FATHER-CHILD ATTACHMENT STABILITY: MODERATING EFFECTS OF PATERNAL DEPRESSIVE SYMPTOMS AND STRESSFUL LIFE EXPERIENCES by MADELINE GRACE SHIPLEY (Under the Direction of Geoffrey Brown) ABSTRACT This study examined paternal depressive symptoms and life stress as moderators of father-child attachment stability from one to three years of age. Fathers reported depressive symptoms and negative life events when their child was 13 months old. Father-child attachment security was assessed observationally when children were 13 months and three years old. Father- child attachment relationships were generally stable, but this stability was moderated by depression and life stress. Specifically, analyses revealed highly stable attachment relationships when fathers experienced higher levels of depressive symptoms and more negative life events. However, there was some instability in the relationship for fathers who reported lower depressive symptoms and negative life events, particularly for those dyads characterized by early insecure attachment. These results provide evidence that both paternal depressive symptoms and paternal life stress affect the stability of early father-child attachment and indicate the need for further study to discern more specific pathways. INDEX WORDS: fathers, attachment, depression, life stress, stability,
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FATHER-CHILD ATTACHMENT STABILITY: MODERATING EFFECTS OF PATERNAL
DEPRESSIVE SYMPTOMS AND STRESSFUL LIFE EXPERIENCES
by
MADELINE GRACE SHIPLEY
(Under the Direction of Geoffrey Brown)
ABSTRACT
This study examined paternal depressive symptoms and life stress as moderators of
father-child attachment stability from one to three years of age. Fathers reported depressive
symptoms and negative life events when their child was 13 months old. Father-child attachment
security was assessed observationally when children were 13 months and three years old. Father-
child attachment relationships were generally stable, but this stability was moderated by
depression and life stress. Specifically, analyses revealed highly stable attachment relationships
when fathers experienced higher levels of depressive symptoms and more negative life events.
However, there was some instability in the relationship for fathers who reported lower depressive
symptoms and negative life events, particularly for those dyads characterized by early insecure
attachment. These results provide evidence that both paternal depressive symptoms and paternal
life stress affect the stability of early father-child attachment and indicate the need for further
study to discern more specific pathways.
INDEX WORDS: fathers, attachment, depression, life stress, stability,
FATHER-CHILD ATTACHMENT STABILITY: MODERATING EFFECTS OF PATERNAL
DEPRESSIVE SYMPTOMS AND STRESSFUL LIFE EXPERIENCES
by
MADELINE GRACE SHIPLEY
B.S., University of Alabama, 2014
A Thesis Submitted to the Graduate Faculty of The University of Georgia in Partial Fulfillment
FATHER-CHILD ATTACHMENT STABILITY: MODERATING EFFECTS OF PATERNAL
DEPRESSIVE SYMPTOMS AND STRESSFUL LIFE EXPERIENCES
by
MADELINE GRACE SHIPLEY
Major Professor: Geoffrey Brown Committee: Laura McKee Ted Futris Electronic Version Approved: Suzanne Barbour Dean of the Graduate School The University of Georgia May 2016
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
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LIST OF TABLES ......................................................................................................................... vi
LIST OF FIGURES ...................................................................................................................... vii
CHAPTER
1 INTRODUCTION AND LITERATURE REVIEW .....................................................1
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APPENDICES
APPENDIX A: BECK DEPRESSION INVENTORY (BDI)
On this questionnaire are groups of statements. Please read each group of statements carefully. Then pick out the one statement in each group which best describes the way you have been feeling for the past several months. Circle the number beside the statement you picked. If several statements in the group seem to apply equally well, circle each one. Be sure to read all of the statements in each group before making your choice. Thank you. 1. 0 I do not feel sad.
1 I feel sad. 2 I am sad all of the time and I can’t snap out of it. 3 I am so sad or unhappy that I cannot stand it.
2. 0 I am not particularly discouraged about the future.
1 I feel discouraged about the future. 2 I feel I have nothing to look forward to. 3 I feel that the future is hopeless and that things will not improve.
3. 0 I do not feel like a failure.
1 I feel I have failed more than the average person. 2 As I look back on my life, all I can see is a lot of failures. 3 I feel I am a complete failure as a person.
4. 0 I get as much satisfaction out of things as I used to.
1 I don’t enjoy things the way I used to. 2 I don’t get real satisfaction out of anything anymore. 3 I am dissatisfied or bored with everything.
5. 0 I don’t feel particularly guilty.
1 I feel guilty a good part of the time. 2 I feel guilty most of the time. 3 I feel guilty all of the time.
6. 0 I don’t feel I am being punished.
1 I feel I may be punished. 2 I expect to be punished. 3 I feel I am being punished.
7. 0 I don’t feel disappointed in myself.
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1 I am disappointed in myself. 2 I am disgusted with myself. 3 I hate myself.
8. 0 I don’t feel I am worse than anybody else.
1 I am critical of myself for my weaknesses and mistakes. 2 I blame myself all of the time for my faults. 3 I blame myself for everything bad that happens.
9. 0 I don’t have any thoughts of killing myself.
1 I have thoughts of killing myself, but I would not carry them out. 2 I would like to kill myself. 3 I would kill myself if I had the chance.
10. 0 I don’t cry any more than usual.
1 I cry more now than I used to. 2 I cry all the time now. 3 I used to be able to cry, but now I can’t cry even though I want to.
11. 0 I am no more irritated now than I ever am. 1 I get annoyed or irritated more than I used to. 2 I feel irritated all the time now. 3 I don’t get irritated at all by the things that used to irritate me.
12. 0 I have not lost interest in people. 1 I am less interested in other people than I used to be. 2 I have lost most of my interest in other people. 3 I have lost all of my interest in other people.
13. 0 I make decisions about as well as I ever could. 1 I put off making decisions more than I used to. 2 I have greater difficulty making decisions than before. 3 I can’t make decisions at all anymore.
14. 0 I can work about as well as before. 1 It takes an extra effort to get started at doing something. 2 I have to push myself very hard to do anything. 3 I can’t do any work at all.
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APPENDIX B: LIFE EXPERIENCES SURVEY (LES)
Listed below are events which may bring changes in the lives of people who experience them. We are interested in events which have occurred in your life during the past 2 years. Please give date(s) of each even that has occurred, if appropriate. Rate each event that has occurred as Good or Bad. Circle the one that applies. Also, show how much the event affected your life by circling the appropriate statement: no effect - some effect - moderate effect - great effect. You may find that many of the events have not happened to you. If you have not experienced a particular event in the past 2 years, leave it blank. _____________________________________________________________________________ Event that Occurred Type of Effect of Event on Your Life Date(s) Event _____________________________________________________________________________ 1. Getting married Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 2. Detention in jail or other Good Bad no some moderate great institution (you or anyone effect effect effect effect ______ close to you) 3. Major changes in sleeping Good Bad no some moderate great habits (much more or much effect effect effect effect ______ less sleep) 4. Death of close family member (a) parent(s) Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (b) child Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (c) another child Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (d) brother or sister Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ _____________________________________________________________________________
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Event that Occurred Type of Effect of Event on Your Life Date(s) Event _____________________________________________________________________________ (e) spouse Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (f) grandparent(s) Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (g) Other (specify) Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 5. Getting pregnant Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 6. Serious illness or injury of close family member (a) parent(s) Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (b) child Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (c) another child Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (d) brother or sister Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (e) spouse Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (f) grandparent(s) Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ (g) Other (specify) Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 7. Major changes in eating habits Good Bad no some moderate great (much more or much less food effect effect effect effect ______ intake) _____________________________________________________________________________
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Event that Occurred Type of Effect of Event on Your Life Date(s) Event _____________________________________________________________________________ 8. Foreclosure on mortgage or Good Bad no some moderate great loan effect effect effect effect ______ 9. Death of a close friend Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 10. Outstanding personal Good Bad no some moderate great achievement effect effect effect effect ______ 11. Trouble with police (you Good Bad no some moderate great or anyone close to you) effect effect effect effect ______ 12. Change in your work Good Bad no some moderate great situation (different work effect effect effect effect ______ responsibility, major change in working conditions, working hours, etc.) 13. New job for you Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 14. Change in body appearance Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 15. Change in mood (either Good Bad no some moderate great happy or sad) effect effect effect effect ______ 16. Major change in financial Good Bad no some moderate great status (a lot better off or effect effect effect effect ______ a lot worse off) 17. Birth of a baby Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 18. Change in family size other Good Bad no some moderate great than from birth (such as effect effect effect effect ______ having a family member or friend move in or out) _____________________________________________________________________________
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Event that Occurred Type of Effect of Event on Your Life Date(s) Event _____________________________________________________________________________ 19. Major change in closeness of Good Bad no some moderate great family members (increase or effect effect effect effect ______ decrease in closeness) 20. Change of residence Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 21. Separation from spouse Good Bad no some moderate great (due to conflict) effect effect effect effect ______ 22. Major change in church Good Bad no some moderate great activities (increased or effect effect effect effect ______ decreased attendance) 23. Reconciliation (making up) Good Bad no some moderate great with spouse or partner after effect effect effect effect ______ a separation 24. Major change in number of Good Bad no some moderate great arguments with spouse or effect effect effect effect ______ partner 25. Change in spouse's or Good Bad no some moderate great partner's work (loss of job, effect effect effect effect ______ beginning new job, retirement, etc.) 26. Major change in usual type Good Bad no some moderate great and/or amount of recreation effect effect effect effect ______ 27. Borrowing more than $10,000 Good Bad no some moderate great (buying home, business, effect effect effect effect ______ medical bills, etc.) 28. Borrowing less than $10,000 Good Bad no some moderate great (buying car, TV, getting effect effect effect effect ______ school loan, medical bills, etc.) _____________________________________________________________________________
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Event that Occurred Type of Effect of Event on Your Life Date(s) Event _____________________________________________________________________________ 29. Losing your job Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 30. Major personal illness Good Bad no some moderate great or injury effect effect effect effect ______ 31. Major changes in social Good Bad no some moderate great activities (e.g., parties, effect effect effect effect ______ movies, visiting, being with friends) 32. Major changes in living Good Bad no some moderate great condition of family (building effect effect effect effect ______ new home, remodeling or decoration of home, neighborhood, etc.) 33. Divorce Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 34. Serious injury or illness Good Bad no some moderate great of close friend effect effect effect effect ______ 35. Starting school Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 36. Completion of schooling Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 37. Your dropping out of school Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 38. Away from spouse or partner Good Bad no some moderate great (due to work, travel, etc.) effect effect effect effect ______ 39. Engagement Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______
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Other experiences during the past 2 years which have had an impact on your life. List and rate. _____________________________________________________________________________ Event that Occurred Type of Effect of Event on Your Life Date(s) Event _____________________________________________________________________________ 40. ________________________ Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 41. ________________________ Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ 42. ________________________ Good Bad no some moderate great effect effect effect effect ______ ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ When you take everything into consideration---your children, your adult life, etc., how would you describe your current life situation? 1. Things are very bad right now. 2. Things are fairly bad right now. 3. Things are OK---not bad and not good 4. Things are fairly good. 5. Things are very good. 6. Other (please explain) ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________
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APPENDIX C: INSTRUCTIONS TO PARENTS FOR STRANGE SITUATION PROCEDURE
1. Parent and Baby: 3 minutes Put your baby down on the floor facing the toys and try to interest him/her in the toys. Then go to your chair and pretend to read the magazine. Let your baby explore the toys and the room. You can respond to your baby quietly if he/she makes overtures to you, or you can give reassurance, but please try not to attract your baby's attention or play with him/her. 2. When Stranger Arrives (Parent, Baby, Stranger): 3 minutes 1st minute: Stranger sits quietly and there is no talking between you. 2nd minute: Stranger will chat with you. 3rd minute: Stranger begins to play with your baby. 3. When Parent Leaves (Baby, Stranger): 3 minutes Two knocks on the wall mean you should leave the room. Pick a moment when your baby seems busy with the stranger or a toy. Close the door behind you and come into the observation room. 4. When Parent Returns (Parent, Baby): 3 minutes Speak your baby's name loudly outside the room before entering. Open the door, step into the room onto the short tape line and wait for your baby to greet you. If he/she doesn't come to you, greet your baby and make him/her comfortable, setting him/her on the floor and getting him/her interested in the toys. Then, return to your chair and pretend to read the magazine. 5. When Parent Leaves (Baby alone): 3 minutes Two knocks on the wall mean you should leave again. Say good-bye as you normally do, walk out the door and close it behind you. Come into the observation room. 6. When Stranger Returns (Baby, Stranger): 3 minutes Stranger returns to room and will try to comfort the baby if necessary. 7. When Parent Returns (Parent, Baby): 3 minutes Speak your baby's name loudly outside the room before entering. Open the door, step into the room onto the short tape line and wait for your baby to greet you. If he/she doesn't come to you, greet your baby. Comfort and soothe, as necessary. When baby is ready, try to reinserts baby in toys and return to your chair, pretending to read the magazine.
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APPENDIX D: ATTACHMENT Q-SET ITEMS
1. Child readily shares with father or lets
her hold things if she asks to. Low: Refuses
6. When child is near father and sees
something he wants to play with, he fusses or tries to drag father over to it.
Low: Goes to what he wants without fussing or
dragging father along.
2. When child returns to father after
playing, he is sometimes fussy for no clear reason.
Low: Child is happy or affectionate when he returns
to father between or after play times
7. Child laughs and smiles easily with a
lot of different people. Low: Father can get him to smile or laugh more
easily than anyone else.
3. When he is upset or injured, child will
accept comforting from adults other than father.
Low: Father is the only one he allows to comfort him.
8. When child cries, he cries hard. Low: Weeps, sobs, doesn’t cry hard, or hard crying
never lasts very long.
4. Child is careful and gentle with toys
and pets.
9. Child is lighthearted and playful most
of the time. Low: Child tends to be serious, sad, or annoyed a
good deal of the time.
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5. Child is more interested in people than
in things. Low: More interested in things than people
10. Child often cries or resists when
father takes him to bed for naps or at night.
11. Child often hugs or cuddles against
father without her asking or inviting him to do so.
Low: Child doesn’t hug or cuddle much, unless
father hugs him first or asks him to give her a hug
16. Child prefers toys that are modeled
after living things (e.g., dolls, stuffed animals).
Low: Prefers balls, blocks, pots and pans, etc.
12. Child quickly gets used to people or
things that initially made him shy or frightened him.
** Middle if never shy or afraid
17. Child quickly loses interest in new
adults if they do anything that annoys him.
13. When the child is upset by father’s
leaving, he continues to cry or even gets angry after she is gone.
Low: Cry stops right after mom leaves Middle if not upset by mom leaving
18. Child follows father’s suggestions
readily, even when they are clearly suggestions rather than orders.
Low: Ignores or refuses unless ordered
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14. When child finds something new to
play with, he carries it to father or shows it to her from across the room.
Low: Plays with the new object quietly or goes
where he won’t be interrupted.
19. When father tells child to bring or
give her something, he obeys. (Do not count refusals that are playful
or part of a game unless they clearly become disobedient)
Low: Father has to take the object or raise her voice
to get it away from him.
15. Child is willing to talk to new people,
show then toys, or show them what he can do if father asks him to.
20. Child ignores most bumps, falls, or
startles. Low: Cries after minor bumps, falls, or startles
21. Child keeps track of father’s location when he
plays around the house.
Calls to her now and then. Notices her go from room to room. Notices if she changes activities
Low: Doesn’t keep track ** Middle if child isn’t allowed or doesn’t have room
to play away from mom
26. Child cries when father leaves him at
home with babysitter, father, or grandparent.
Low: Doesn’t cry with any of these.
22. Child acts like an affectionate parent
toward dolls, pets, or infants. Low: Plays with them in other ways. **Middle if child doesn’t play with or have
dolls, pets, or infants around
27. Child laughs when father teases him. Low: Annoyed when father teases him.
**Middle if father never teases child during play or conversations
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23. When father sits with other family
members, or is affectionate with them, child tries to get mom’s affection for himself.
Low: Lets her be affectionate with others. May join
in, but not in a jealous way
28. Child enjoys relaxing in father’s lap. Low: Prefers to relax on the floor or on furniture. **Middle if child never sits still
24. When father speaks firmly or raises
her voice at him, child becomes upset, sorry, or ashamed about displeasing her.
(Do not score high if child is simply
upset by the raised voice or afraid of getting punished)
29. At times, child attends so deeply to
something that he doesn’t seem to hear when people speak to him.
Low: Even when deeply involved in play, child
notices when people speak to him.
25. Child is easy for father to lose track
of when he is playing out of her sight. Low: Talks and calls when out of sight. Easy to find;
easy to keep track of what he is playing with.
**Middle if never plays out of sight
30. Child easily becomes angry with toys.
31. Child wants to be the center of
father’s attention. If mom is busy or talking to someone, he interrupts.
Low: Doesn’t notice or doesn’t mind not being the
center of father’s attention
36. Child clearly shows a pattern of using
father as a base from which to explore. Moves out to play; Returns or plays near her; Moves out to play again, etc.
Low: Always away unless retrieved, or always stays
near
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32. When father says “no” or punishes
him, child stops misbehaving (at least at that time). Doesn’t have to be told twice.
37. Child is very active. Always moving
around. Prefers active games to quiet ones
33. Child sometimes signals father (or
gives the impression) that he wants to be put down, and then fusses or wants to be picked right back up.
Low: Always ready to go play by the time he signals
father to put him down
38. Child is demanding and impatient
with father. Fusses and persists unless she does what he wants right away.
34. When child is upset about father
leaving him, he sits right were he is and cries. Doesn’t go after her.
Low: Actively goes after her if he is upset or crying. **Middle if never upset by her leaving
39. Child is often serious and businesslike
when playing away from father or alone with his toys.
Low: Often silly or laughing when playing away
from father or alone with his toys.
35. Child is independent with father.
Prefers to play on his own; leaves father easily when he wants to play.
Low: Prefers playing with or near father. **Middle if not allowed or not enough room
to play away from father
40. Child examines new objects or toys in
great detail. Tries to use them in different ways or to take them apart.
Low: First look at new objects or toys is usually
brief. (May return to them later however.)
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41. When father says to follow her, child
does so. (Do not count refusals or delays that
are playful or part of a game unless they clearly become disobedient.)
46. Child walks and runs around without
bumping, dropping, or stumbling. Low: Bumps, drops, or stumbles happen throughout
the day (even if no injuries result.)
42. Child recognizes when father is upset.
Becomes quiet or upset himself. Tries to comfort her; asks what is wrong, etc.
Low: Doesn’t recognize; continues play; behaves
toward her as if she were OK
47. Child will accept and enjoy loud
sounds or being bounced around in play, if father smiles and shows that it is supposed to be fun.
Low: Child gets upset, even if father indicates the
sound or activity is safe or fun.
43. Child stays closer to father or returns
to her more often than the simple task of keeping track of her requires.
Low: Doesn’t keep close track of father’s location or
activities.
48. Child readily lets new adults hold or
share things he has, if they ask to.
44. Child asks for and enjoys having
father hold, hug, and cuddle him. Low: Not especially eager for this. Tolerates it but
doesn’t seek it; or wiggles to be put down.
49. Runs to father with a shy smile when
new people visit the home. Low: Even if he eventually warms up to visitors,
child initially runs to father with a fret or a cry. **Middle if child doesn’t run to father at all when
visitors arrive.
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45. Child enjoys dancing or singing along
with music. Low: Neither likes nor dislikes music
50. Child’s initial reaction when people
visit the home is to ignore or avoid them, even if he eventually warms up to them.
51. Child enjoys climbing all over visitors
when he plays with them. Low: Doesn’t seek close contact with visitors when
he plays with them. **Middle if he won’t play with visitors
56. Child becomes shy or loses interest
when an activity looks like it might be difficult.
Low: Thinks he can do difficult tasks.
52. Child has trouble handling small
objects or putting small things together.
Low: Very skillful with small objects, pencils, etc.
57. Child is fearless. Low: Child is cautious or fearful.
53. Child puts his arms around father or
puts his hand on her shoulder when she picks him up.
Low: Accepts being picked up but doesn’t especially
help or hod on.
58. Child largely ignores adults who visit
the home. Finds his own activities more interesting.
Low: Finds visitors quite interesting, even if he is a
bit shy at first.
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54. Child acts like he expects father to
interfere with his activities when she is simply trying to help him with something.
Low: Accepts father’s help readily, unless she is in
fact interfering.
59. When child finishes with an activity
or toy, he generally finds something else to do without returning to father between activities.
Low: When finished with an activity or toy, he
returns to father for play, affection or help finding more to do.
55. Child copies a number of behaviors
or ways of doing things from watching father’s behavior.
Low: Doesn’t noticeably copy father’s behavior
60. If father reassures him by saying “It’s
OK” or “It won’t hurt you,” child will approach or play with things that initially made him cautious or afraid.
**Middle if never cautious or afraid.
61. Plays roughly with father. Bumps,
scratches, or bites during active play. (Does not necessarily mean to hurt mom.)
Low: Plays active games without injuring father. **Middle if play is never very active
66. Child easily grows fond of adults who
visit his home and are friendly to him.
Low: Doesn’t grow fond of new people very easily
62. When child is in a happy mood, he is
likely to stay that way all day. Low: Happy moods are very changeable.
67. When the family has visitors, child
wants them to pay a lot of attention to him.
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63. Even before trying things himself,
child tries to get someone to help him.
68. On the average, child is a more active
type person than father. Low: On the average, child is less active type person
than father.
64. Child enjoys climbing all over father
when they play. Low: Doesn’t especially want a lot of close contact
when they play
69. Rarely asks father for help. Low: Often asks father for help. **Middle if child is too young to ask.
65. Child is easily upset when father
makes him change from one activity to another. (Even if the new activity is something child often enjoys.)
70. Child quickly greets his father with a
big smile when she enters the room. (Shows her a toy, gestures, or says “Hi, Mommy”)
Low: Doesn’t greet father unless she greets him first.
71. If held in father’s arms, child stops
crying and quickly recovers after being frightened or upset.
Low: Not easily comforted.
76. When given a choice, child would
rather play with toys than with adults.
Low: Would rather play with adults than toys.
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72. If visitors laugh at or approve of
something the child does, he repeats it again and again.
Low: Visitors’ reactions don’t influence child this
way.
77. When father asks child to do
something, he readily understands what she wants. (May or may not obey.)
Low: Sometimes puzzled or slow to understand what
father wants. **Middle if child is too young to
understand. 73. Child has a cuddly toy or security
blanket that he carries around, takes to bed, or holds when upset. (Do not include bottle or pacifier if child is under two years old.)
Low: Can take such things or leave them, or has
none at all.
78. Child enjoys being hugged or held by
people other than his parents and/or grandparents.
74. When father doesn’t do what child
wants right away, he behaves as if mom were not going to do it at all.��
(Fusses, gets angry, walks off to other activities, etc.)
Low: Waits a reasonable time, as if he expects father
will shortly do what he asked.
79. Child easily becomes angry at father. Low: Doesn’t become angry at father unless she is
very intrusive or he is very tired.
75. At home, child gets upset or cries
when father walks out of the room. (May or may not follow her.)
Low: Notices her leaving; may follow but doesn’t get
upset
80. Child uses father’s facial expressions
as a good source of information when something looks risky or threatening.
Low: Makes up his own mind without checking
father’s expressions first
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81. Child cries as a way of getting father
to do what he wants. Low: Mainly cries because of genuine discomfort
(tired, sad, afraid, etc.)
86. Child tries to get father to imitate
him, or quickly notices and enjoys it when mom imitates him on her own.
82. Child spends most of his play time
with just a few favorite toys or activities.
87. If father laughs at or approves of
something the child has done, he repeats it again and again.
Low: Child is not particularly influenced this way.
83. When child is bored, he goes to father
looking for something to do. Low: Wanders around or just does nothing for a
while, until something comes up.
88. When something upsets the child, he
stays where he is and cries. Low: Goes to father when he cries. Doesn’t wait for
mom to come to him.
84. Child makes at least some effort to be
clean and tidy around the house. Low: Spills and smears things on himself and on
floors all the time
89. Child’s facial expressions are strong
and clear when he is playing with something.
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85. Child is strongly attracted to new
activities and new toys. Low: New things do not attract him away from
familiar toys or activities.
90. If father moves very far, child follows
along and continues play in the area she has moved to. (Doesn’t have to be called or carried along; doesn’t stop play or get upset.)
**Middle if child isn’t allowed or doesn’t have room to be very far away