DREAM ??????. WHAT IS DREAM ??????? DREAM We all have DREAMS………………………….. We all want something from life………… What is one of your Dreams…………………

DREAM ??????

WHAT IS DREAM ???????

DREAM• We all have DREAMS…………………………..

• We all want something from life…………

• What is one of your Dreams…………………

DREAM DREAM everything

DREAM anything

BUT……….

…………..

DREAM HIGH

…………………Take a moment now just to

DREAM

Think about what you really want for your lifeThink for 5 minutes about your DREAMS

………………………….

DREAM for your desires in life

NOW TAKE ACTION• It is not what we do in a while that counts,

but our consistent ACTION

WHAT IS THE FATHER OF ALL ACTIONS ??????

DECISION IS THE FATHER OF ALL ACTIONS

Our DECISIONS not the conditions

determine our

DESTINY

…………………….TAKE A DECISION

NOW

COMMITMENT & CONVICTION• Realize the power of a single DECISION acted

upon immediately and with conviction

TAKE UNSTOPPABLE ACTION TO YOUR DECISION NOW

COMMITMENT

The secret to follow a DECISION is to make a public commitment, one so forceful you cannot turn back from it

WHAT WOULD YOU DO TO INVOKE GREAT LEVEL OF PASSION, CONVICTION AND

ACTION TO UNSTPPABLE MOMENTUM

DECISIONS OF PAST Write down

FIVE DECISIONS of past that powerfully influenced your life today

Make a DECISION TODAY that can change or improve the quality of your life

• Do something you have been putting off……….......

• Master a new set of skills………………………………......

• Treat people with newfound set of respect and compassion……………………………………………..............

• Call someone you haven’t spoken to in years………

EFFECTS OF DECISIONS

• Just know that All DECISIONS Have consequences

• Even not taking a DECISION at all is a DECISION in its own way

DECIDE TO CHANGE UNHAPPY THINGS

If there’s anything you’re not happy about………..

• In your relationship…………………………………………………• In your health…………………………………………………………• In your career………………………………………………………….

Make a DECISION right now to change it immediately

TWO DECISIONS TODAY Today, make two DECISIONS you have been

putting off• One easy………………………………………………………• One that’s bit more far reaching……………………

THE MORE DECISIONS YOU MAKE, THE BETTER YOU’LL BECOME AT MAKING THEM

DECISIONS MAKE MUSCLES AND MUSCLES BECOME STRONGER WITH USE

RAPID DECISIONS BUT WELL THOUGHT

• Those who succeed tend to make DECISIONS rapidly and are slow to reverse a well thought out position

Conversely• People who fail usually decide slowly and change

them frequently

NOW WHERE YOU ARE ????

START PRACTICAL FOR YOUR DREAMS

GUIDELINES FOR GOAL SETTING

HOW TO DESIGN A GOAL1- SPECIFIC2- MEASURABLE3- ACHIEVABLE4- REALISTIC5- TIME

SMART

Principle

THE GOAL MUST BE……………1- WRITTEN2- FOCUS3- COMMITMENT4- BELIEVE5- NEVER QUIT

QUITTERS NEVER WIN----WINNERS NEVER QUIT

SETTING GOALS• 10 minutes daily- for next 4 days• Keep a permanent record of these goals

• Constantly ask yourself…………

• What do I want from my life?• What I want to be?• What am I committed to?• What am I happy about?• What am I proud about?• What am I grateful about?• What do I love?• What loves me?• What will enhance the quality of my life?

• Give each of your GOALS • a timeline (6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years)

• Highlight your top 1 year GOAL

NOW

• RIGHT A PARAGRAPH THAT WHY YOU ARE COMMITTED TO ACHIEVING THIS GOAL……………………………………………………..

Day-1- Personal Development Goals

Personal well-being is Foundation for every

ACHIEVEMENT1- Take 5 minutes to brainstorm all possibilities• What would you like to learn? • What skills do you want to master?• What would your friends be?• Who would you be?

Day-2- CAREER/BUSINESS/ECONOMIC GOALS

1- Take 5 minutes to brainstorm all possibilities

• How much money do you want to accumulate?• What do you wish to achieve with your career?• How much do you wish to earn annually?• What financial decisions do you need to make?

Day-3- ADVENTURE GOALS

1- Take 5 minutes to brainstorm all possibilities

• WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO BUILD OR PURCHASE?• WHAT EVENTS WOULD YOU LIKE TO ATTEND?• WHAT ADVENTURES WOULD YOU LIKE TO EXPERIENCE?

Day-4- CONTRIBUTION GOALS• This is your opportunity to create a legacy to

make true difference in others lives1- Take 5 minutes to brainstorm all possibilities

• HOW CAN YOU CONTRIBUTE?• WHO OR WHAT CAN YOU CONTRIBUTE?• WHAT CAN YOU CREATE?

• Give each of your GOALS • a timeline (6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years)

• Highlight your top 1 year GOAL

NOW

• RIGHT A PARAGRAPH THAT WHY YOU ARE COMMITTED TO ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS……………………………………………………..

MAKE A LIST OF ACTIONS FOR 10 DAYS

1- Take first ACTION towards your GOALS

2- Make a list of next 10 days to experience daily

3- Add simple things to your list

4- Develop this habit in next 10 days

LIFE CHANGING EDUCATION

WHAT IS

success

WHAT IS SUCCESS ????• A Pleasure ?• A Free Ride ?• A Dream ?• A Desire ?• Sweet , Without Pain ?• Ask it Get it ?• Easy ?

WRONG

ONLY FANTASY NOT REAL

WHAT IS SUCCESS ????• Tough………….• Challenging…………• Frustrations………• Dissatisfaction……• Resistance………..• Hardworking……..• Rough………….

ALL SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE GO THROUGH THIS

AS

NOTHING IS FREE IN THIS WORLD

LIFE CHANGING EDUCATION

13 HIDDEN VALUES OF SUCCESS

13 HIDDEN VALUES OF SUCCESS1- Attitude to Success2- Leadership Skills3- Communication Skills4- People’s Skills5- Overcoming Personal Fears, Doubts & Lack of Confidence6- Overcoming the Fear of Rejection7- Money Management Skills8- Investing Time, Resources & Money Skills9- Accounting Skills10- Time Management Skills11- Goal Setting12- Systemization13- Dreamer

HOW DO YOU CREATE YOUR LIFE

FORCE-1.

1- CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS

2- CONTROL YOUR PHYSIOLOGY

EMOTONS ARE E-MOTIONS1- SHIFT YOUR STATE OF MIND OR MENTAL FOCUS—Think of the best moments

of your life

2- Always Remain in High Spirits

• Feel Happy• Sing • Exercise• Do Love & Feel Loved• Study• Watch Movies. etc. etc …………………………………………………

CONTROL YOUR PHYSIOLOGY AND BODY LANGUAGE

1- CHANGE YOUR PHYSIOLOGY ( -VE TO +VE )2- CHANGE YOUR BODY LANGUAGE

• Shoulders High• Exercise• Dance• Head Up• Point out Your –ve and +ve Areas of Life

COMMUNICATION SKILLS• 1- Words-------------------------------7%• 2- Voice Quality----------------------38%• 3- Physiology--------------------------55%

• People don’t remember what you say rather they remember how do you say

• Thus, Body Language actually influence people• Quaid-i-Azam, Bhutto, Churchill, Hitler……….

-VE TO +VE• Write your answer on a peace of paper and draw

a line down the centre of the page• On the left, list all –ve emotions and on the right

the +ve

DOES THE (im)BALANCE REFLECT THE RESULTS YOU HAVE PRODUCED UNTIL TODAY?

AWARENESS IS FIRST STEP

HOW DO YOU CREATE YOUR LIFE

• FORCE- 2.

• FOCUS AND BELIEF

• VALUES OF YOUR LOVE & STRESS• RULES OF YOUR LOVE & STRESS

HOW DO YOU CREATE YOUR LIFE

• FORCE- 3.• LANGUAGE• WHAT ARE YOU SAYING

YES OR NOLOUD OR SLOW

DEPRESSED OR HAPPY

…………………………………

WHAT ISOUR NATIONAL ANTHEM

OUR NATIONAL ATHEM• I CAN’T DO THIS• I CAN’T DO THAT• I CAN’T AFFORD THIS• I CAN’T AFFORD THAT

DO YOU WANT TO CHANGE THIS ANTHEM ???

NEW NATIONAL ANTHEM

INTELLIGENT, MASSIVE, IMMEDIATE ACTION

• I TAKE ACTION• WORK-----WORKS• HARD WORK-----WORKS• SMART & HARD WORK-----WORKS• I ALWAYS GO FORWARD---NEVER

BACKWARDS

TIME TO CHANGE YOURSELF

• In Order to Change Things You Must Change Yourself

• Change your communication between your BODY and MIND

• Change the word SHOULD BE to MUST BE

THREE CHOICES NOW

• 1- CRY• 2- LAY DOWN• 3- SHOUT

YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES

YES

RIGHT TIME OF CHANGE

RIGHT NOW

•THAT’S IT•NO MORE•NEVER AGAIN• ITS OVER

CHANGE• I Should Do It• I Will Do It• I Can Do It

•I Must Do It

I MUST DO IT• I MUST DO IT • I MUST DO IT• I MUST DO IT

• I MUST DO IT …….NOW

• I MUST ACHIEVE MY GOALS• I MUST BREAK MY BARRIERS

RIGHT TIME OF CHANGE

RIGHT NOW

•THAT’S IT•NO MORE•NEVER AGAIN• ITS OVER

THANK YOU

Dr. Murtaza Iqbal

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