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Inspirational Survivorship Calendar18 Month 2008-2009 Calendar

Fashioned in Faith

Sisters Network® Inc., Nashville, Tennessee

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Fashioned in Faith is more than a calendar. It is a movement. A movement to show breast cancer that it cannot keep a good woman down – especially not an African American woman.

Featured on these pages are the stories of real women – survivors -- who know that WE overcome (especially breast cancer) by the word of our testimony & action. These are testimonies of hope, courage, wisdom, perseverance and all the other lessons life brings with it. Each is fashioned in faith, believing the best is possible and that breast cancer can be defeated -- when we defeat it.

We CAN defeat breast cancer in African American communities by getting regular health exams, taking care of our health, sharing our stories, researching for cures, delivering care and supporting survivorship.

On behalf of Sisters Network Nashville let Fashioned in Faith inspire you to join the movement and live! Fashioned in Faith,

Mary Kelton Smith, Founder & PresidentSisters Network ® Inc. Nashville TN

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No matter what the path the outcome is the same. Breast cancer is defeated. Sister Mattie Pratt knew this. Sister Mattie ultimately defeated breast cancer when she went to live in eternity. But even before, Sister Mattie had defeated breast cancer. She defeated it when she refused to let it limit her. Sister Mattie refused in no uncertain terms to let breast cancer take abundant life from her – or from us. As she would often remind, “I am just moving right along.” That was the lesson she wanted us to remember – to keep moving right along – despite breast cancer, through breast cancer, and beyond breast cancer. Move right along to victory over breast cancer.

Through it all, Sister Pratt was “fashioned in faith” and therefore her memory gives us courage to continue becoming all that we were destined to be. We dedicate this calendar to Sister Mattie Pratt and to all breast cancer survivors moving along to victory.

Sister Mattie Pratt

Victory

Dedication

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HopeIn your thirties you are just starting to figure life out. There are careers to advance, relationships to build and families to nurture. At this point, you are just getting started. The last thing on your mind is breast cancer. Yet in 1992, at the tender age of thirty-one, Marsha K. Bullock had to think about breast cancer in the midst of being a young woman. And no, every day was not a breeze thereafter. Life never is.

What got Marsha through the tough times? It was her faith. Her faith affirmed, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13). Faith was her anchor. That was then. Thankfully, there is a now.

A vibrant fifteen year (and counting) breast cancer survivor, Marsha lives life to the fullest reading and spending time with her family. Having emerged a stronger and more confident woman, Marsha’s faith has been fashioned anew because of what she has gone through. Marsha’s faith has given way to hope. Hope that lives for today and eagerly looks forward to tomorrow.

“But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance.” (Romans 8:25)

Marsha K. BullockYear of Diagnosis: 1992

Age at Diagnosis: 31 years

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Gilda’s Club6:30 - 8:00

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New Year’s Day

Martin Luther King, Jr. Day

Breast Self-Exam (BSE) is an option for women starting in their 20s. Women should be told about the benefits and limitations of BSE. Women should report any changes in how their breasts look or feel to their health professional right away. If you decide to do BSE, you should have your doctor or nurse check your method to make sure you are doing it right. If you do BSE on a regular basis, you get to know how your breasts normally look and feel. Then you can more easily notice changes.

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Patience Caring for those in need, especially the elderly requires patience. Not everybody has the time or interest. Not everybody has the temperament to slow down and wait on those in need. That takes a special kind of person, one whose faith is fashioned in patience. Fortunately, there are still folks who do not mind taking time to care. Folks like Paula A. Smith, diagnosed with breast cancer in 1998 at the age of fifty-one.

Paula could have easily let breast cancer overwhelm her. Yet, those years of doing for others taught Paula something about waiting. Waiting is not the same thing as doing nothing. Waiting is about knowing who is really in charge. Waiting is about yielding to the Lord to do what needs to be done when it needs to be done. Paula’s waiting is what has seen her through 9 years of survival. For Paula patiently waiting is a way of life. Patience is what her faith is fashioned from through breast cancer and beyond.

“Wait on the Lord and be of good courage and he will strengthen thine heart, wait, I say wait

on the Lord.” (Psalms 27:14)

Paula A. SmithYear of Diagnosis: 1998

Age at Diagnosis: 51 years

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Gilda’s Club6:30 - 8:00

February 2008

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Ash Wednesday

Presidents’ Day

Valentine’s Day

Women in their 20s and 30s should have a Clinical Breast Exam (CBE) as part of a regular exam by a health expert, preferably every 3 years. After age 40, women should have a CBE by a health expert every year. It might be a good idea to have the CBE shortly before the mammogram. You can use the exam to learn what your own breasts feel like.

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Bernice knew what she needed. She wanted healing and support. You do not really appreciate how much you have, until you face your own mortality. That was especially the case in 2002 when Bernice Haynes was diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer at the age of fifty-five. Faced with losing both breasts, Bernice was shocked. Who wouldn’t be? Life is just getting good at fifty; now breast cancer. It is enough to throw anybody for a loop. But, you cannot stay shocked forever. And neither could Bernice.

Bernice needed to know that she did not have to walk the journey alone. And before Bernice could even ask, it had already been given. Bernice’s faith had fashioned for her abundance. There was not just enough. There was more than enough!

There was family and friends. There was her church family. There was Sisters Network Nashville. All of these hands and hearts were in her midst to help along the journey. Bernice did not have to walk alone for she had already been fashioned in abundance from the very beginning.

“Now to him that is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that

worketh in us.” (Ephesians 3:20)

Bernice HaynesYear of Diagnosis: 2002

Age at Diagnosis: 55 years

Abundance

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Sisters NetworkGilda’s Club6:30 - 8:00

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Daylight Savings Time

Good Friday

Have you scheduled your mammogram this year? Women age 40 and older should have a mammogram every year and should continue to do so for as long as they are in good health. While mammograms can miss some cancers, they are still a very good way to find breast cancer.

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ContentmentLife is what you make of it. If you see it as always hard and lacking joy, then guess what? It will be. Instead if you see life as an opportunity, then it can become a wonderful adventure. It is about being content no matter what the situation. That is a lesson Yvonne S. Abernathy understands well, especially after being diagnosed with breast cancer in 1998 at the age of forty-one.

Because life is an adventure worthy of living, Yvonne has learned not to sweat the small stuff. Life is way too short. Instead of making a fuss over little things, Yvonne focuses on what is important – loving her family, friends, and herself. It’s a lot easier to be you than to be somebody else. So why not fall in love with you? There is no greater joy than to be content in your own skin. Yvonne knows that. She is a woman whose life is wrapped up, tangled up, and fashioned in contentment.

“Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatever state I am, therewith to be content.” (Philippians 4:11)

Yvonne S. AbernathyYear of Diagnosis: 1998

Age at Diagnosis: 41 years

Have you ever been in sister’s presence and instantly felt at peace? That is serenity your feeling. Serenity is that quiet assurance that all is well. It is a sense of well-being that surrounds you like a warm blanket on a cold day. It is unmistakable. Serenity is the kind of faith Patricia Ann Burks is fashioned from, even after being diagnosed with breast cancer in 1998 at the age of forty-eight.

Gifted in sewing and interior decorating, Patricia knows how to bring things into right order. It is her attention to detail that helps her meet others’ needs so well. Serenity helps Patricia be in tune with the world around her. Serenity lets Patricia know what to do and when to do it. Patricia is sewn together with serenity.

““God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can;

and wisdom to know the difference.” -- Reinhold Niebuhr

Patricia Ann BurksYear of Diagnosis: 1998

Age at Diagnosis: 48 years

Serenity

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Gilda’s Club6:30 - 8:00

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April Fool’s Day

Passover Begins

An estimated 19,010 new cases of breast cancer are expected to occur among African American women in 2007.

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Perseverance

Gwenett Butler-LylesYear of Diagnosis: 2006

Age at Diagnosis: 49 years

When life hands you lemons, make lemonade. But don’t stop there. Make lemon cookies, lemon cake, and even some lemon squares. Take what you get and use what you have. Make it better and do it with style. That is what true artists do. They create the most beautiful things out of nothing. They take bad stuff or even hard times and make living works of art. Artists like Gwenett Butler-Lyles are just like that.

Artists also know that life sure can come in handy, if you know how to work it. So why would it not be the same with breast cancer. No, breast cancer was not what Gwenett expected when she was diagnosed in March 2006 at the age of forty-nine. But, who does expect a breast cancer diagnosis? For Gwenett, breast cancer is just another part of life. Breast cancer is a tool she uses to fashion her faith in perseverance.

Well, son, I’ll tell you: Life for me ain’t been no crystal stair.

It’s had tacks in it,And splinters,

And boards torn up,And places with no carpet on the floor --

Bare.But all the time

I’se been a-climbin’ on,And reachin’ landin’s,And turnin’ corners,

And sometimes goin’ in the darkWhere there ain’t been no light.

So boy, don’t you turn back.Don’t you set down on the steps‘Cause you finds it’s kinder hard.

Don’t you fall now --For I’se still goin’, honey,

I’se still climbin’,And life for me ain’t been no crystal stair. –

Langston Hughes

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Gilda’s Club6:30 - 8:00

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Memorial Day

Mother’s Day

Breast cancer is the most common cancer among African American women.

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“Joy. Joy. God’s great joy.” We sing these familiar words, but do we really understand what “joy” is all about. For many joy is something you have when things are going okay. But what happens when they are not? Do you still have joy, especially in the darkest hours? That’s when you really learn what joy is. That in many ways sums up Yvonne Starks experience, especially when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1999 at the age of thirty. Joy, even through breast cancer, is what kept Yvonne.

With a faith fashioned in joy, Yvonne has dedicated her living to bringing hope, help, and healing through her service to Sisters Network Nashville and to other breast cancer survivors. Breast cancer for Yvonne was not about an ending. It was about a new beginning and a bigger plan that God had for her life. And so what does Yvonne say to all of the things life and breast cancer has brought her way? She says, “I still have joy.” Yvonne Starks

Year of Diagnosis: 1999Age at Diagnosis: 30 years

Joy

“I will lift up mine eyes to the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber. Behold he

that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep. The Lord is thy keeper: the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy

coming in from this time forth, and even evermore.” (Psalms 121)

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June 2008

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Father’s Day

The incidence rate of breast cancer is about 12% lower in African American women than in white women; however, among younger African American women (under age 40), the incidence is higher than among white women.

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Some might think that strength is all about muscles and brawn. But, what about the strength it takes to face breast cancer? That takes a different kind of strength. Strength like that is not about lifting weights and flexing, but instead about believing that no matter what this too shall pass. The best is still yet to come. That’s the kind of strength Rhonda Lamb Nichols’ faith is fashioned in. It has been ever since she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2003 at the age of forty-one.

Having enjoyed successes like the Centennial Medical Center’s Celebration of Life Award (2006), Rhonda understands that those mountaintop moments are sweeter because of the valleys in life. Valleys make us stronger. Tests give us testimonies to share and blessings to celebrate. Yet, no matter the circumstance, one thing remains constant. Through it all Rhonda’s strength is the Lord, continually reminding her that everything is going to be alright.

“Nay in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.” (Romans 8:37)

Rhonda Lamb NicholsYear of Diagnosis: 2003

Age at Diagnosis: 41 years

Strength

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Gilda’s Club6:30 - 8:00

July 2008

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Independence Day

Breast Cancer incidence rates increased rapidly among African American women during the 1980’s, largely due to the increased use of mammography.

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“I believe I can flyI believe I can touch the sky

I think about it every night and daySpread my wings and fly away

I believe I can soarI see me running through that open door

I believe I can flyI believe I can fly

I believe I can fly.” – R. Kelly

Sometimes we get so wrapped up believing that life cannot happen to us that when it does we are shocked. We cocoon ourselves until we are forced to change. That is what happened to Frenetta Green when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2003 at the age of thirty-nine. Even though Frenetta had a family history of breast cancer, she never thought it could happen to her. And like so many, Frenetta thought cancer equaled death. Frenetta shielded herself from cancer behind a wall of denial.

Even in the midst of Frenetta’s treatment, it was hard to pay attention. It was like a dream; breast cancer was happening to somebody else. Thankfully, David, Frenetta’s husband was her eyes and ears when she needed them the most. But, Frenetta could not stay in a daze forever. Breast cancer had come knocking on her door. Frenetta had to be present and in the moment. Life was calling. It was her time to answer.

Like a butterfly emerging from a cocoon, the real Frenetta came forward. And she did better than she could have ever imagined. Frenetta emerged a new woman no longer afraid of cancer the way she once was. Ever changing, Frenetta’s faith allows her to soar the way she was always meant to.

Frenetta GreenYear of Diagnosis: 2003

Age at Diagnosis: 39 years

Change

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Since the early 1990’s, breast cancer incidence rates have stabilized among African American women aged 50 and older, and are decreasing among women under age 50.

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There are some things that increase in value with time -- priceless art, antiques, and wisdom – to name a few. And you can definitely add Minister Mildred Madry Weatherspoon to that list. She has gotten better even after her breast cancer diagnosis in 2005 at the age of seventy-one. Minister Mildred is steeped in wisdom through and through.

It is that wisdom Minister Mildred is fashioned in that allows her to do what she does. Writing, speaking, preaching and volunteering are just some of the ways God allows her to share her wisdom with others. And Minister Mildred wouldn’t have it any other way. For like any wise woman she knows it is more blessed to give than to receive.

“It is what you learn after you know it all that counts!” Mildred Madry Weatherspoon

Mildred Madry WeatherspoonYear of Diagnosis: 2005

Age at Diagnosis: 71 years

Wisdom

Can you remember the first time you ever tried to roller skate? You had the skates on, trying to keep your balance, yet were unsure of yourself? It took you some time to balance your weight. Maybe you fell down a time or two. But after awhile you were up and rolling along. Breast cancer is like that. Just ask Valerie Landrum, diagnosed with breast cancer in 2001 at the age of thirty-eight. With breast cancer, you learn to trust what’s happening around you. You learn to go with the flow of life. It’s about finding your balance.

Maybe it was from learning to skate that Valerie learned how to roll with breast cancer. Still skating today, Valerie trusts herself leaning through the curves, jamming to the beat and enjoying the ride. That’s why her faith is fashioned in trust. Trusting and enjoying the ride. That’s what life is really all about.

“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Valerie LandrumYear of Diagnosis: 2001Age at Diagnosis: 38 years

Trust

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Gilda’s Club6:30 - 8:00

September 2008

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Labor Day

An estimated 5,830 deaths from breast cancer are expected to occur among African American women in 2007.

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As you proceed into oncoming traffic, you hope that somebody will stop (or at least slow down) and let you in. In order for things to go smoothly, there has to be give and take. Despite the slogans, you cannot always have it your way. Sometimes you have to yield. That’s life and that’s the way it is. The sooner you get it the happier you will be. Brenda E. Harding-Jones, diagnosed with breast cancer in 2005 at the age of fifty-five definitely understands about yielding.

A faithful member of Sisters Network Nashville, Brenda was recognized by the organization in 2006 for her willingness to serve others. The recognition was just confirmation of who Brenda is – a woman fashioned from yielding. For Brenda yielding is not negative. Yielding is positive. Yielding allows your desires to mix with others (including God’s). Then the best can happen for everybody.

“Therefore I say unto you, what things soever ye desire, when you pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.”

(Mark 11:24)

“For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.” (Philippians 2:13)

Brenda E. Harding-JonesYear of Diagnosis: 2005

Age at Diagnosis: 55 years

Yielding

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Gilda’s Club6:30 - 8:00

October 2008

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Columbus Day

Halloween

Breast cancer is the second most common cause of cancer death among African American women, surpassed only by lung cancer.

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When is the best time to give thanks? Just on Thanksgiving. Or maybe just when everything is going according to plan. Well, if you ask Josie Tunstall Kendrick, diagnosed with breast cancer in 1982 at the age of twenty-four, she will probably tell you everyday and every way possible is a good time for thanksgiving. Thanksgiving for her is not a holiday. Thanksgiving is the way to live.

Using her life to give thanks for all the blessings she has received, even breast cancer, Josie is about the business of helping others. A faithful member of Sisters Network Nashville, Josie has been commended by the American Cancer Society and others for more than two decades of service. For her living is not about self, but about helping others. Josie’s faith is fashioned in thanksgiving not just in November, but the whole year long.

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds through

Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7)Josie Tunstall KendrickYear of Diagnosis: 1982

Age at Diagnosis: 24 years

Thanksgiving

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Daylight SavingsTime Ends Election Day

The steady decline in female breast cancer mortality since 1991 has been attributed to improvements in both early detection and treatment. However, there has been a notable divergence between long-term breast cancer mortality rates for white and African American women.

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Our families are the folks who give us roots and wings. Roots keep us grounded and tell us who we are. Wings help us soar and become all that we were created to be. No matter whether family is created by blood or choice, family matters especially when facing cancer. Just ask Scharlotte D. Walden, diagnosed with breast cancer in 2002 at the age of thirty-eight.

Family, especially her sons, is what Scharlotte focuses on most. No greater gift has she been given than to be a mom. And for this, Scharlotte remains determined to live her life to the fullest. For Scharlotte her faith is fashioned in family. Family helps her know who she is and where she is going.

Scharlotte D. WaldenYear of Diagnosis: 2002

Age at Diagnosis: 38 years

My Love

My Love, My Sons My Inspiration.My Love, My SonsMy Dedication.My Love, My SonsMy Devotion.My Love, My SonsMy Reasons.My Love, My SonsMy Confidence.My Love, My SonsMy Opinion.My Love, My SonsMy Understanding.My Love, My SonsMy Acceptance.My Love, My Sons

My Strength.My Love, My SonsMy Strive.My Love, My SonsMy Soul.My Love, My SonsMy Soul.My Love, My SonsMy Heart.My Love, My SonsMy Respect.My Love, My SonsMy Heroes.My Sons, My LoveMy Thanks. My God.Love Always, Momma.

Scharlotte D. Walden (for LaVontai and Corey)

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Breast cancer death rates among African American women increased 1.6% annually from 1975-1991 and declined thereafter. However, the decrease was larger in women age 50 (1.9% per year) than in women aged 50 and older (1.1%).

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To look at Eboni Francis you would never guess she is a breast cancer survivor. Diagnosed in 2005 at the age of twenty-eight, Eboni’s would not be the picture that would come to mind of a sister thriving beyond breast cancer. Not with all the things she has going for her—adored wife, active mother of two young sons, Children’s Church teacher, weight loss success, homeowner, marathoner, mentor – where would she have space to add “breast cancer” to that list of accomplishments. That’s the funny thing about breast cancer, it does not discriminate. It affects old and young alike. Don’t take my word for it, ask Eboni.

With none of the common breast cancer “risk factors” (older age, family history) all Eboni had to rely on was the sense that something was wrong. That nagging sense that she had to know was what kept her going until she finally got the answers she needed. Thankfully, she had a supportive family, especially a loving mother, who was there every step of the way. It is because of these blessings Eboni is fashioned in vibrancy for life and for living it!

“Lord please grant me peace for what you’re about to send my way.” – Eboni Francis

Eboni FrancisYear of Diagnosis: 2005

Age at Diagnosis: 26 years

Vibrancy

Insurance is what we buy to cover what might happen. Assurance is what covers you when things do happen. Insurance covers most things; assurance covers everything. You never want to be without assurance. That’s the kind of coverage Melanie Robinson had when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2004 at the age of fifty-two. Assurance that everything would work out come what may.

It is that same kind of assurance that Melanie travels with today as she keeps her body in shape exercising and secures peoples’ right to vote. Assurance gives Melanie confidence to be and give her best. Melanie’s faith is fashioned in assurance. Assurance – never live life without it!

“The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be

afraid?’ (Psalms 27:1)

Melanie RobinsonYear of Diagnosis: 2004

Age at Diagnosis: 52 years

Assurance

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During the early 1980’s, breast cancer death rates for white and African American women were approximately equal, yet during 2000-2003 African American women had 36% higher death rate than white women. This difference accounts for one-third of the excess cancer mortality experienced by African American women.

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“It’s over now. I feel like I can make it. The storm is over now.” What a testimony of overcoming. It is a declaration that the worst is behind; an assurance that everything will be alright. Rhoda Knight, diagnosed in 2005 with breast cancer at the age of fifty-one, knows about overcoming. Living through and beyond breast cancer teaches you that.

Overcoming is more than just about surviving the storm. It is about making it through the storm. It is about putting the pieces back together after the rain has stopped. Overcoming is about being stronger after than you were before the storm. Rhoda understands this. That’s why her faith is fashioned in overcoming. Rhoda is making it. She has gone through the storm and come out on the other side still standing.

“I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the Lord, which made

heaven and earth.” (Psalms 121:1-2)

Overcoming

Rhoda KnightYear of Diagnosis: 2005

Age at Diagnosis: 51 years

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The higher breast cancer mortality rate among African American women compared to white women occurs despite a lower incidence rate.

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Ever been given something for nothing? Been the recipient of a gift that you did not earn? Bestowed some honor that you may not have deserved? No, it has never happened to you? Then maybe you need a lesson in grace. Tracey Gardner, diagnosed with breast cancer on her 36th birthday in 2005 could teach you something about the subject. Tracey is a recipient of grace and not afraid to tell you so.

Because Tracey has been covered by grace she gives of herself, even to the point of participating in cancer clinical trials. Grace is just a part of her nature. And because Tracey knows that she is covered by grace, one day you will see her as a contestant on one of her favorite game shows, either Wheel of Fortune or Deal or No Deal. No doubt she will be picked because she has grace on her side. Tracey’s faith is fashioned in grace – and you better believe it!

“I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)

Tracey GardnerYear of Diagnosis: 2005

Age at Diagnosis: 36 years

Grace

What at testament – “I walk in peace.” Peace has nowadays become so cliché that most of us have no clue what it is to walk in peace. Peace is not about bank accounts, titles, or stuff. Peace is about knowing that all is well and walking in it. Just ask Gwendolyn Vernice Smith, diagnosed with breast cancer in 2004 at the age of fifty-nine. Go on ask her. Let Vernice tell you about peace.

See for Vernice peace is not just about what you say, it is about how you live. Whether it is motivational speaking, taking pictures, or reading to the blind, peace is a gift best had when it is shared with others. That’s why every morning Vernice thanks the Lord for what he has given, for those who will cross her path, and for the opportunity to serve. Vernice’s faith is fashioned in peace that transforms everything around her for the better.

“He will keep thee in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusts in thee.” (Isaiah 26:3)

Gwendolyn Vernice SmithYear of Diagnosis: 2004Age at Diagnosis: 59 years

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Factors that contribute to the higher death rates among African American women include differences in access to and utilization of early detection and treatment, risk factors that are differentially distributed by race or socioeconomic status, or biologic differences associated with race.

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When circumstances throw you for a loop you want assurance that it will be alright. “Am I covered? Does somebody have my back?” That is especially true when you face breast cancer. You want to know if everything is going to be okay. That was what Terri Searcy wanted to know when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2002 at the age of thirty-six. Terri wanted to know if she was covered.

Without a doubt, Terri is covered. She is thriving spiritually, mentally and physically beyond breast cancer. Terri is so covered by divine protection that she literally rests on God’s word, Psalms 23, to be exact. That scripture covers it all for Terri– needs, doubts, fears and victories. For that reason Terri’s faith is fashioned in coverage. No matter what, she is covered.

“The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness

for his name’s sake.” (Psalms 23:1-3)

Terri SearcyYear of Diagnosis: 2002

Age at Diagnosis: 36 years

Covered

Breast cancer is a scary thing. There is no way to get around that. But, like with any challenge you have two options – fight or flee. Fleeing will not make it go away. And fighting it does not have to be as scary as you think. It is all about your perspective. Good can come from fearful things. Just ask Doris Pulliam McLay, diagnosed with breast cancer in 1993 at the age of forty-one. When surgery changed her body, Doris was overwhelmed. She could have easily let her fears consume her. Yet, at this seemingly darkest moment Doris embraced fear. And guess what? It did not consume her. She had fear; it did not have her. She was not a victim. Doris was a victor.

That is the same spirit Doris has had throughout fourteen years of survivorship. This perspective helps Doris inspire others, including youth at her church and other Sisters Network Nashville members. Doris’ faith is fashioned in perspective. She is a victor, not a victim.

“I sought the Lord, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears.” (Psalms 34:4)

Doris Pulliam McLayYear of Diagnosis: 1993Age at Diagnosis: 41 years

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The 5-year relative survival rate for breast cancer diagnosed in 1996-2002 among African American women was 77%, compared with 90% among whites. This difference can be attributed to both later stage detection and poorer stage specific survival.

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“I am a promise, I am a possibility. I am a promise, with a capital “P.” I am a great big bundle of, potentiality.” That is what life is -- a possibility waiting to happen. Life will not happen until you happen. That’s a lesson Valeria A. Horton, diagnosed with breast cancer in 2004 at the age of forty-nine understands. Even though breast cancer was not what she expected to happen, it has brought some amazing possibilities.

Living is possible after breast cancer. Having successfully completed her first 5 mile run/walk for breast cancer, Valeria is looking forward to the possibility of doing it again. Through her experience Valeria has learned that all things are possible with God and that the impossible is possible. That’s why Valeria’s faith is fashioned in possibility through and through.

“Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of

the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:13-14)

Valeria A. HortonYear of Diagnosis: 2004

Age at Diagnosis: 49 years

Possibility

Remember the adage, “It is more blessed to give than receive.” We often forget that we are not only to give. We are supposed to receive, too. Receiving is not always easy, especially if you are not in the habit of being helped. Davie C. Jamison, diagnosed with breast cancer in 2002 at the age of fifty-three years can attest to that. However, life has a way of teaching you important lessons. Receiving is one of them.

Through her experience with breast cancer Davie gives -- to organizations like the American Cancer Society, Tennessee Comprehensive Cancer Coalition and Sisters Network Nashville. But just as important as giving, Davie has learned to graciously receive. Davie’s faith is fashioned in giving and receiving. Life is the gift we get. What we do with it is the gift we give.

“Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord is the one who goes before you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor forsake you.” (Deuteronomy 31:8)

Davie C. JamisonYear of Diagnosis: 2002

Age at Diagnosis: 53 years Receiving

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The reasons for survival differential have been studied extensively. Poorer outcomes among African American women persist even after accounting for socioeconomic status. Studies have documented unequal receipt of prompt, high-quality treatment for African American women compared to white women. There is also evidence that aggressive tumor characteristics are more common in African American women than white women.

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It has been said that the most powerful element in the universe is water. Why you might ask? Water is flexible. It can take on any shape – liquid, gas or solid. Water can be unassuming. It can be still and tranquil when required. Water can be forceful at times. It can move everything in its path. Water is without equal. The same is true for Mary Kelton Smith, diagnosed with breast cancer in 2000 at the age of thirty-eight. Mary is without equal.

Just ask the many who know Mary as a nurse professional, mother, wife, daughter, sister, artist or friend. Mary is like no other. Her gifts have made room for her bringing her recognition from Lifetime Television™, Sisters Network, Inc.™ and many others. Determined to testify to God’s presence in her life, in 2000 Mary asked God for a mission. Not just a mission, but her mission. And what God gave her in return was Sisters Network Nashville. Mary has been about the business for doing God’s business through Sisters Network ever since. Mary is a woman fashioned in determination and the world is a better place because of it.

“Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies…Give her the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gate.” (Proverbs 31:10, 31)

Mary Kelton SmithYear of Diagnosis: 2000Age at Diagnosis: 38 years

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Of all breast cancers diagnosed among African American women, 52% are diagnosed at a local stage, compared to 62% among white women. Within each stage, the 5-year survival is also greater among white women.

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• AmericanCancerSociety 615-327-0991 or 1·800·ACS·2345 The American Cancer Society is the nationwide community-based voluntary health organization dedicated to eliminating cancer as a major health problem by

preventing cancer, saving lives, and diminishing suffering from cancer, through research, education, advocacy, and service. • AmericanswithDisabilitiesAct(ADA) 800-949-4232 or 800-514-0301 The Americans with Disabilities Act gives civil rights protections to individuals with disabilities similar to those provided to individuals on the basis of race, color,

sex, national origin, age, and religion. It guarantees equal opportunity for individuals with disabilities in public accommodations, employment, transportation, State and local government services, and telecommunications.

• CancerCare 1-800-813-HOPE (4673) CancerCare is a national nonprofit organization that provides free, professional support services to anyone affected by cancer: people with cancer, caregivers,

children, loved ones, and the bereaved. CancerCare programs – including counseling, education, financial assistance and practical help – are provided by trained oncology social workers and are completely free of charge.

• CancerInformationServices 1–800–4–CANCER (800-422-6237) The National Cancer Institute’s Cancer Information Service provides the latest and most accurate cancer information to patients, their families, the public, and

health professionals. Through its network of regional offices, the CIS serves the United States, Puerto Rico, the U.S. Virgin Islands, and the Pacific Islands. The CIS provides personalized, confidential responses to specific questions about cancer.

• ChildSupportEnforcement 615-726-0530 Child Support Services of Davidson County - Child Support Office, a unit of the Tennessee Department of Human Services (DHS) offers numerous services

to parents or legal guardians trying to obtain financial and medical support for their child or children. Staff can help you locate a missing parent, establish paternity, obtain or modify court orders and enforce those orders. DHS also collects and distributes child support payments.

• CounselingServices/Family&ChildrenServices 615-327-0833 Family and Children Services through LifeWork Counseling Practice, provides individuals, couples and families with counseling services which focus on

solutions for a broad range of issues, including: relationships; stress, anxiety and depression; grief and loss; trauma and abuse; addiction; adoption; aging; and much more. Group counseling support for divorce, relationships, domestic violence, anger management and senior care is also available. Counseling is available Monday-Friday, 8 a.m. - 6 p.m., or at other pre-arranged times, at three convenient locations.

• CrisisInterventionCenterHotline 615-244-7444 Trained volunteers and staff assist callers with a wide variety of problems, including grief and loss, drug and alcohol problems, mental health issues, and

suicide. Compassionate telephone counselors are available round the clock, when no one else will listen. Available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

• CumberlandHeightsAlcohol&DrugTreatmentCenter 615-356-2700 Cumberland Heights is a nationally recognized alcohol and drug treatment center located west of Nashville on the Cumberland River, offering both in-patient

and out-patient services for individuals as well as programs for family members.

• FamilyGuidanceTrainingInstitute,Inc.(FGTI) 931-431-7580 Family Guidance Training Institute, Inc. (FGTI) (Clarksville) is committed to positively impacting the lives of our community’s children, youth and their families by

offering mental health counseling for individuals, families, and groups. FGTI’s community-based division, Hope Center, provides programs that seek to provide the inspiration and tools for hopeful living. Hopeful living is life with a purpose, a focus, and a future. Hope Center provides woman-centered activities, male development and support, and child development activities.

• Gilda’sClub 615-329-1124 Provides meeting places where men, women and children living with cancer, along with their families and friends, can join with others to build a personal

network of social and emotional support as an integral part of cancer treatment.Free of charge and non-profit, Gilda’s Clubs offer support and networking groups, seminars, workshops, specialized children’s programs and social events, in a nonresidential and home-like setting.

Sisters Network Inc. Nashville, TennesseeAffiliate Chapter of Sisters Network® Inc.

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• LegalAid 615-244-6610 Legal Aid provides access to justice for low-income and elderly people, and survivors of domestic violence, who have civil legal problems that affect their

health, safety and family stability. All services are free of charge. We work in the areas of Family Law relating to domestic violence (safety planning, Orders of Protection, counseling, divorce); Health Law (TennCare, Medicaid, nursing home rights); Housing (eviction, foreclosure, home improvement scams, discrimination, renters rights); Consumer Law (bankruptcy, garnishment, car loans, predatory lending); Public benefits (Social Security Disability, Supplemental Security Income, Unemployment Compensation); and Federal Income Tax (domestic violence “innocent spouse” relief, Earned Income Credit).

• LiveHelp/ComplementaryandAlternativeMedicine 1-888-644-6226 Live Help is a new service from the National Center for Complementary and Alternative Medicine (NCCAM). Information Specialists on Live Help can give

you information about Complementary and Alternative Medicine (CAM). Live Help does not provide medical advice or referrals to practitioners. Decisions about medical care and treatment should be made in consultation with a health care provider, based on the condition and needs of each person. NCCAM recommends discussing information on CAM with a health care provider before making any decisions about treatment or care.

• MetroActionCommission 615-862-8860 The Commission’s Community Service Assistance Program (CSAP) provides help to those who have lost income due to illness, involuntary work hour

reduction within the past 30-60 days, layoff or other unexpected crisis (Assistance with Rent, Mortgage, Water, and Delinquent Property Tax).

• MetroPoliceDepartment 615-880-3000 The Domestic Violence Section of the Metro Nashville Police Department provides assistance for domestic violence situations. Phones are manned from 8:00

a.m. to 10:00 p.m. Monday through Friday, with evening investigators who may be in at other hours. For help, call 862-8600; Call 911 if it is an emergency.

• MinniePearlCancerFoundation 615-467-1936 The Minnie Pearl Cancer Foundation is a public charity committed to funding programs that provide the greatest benefit to cancer patients and their families. By

supporting new programs in cancer research, education, and patient and family services, we honor the memory of Sarah Cannon, a cancer patient herself, who created the beloved character “Minnie Pearl.”

• MorningStarDomesticViolenceShelter 615-860-0003 Morning Star Shelter (Madison) provides assistance to persons experiencing domestic violence and abuse.

• SecondHarvestFoodBank 615-329-3491 Second Harvest’s mission is to feed hungry people and work to solve hunger issues in our community. The purpose of the organization is to provide a central

distribution center for companies, groups, and individuals who wish to help provide food for Middle Tennessee’s hungry.

• SistersNetwork®Inc. 866-781-1808 Sisters Network® Inc. is the leading voice and only national African American breast cancer survivorship organization in the United States. SNI promotes the

importance of breast health through empowerment, support, breast education programs, resources, information and research. • SistersNetwork®Nashville 615-299-5574 Sisters Network ® Nashville is one of forty-two affiliate chapters of Sisters Network ® Incorporated, the only African American breast cancer survivors’

organization in the United States. The first SNI chapter in Tennessee since March 2001, Sisters Network Nashville includes more than eighty breast cancer survivors and associate members. Support group meetings are conducted on the last Tuesday of every month at Gilda’s Club Nashville. Sisters Network Nashville also serves as a vital community resource for breast health workshops and other educational outreach projects.

• SusanG.KomenfortheCure® 615-383-0017 Komen for the Cure® is the world’s largest grassroots network of breast cancer survivors and activists fighting to save lives, empower people, ensure quality

care for all and energize science to find the cures. The Komen Affiliate Network is the nation’s largest private funder of community-based breast health education and breast cancer screening and treatment programs.

• Tennessee2-1-1 2-1-1 2-1-1 is an easy-to-remember telephone number that connects people with important community services and volunteer opportunities. 211 is a service of the

United Ways of Tennessee and the Tennessee Alliance of Information and Referral Systems.

• TennesseeBreastCancerCoalition (615) 377- 8777 The Tennessee Breast Cancer Coalition, established in 1995, is a grassroots organization dedicated to eradicating breast cancer through action and advocacy.

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RESOURCE LIST• TennesseeBreast&CervicalCancerScreeningProgram 877-969-6636 The Tennessee Breast and Cervical Cancer Screening Program provide clinical breast exams, mammograms, and Pap tests for eligible Tennessee women free

of charge.

• UjimaHouse 615-242-9260 Ujima House (Nashville) provides assistance to persons experiencing domestic violence and abuse.

• Vanderbilt-IngramCancerCenterInformationProgram 1-800-811-8480 The Vanderbilt-Ingram Cancer Center Information Program is a valuable resource for cancer patients, family members, and others seeking timely and accurate

information about cancer therapies and clinical trials.

• Vanderbilt-IngramCancerCenterPatientResourceCenter 615-322-9799 The Vanderbilt-Ingram Cancer Center Patient Resource Center provides cancer patients and their families with materials such as pamphlets, books, and videos

on all types of cancers, cancer treatments and options. Cancer patients and their families may take the pamphlets home or check out the books. Videotapes may be reviewed in the resource center, and there is a computer available to conduct online research. The Resource Center is open Monday through Friday, 7:30 am – 5:00 pm.

• TheWitnessProject®ofDavidsonCounty 615-340-0391 The Witness Project® is a grassroots, community-based breast and cervical cancer education program. Its goal is to educate African American women about

how best to protect themselves from breast and cervical cancer through meaningful discussion with women who have had cancer (witness role models) and concerned lay health advisors.

• YWCAShelter&DomesticViolenceProgram 615-242-1199 or 1-800-334-4628 If you or someone you know is in an unhealthy relationship, you can contact the YWCA. YW staff can provide information on community support groups, safety

planning, or information about shelters across Middle Tennessee, and someone is always available to listen.

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How to Perform a Breast Self-ExamBeginning in their 20s, women should be told about the benefits and limitations of breast self-exam (BSE). Women should be aware of how their breasts normally look and feel and report any new breast change to a health professional as soon as they are found. Finding a breast change does not mean there is a cancer.

Women can notice changes by being aware of how their breasts normally look and feel and by feeling their breasts for changes (breast awareness) or by choosing to use a step-by-step approach and using a specific schedule to examine her breasts.

Again, women with breast implants can do BSE. It may be helpful to have the surgeon help identify the edges of the implant so that you know what you are feeling. There is some thought that the implants push out the breast tissue and actually make it easier to examine.

If you choose to do BSE, the following information provides a step-by-step approach for the exam. The best time for a woman to examine her breasts is when the breasts are not tender or swollen. Women who are pregnant, breast-feeding, or have breast implants can also choose to examine their breasts regularly. Women who examine their breasts should

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Minister Madry Weatherspoon and Donna Starks Harris, mother/daughter breast cancer survivors

have their technique reviewed during their periodic health exams by their health care professional. It is acceptable for women to choose not to do BSE or to do BSE occasionally.

Women who choose not to do BSE should still be aware of their breasts and report any changes without delay to their doctor.

How to Examine Your Breasts

* Lie down and place your right arm behind your head.The exam is done while lying down, and not standing up. This is because when lying down the breast tissue spreads evenly over the chest wall and it is as thin as possible, making it much easier to feel all the breast tissue.

* Use the finger pads of the three middle fingers on your left hand to feel for lumps in the right breast. Use overlapping dime-sized circular motions of the finger pads to feel the breast tissue.

* Use 3 different levels of pressure to feel all the breast tissue. Light pressure is needed to feel the tissue closest to the skin; medium pressure to feel a little deeper; and firm pressure to feel the tissue closest to the chest and ribs. A firm ridge in the lower curve of each breast is normal. If you’re not sure how hard to press, talk with your doctor or nurse. Use each pressure level to feel the breast tissue before moving on to the next spot.

* Move around the breast in an up and down pattern starting at an imaginary line drawn straight down your side from the underarm and moving across the breast to the middle of the chest bone.(sternum or breastbone). Be sure to check the entire breast area going down until you feel only ribs and up to the neck or collar bone (clavicle).

* There is some evidence to suggest that the up and down pattern (sometimes called the vertical pattern) is the most effective pattern for covering the entire breast without missing any breast tissue.

* Repeat the exam on your left breast, using the finger pads of the right hand.

* While standing in front of a mirror with your hands pressing firmly down on your hips, look at your breasts for any changes of size, shape, contour, dimpling, or redness or scaliness of the nipple or breast skin. (The pressing down on the hips position contracts the chest wall muscles and enhances any breast changes.)

* Examine each underarm while sitting up or standing and with your arm only slightly raised so you can easily feel in this area. Raising your arm straight up tightens the tissue in this area and makes it difficult to examine.

This procedure for doing breast self-exam is different than previous procedure recommendations. These changes represent an extensive review of the medical literature and input from an expert advisory group. There is evidence that the woman’s position (lying down), area felt, pattern of coverage of the breast, and use of different amounts of pressure increase the sensitivity of BSE as measured with silicone models. Lying down also made it easier to feel lumps while doing CBE using patient models with known small non-cancerous lumps in their breasts.Copyright 2007 © American Cancer Society, Inc.

More information about breast cancer is available in the American Cancer Society publication Breast Cancer Facts & Figures (8610.05) or from the American Cancer Society website, www.cancer.org

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