHILD ?

TOWARDS FAILURE ?

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE

TOWARDS YOUR CHILD ?

TOWARDS FAILURE ?

Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

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WHAT IS YOUR CHILD’S WHAT IS YOUR CHILD’S VIEW OF THE WORLD?VIEW OF THE WORLD?

Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

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REMEMBER –

CHILDREN HAVE THEIR OWN EXPECTATIONS -

OFTEN BIGGER THAN OURS OF THEM

PLEASING

PARENTS

IS AN

ADDITIONAL

TASK

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You give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts...

…..Kahlil Gibran

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You are the bows

from which your children

as living arrows

are sent forth….

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The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,

and He bends you with His might

that His arrows may go swift and far……

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Let our bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;

For even as He loves the arrow that flies,

so He loves also the bow that is stable.

Kahlil Gibran

Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

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THINK OF PARENTS AS A LAUNCH PAD – STRONG & STABLE

MODERN BOW & ARROW

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AT THE RIGHT TIME

THE SUPPORTS WILL HAVE TO

STEP AWAY

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RESPONSIBILITY

THEY LEARN BY OBSERVING

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HOW WE HANDLE OUR EMOTIONS

HOW WE WEATHER OUR STORMS

THEY OBSERVE AND LEARN

THEY OBSERVE QUIETLY

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It is not what you do for your children but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings

--Ann Landers

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BE A LIGHTHOUSE

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WHAT GIFTS TO GIVE TO

CHILDREN

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The best gifts –

YOUR TIMEA GOOD EXAMPLE

Praise & Encouragement

Support in times of failure

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How much freedom?

Give them the freedom to

‘fail’

Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.

Mahatma Gandhi

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Roots and Wings

Denis Waitley

The greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence

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Gift of a love filled home

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Introduce them to interpersonal harmony

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The greatest good you can do for another is

not just to share your riches

but to reveal to him his own

--Benjamin Disraeli

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How to Criticize?

We worry about what a child will become tomorrow..

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yet we forget that he is someone today

--Stacia Tauscher

TAKE CARE NOT TO INJURE

SELF – ESTEEM

WHILE CRITICIZING

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REMEMBER, INJURY TO SELF-ESTEEM IS AS PAINFUL AS PHYSICAL HURT

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The words we use to Approve and Disapprove will continue to play in their minds long into adulthood

They will believe those words because they love and trust parents

They can read our expectations whether we speak or not

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CHILDREN OF EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT PARENTS HAVE A TREMENDOUS ADVANTAGE

Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen