Coaching: Effective Communication

Islamic Life Management

SeriesCoaching

For Effective

Communication

Summary• Types of

Communication

• Islamic Perspective

Summary• Qualities-

Effective Communicators

• Tools to Use

Effective Communication

Communication Takes Place in Many

Forms

Types of Communication

EffectiveIneffective

Ineffective

Yelling Ignoring

SarcasmIntimidatio

n

What is Produced

The Results are the Same or Worse than

before…

Effective Communication

What you intend to say is heard and understood

What is Produced

Balance

Balance

Spirit Family

Work Social

Self

An Islamic View

Fisabililah

An Islamic View

Nafs

Communication Islam

Fisabililah

In the Way of ALLAH

Communication Islam

Nafs

Immature Spoiled

Communication Islam

Fisabililah

Controls Nafs

Communication in Qur’an

6:68

And when you see those who enter into false discourses about Our communications,

Communication in Qur’an

6:68

withdraw from them until they enter into some other discourse.

SynopsisAvoid the company of

those who participate in vain or unnecessary

discourse

Communication in Qur’an

16:79

Do they not see the birds, constrained in the middle of the sky?

Communication in Qur’an

16:79

None withholds them but Allah; most surely there is communication in this for a people who believe.

SynopsisWe often miss

communication that is in front of us

Qualities of Effective

Communicators

QualitiesProphets

and Messengers

QualitiesLeadership

Trustworthy 

QualitiesConfident

Speak Succinctly 

QualitiesThink of Others

Skilled 

Qualities

Courageous 

8 Tools to Use

1. Avoid Meanness and Arrogance

2. Judge Actions not People

Tools to Use

3. Keep Your Word

4. Avoid Gossip and Fitnah

Tools to Use

5. Be Patient

6. Be Slow to Anger

Tools to Use

7. Plan What you Want to Say

8. Appreciate Others’ Time

Tools to Use

Speak to the Present Situation

Keep it Concise

Communication

Effective Communication

Allows Everyone to be Heard